It's easier to love chi buti kohanim. What is more beautiful: love chi buti kohanoy? Friendship that grows into a kohanny
Bagato girls and women ask what is better, kohachi chi buti kohanoyu, to that there are a lot of people who have not been slandered by mutual love and, in a right way, have not once died. Even if you truly love a person, then you will rest in peace. To that it is possible to love boldly and be a kohana and it is not necessary to choose alone.
In the article you know why a lot of people don’t know which is better kohati otherwise, be kohanoy and navіscho vzagali choose one, so you can take away those and others. Our life is a great choice, but at times it’s a mess, it’s necessary to choose those and others.
Learn to love
In order to stop fighting and accept the decision to love, but be a kohana, you just learn how to properly love a person like that, with your heart, and not with his mystical thoughts. Don’t joke and don’t run after all the lads and people, roam in such a way and give free rein to your soul to choose what you really need.
Give everything you want to take
Most women and girls swear that they cannot know a good lad or a man, who does not like the stink of them, but at one time the girls and women themselves do not give the same respect to their lads or men. In order to understand to love, or be a kohana, just fix your kokhannya yakomog more often and then, and it will turn a hundredfold before you. The one who sees more, takes more, we cannot change such a law of nature.
To love means to stop fighting
Love vzagali is not related to our material world, because everything is here for us, for the fermentation of the spiritual world and as your souls fell in love and knew only one, then you also love the material world. The axis of which is to understand the kohanna, or be a kohanoy, it is necessary to grow up in the sight of his mystical thoughts and know your soul. If you begin to examine your soul even a little bit, you will understand why she took that other person. In the meantime, relax and live happily.
Whom can I love more: a man or a woman? Superechka, accept love chi vaddavati and chi so need to be reconciled with її strength, mabut, be eternal.
We understand that no one is to blame for anything, especially in the kohanna. The need to love and buti cohanim is laid down by nature, so our strengths are so pragmatic in reciprocity. To know what you love and whoever you need is more happy
Be careful, how to recapture your emotions only in view of one fact, the basis of a kohan is unearthly nast. And to sound kohannya on sumnіvnyh vagah "like it is necessary", to compare with others, to win, to go down in standards - all these manipulations are almost impossible to accept and do not change hundreds of dollars.
Oh, how sweetly they die, they are so sweet at the time of the first flickers, they mingle with trinkets and super girls, they are so sweet and innocent: "I Love You, I Love You" - "no, I!" It’s not up to laughing if one is true, it’s strong and mean, and the other one is “Thank you, I’m welcome.”
It should be noted that if you are well-trained, you know a bet with a visible advantage of killing someone from your partners. In one couple, the wife dominates. Vaughn blows the powders, everything is trying to reach and pass on that thought, that bazhannya. Vіn can graciously accept love, and sometimes bezkarno koristuєtsya his camp, insolently manipulating. Like an antipode - illustrations from the series "Little Rose Princess and її Virniy Page", even if you wear your dress on your hands, adore, offer, forgive weaknesses and indulge your whims. If no one suffers from such a distribution of roles, then everyone is happy. Ale, ring out, like a rolling pin, here the thought sits deep: "I deserve credit for the Great, I deserve credit for the special setting."
Myth and reality.
From the childhood of mothers, grandmother and friends of friends, one can often feel: "A couple to love alone, and the other one allows himself to love. A person is guilty of loving more strongly - if you love wine, adore, you don’t go, don’t change, don’t hurt, such a union will be mіtsnim And let's do it. Whoever has less clogging in the vents, all the power belongs to him." At the same time, the attitudes of the minds of the minds of the people of the Russian Federation should take care of the real picture. It’s important to put up with them, to win is even more important, and when you see the recent novels, you’ll think again: “Singing, Mama Bula is Right.” It dawned on me that the expansion of myths can not be expected. There are no rules for the kohanna, you pick your own skin, it’s more pleasant. Ale zhittєva position mіtsno occupied and not pіdlyagaє vіdstupu.
Zvichka "- tse own control over the situation" Vіddavati. The role of the victim has been chosen, so that at the right moment you can victorious in the heat of welding: "I'm Stilki Tobi Viddala Stilki for You Zrobil". They gave the following report list of sacrifices, throwing on the vіvtar of the "Less-handed" kokhannya: stained glass windows best rock, improvement of health, use of capacity. In other words, the partner cultivates a little guilt and puts a heavy burden on him. You can be enlightened. Vіddaєte - vіddaєte, invest - invest, but take as a gift. Secretly and obviously angry that they don’t value you, don’t respect you, beat you out of the door. And yet, you yourself have taken away such a partner and your behavior. What is the use of vimagati of a special roztashuvannya for yourself, you won’t be forcibly nice. Less than that vipadku, like vіddavati, then voluntarily, love - madly, not paying for return.
Zinaida, 29 years. "Love is so very kind and acceptable, like being a kohanoy. I don't presume to judge, I don't dare to love a person much. in words, now? Stronger - weaker, how the kohanna fights, how you start to distort, what do you need for the fittings?
Those who are afraid that their hearts will rise, all will go ahead. It’s scary to be scared, oskіlki control over oneself will be irrevocably vtracheny and it’s possible to feel like a whole. Therefore, you have the freedom to brother, take a kohanny. Zvichka "- a way to defend" Brothers. Selecting people, almost like those to overturn yours, in such a rank you will try to protect your heart in the light of a novel at the time of the unexpected result. Spozhivcha ideology brothers, without saying anything natomist - "and Hai Mene Love" - is flawed for its sutty. Do not go too far to be greedy with the people of that її setting. Why should one obov'yazkovo block it, but how can one allow one to sit on one's shoulders, yogo vlashtov, and wine of satisfaction? Are you convinced that you are happy, and that you do not threaten the future with anything?
Maria, 27 years. "You see, if a person loves me more strongly, it’s easier for me, it’s better and safer for me. I know that in every moment of wine I’ll do everything for me, for my good, for our hundred sons. It was an unearthly thing for me. I don’t want to anymore. , I know on the birch, while I see the ocean of love addiction.
In a normal couple, the role of the one who gives and takes is drawn in equal proportions is called harmony. Bazhannya vіddavati go in the heart, in the soul; take and accept from vdyachnistyu. It is necessary to appreciate the display of an insanely insane cowardice. If you want to sit on your shoulder for a long time, or give yourself without too much, everything can end badly.
Olena, 30 years. "A man, as if seen, a thoughtful man, he is guilty of conquering his wife all his life, and if he loves a girl more, then what is his interest? happy homeland. In happy couples, partners one to one will quickly die again. Everything starts with a tsukerkov period, then we accumulate frustration, mutually throw up, strain. A normal couple as a result of all conflicts is gone. From the beginning of the same time, "anew zakohannosti" sounds to fall on the admission or on the new haircut of the squad. The axis is in me the theory of the first drive.
How do you die?
The golovny show of the strength of the kokhannya is the tse vchinki. "Love" - tse word. Small gestures, serious vchinki, show turboti, respect, participation - everything is included in the treasury of stosunkiv i, zreshtoyu, help with the resolution of conflicts. Let us turn on the economy in the sphere of love affairs and it is conceivable from a material point of view. It is possible that your money is your own bank, an emotional rozrahunkovy rahunok: you put in leather insoles, you pay for money. Rozrahunok rightly over the mustache - tse. Albeit one to love, the other one allows, one deposit, and the other one skips deposits, but it’s always corralled by a rahunka, it doesn’t lead to anything, it legitimately looks like a taxed payer, and the bank account’s bank deposit disappears.
It is necessary to follow the emotional balance at once and regularly pay the "Payment". A friend of mine loves to repeat: "No way Buvay Zanadto." I'll wait a little longer with this hypothesis, I need to give it up, while I'm still in the mood. "As soon as I start thinking about it, I'm trying to get drunk, invest, then the other side calls and learns how to appreciate my blows. Really, if you want to work on the reception, work on it, or on the other hand, it's not significant for the kokhan, don't work hard that is for the sake of us in front of ourselves”.
A rich woman of style to dramatize life, decorate and bachiti everything in dark colors. Comparing themselves with other women, they begin to “gain” complexes and build up fears. Aje htos zavzhdi zadaetsya happy and privablichim. Why is it so true? You cannot judge a person without knowing him. The maiden begins to work, try to get closer to the opposite statute, and sometimes you can know the truth about failure. Ale tse zovsim does not mean that she is doomed.
The problem is the situation itself - a fanatical practice of meti and rejection of shock leads to deep depression. Don’t get hung up, it’s necessary for us to grow up with your own. What are you ready to do, so that your life will flow in a different direction? It is necessary to start changing the initial setting to yourself. How can you help me? The conclusion is obvious - the phrase “I want to love and be a kohanoy” stop being an unattainable method for you!
I hear this idea often. With yakim dokorinno not suitable.
For a normal woman, it is important to love mutually, everything else is just a choice of two. It’s easy to show me how you can live in one day and lie down in a bed with people, to the point of baiduzha. It’s hellish, and vitrimati like that can be less than derevyanі women, like they don’t give a damn about everything, krіm zamіzhny status. I have a friend in me, as if on the cob of our acquaintance she kept repeating that she had come to life without a kohanna, and a man died a little with a year, for a good position before her. And an hour later I realized that all my zamіzhne life she was getting "love" on the side, to that in a normal person the need for love is as strong as it is needed for a kohanoy.
And those who can fall in love with vdyachnosti - the greatest self-deception, for which we can have great masters.
Kohanna has no symmetry. Somebody loves romantically out of a bet, and some people feel more like their relatives, some have more expressions of an erotic component, some have special features.
To the point, in nature, there is no new symmetry, and it has been brought through an experimental path that symmetry calls out in people under the influence of trade. If you want to get drunk, it can be "troch wrong".
Ale at once not about tse.
Even more often, lovemaking is created for the richness of the greater fortune of one of the partners. Do you remember? Who wants to love, and who doesn’t allow himself to love.
I give up with riches, that We love you, but we love you, we love you. Ale chi tse so?
Feel like love, passion, romantic pidyom - it's kind of hot, as if helping one person painlessly to succumb to another. If you love, then you don’t mark your brothers, if you step over yourself into something, into which you are not aware, you become respectful, enter the camp of the other, show a rose and give a podtrimka.
Those who have to work on the cob family vіdnosin For the one who loves, work is made easier.
And the one who love more, On the family, the rizumi, praitzyno prazuvati over the barrels of harmonious іsnuvannya, the axis of the palette at the visible bazhann is not vistachi, but to the male of yoma, more than the sizes of the sincere, the lining of the sincere, the lining of the sincere, the lining
In this rank, entering into the presence of a person who loves you, it is necessary to convince those that YOUR path itself will be bound by significant difficulties and a great inner work. If you are not ready for this, you should rather look at these stosunkivs.
If you love you, then more majestic happiness, if you understand, then you can build your union on this basis. Such a blue is possible, but for the mind of a serious work.
Majestic dominion is taken away by the Kohan man over the Kohayucho Yogo man. Vmiyte koristuvatisya tsієyu power, utrymaetsya look calm "go to the top" on the one who loves you, for that one "endure everything."
The history of the practice of a psychologist is too rich, if (as one of my wise clients said) the law of physics works:
The addiction of the one who loves obov'yazkovo with the hour is weaker, and the axis is the same as the one who was loved, seeing too much discomfort - he was pinned to the kohanny, he was pinned to the deposits, and the wine is already quite stale in the form of their emotional infusions.
I gave, like a thriller, to enter the arena of the one who loves: they formed an ideal mind for their own revenge. See, what is called kіshtsi bear's tears for the new program, and, as my grandmother used to say, "the close one, you won't taste it."
Tse article-nagaduvachka))) - Treasure team, who loves you.
I can’t help but add to the tsієї statti Commentary on Skli, because in the new the whole essence (nі, zovsіm not my statti), the whole essence of vodnosin, life, love:
Love is a marvel, a charm, a gift of a share. Love gives strength to forget and overcome your fears, complexes, distrust, innocence. Who to love is God. You have the strength to be strong, lower, kind, tolerant, so as not to point out anything natomist. Like a language about a kohannya - it’s the best in you.
Through love, you know what is right for yourself. To myself, clean, without any calamity sum'yattya and sumniv_v.
Buti kohanim - tse tyagar.
Love is freedom.
And go ahead, stink to give strength voluntarily, freely and with a smile to accept the wine of happiness and burdens buti s іnhim.
Aphorisms and quotes on the topic Love chi buti kohanoy
In life, there is only one happiness - to love and be kohanoy.
George Sand
I want to be kohanoy, but be sensible - they are the same.
Bettina Arnim
How little they need: Abi they loved them. Yak richly їm required ...
Henryk Jagodzinsky
The woman is the weakest, if she loves, and the strongest - if she is a kokhan.
Erikh Osterfeld
Shchob buti kokhanoy, best buti garnoy. Ale shchob buti garnoy, the need for buti kokhanoy.
Françoise Sagan
Buti kohanoy - the word is wrong. Vіn may be only a few minutes that future hour, but not may today.
Yanina Ipohorska
If you want to buti kohanim, kohai.
Seneca
I love and kohan. Unfortunately, I'm not the only one and the same person.
Yanina Ipohorska
Do not be kohanoy - unhappy; stop being a kohanoi - an image.
Charles Montesque
It's hell - if you can't love anymore.
Georges Bernanos
I already loved Yogo a little less, more I loved you a little more.
Andre Zhid
The need for love is so strong in people that other women start to love to make good people.
Petigrill
The woman doesn’t want to talk about її amorous right, but if you want everyone to know that there is a kokhan.
André Maurois
I deserve not only to be a kohana, but they said about me that I am a kokhana.
George Eliot (Mary Ann Evans)
A woman doesn’t want to understand that she loves її forever - but it doesn’t mean to love її all the time, without interruption.
Jacques Deval
There is no such thing as an unruly kohannya. Like you say, "I love you," you mean, "Love me."
Andre Birabo
Kokhannya is the best policy; not only for the one who loves, but for the one who loves.
Aldous Huxley
Love is strong for self-love: a woman can be loved, if she doesn't care about you.
Luc de Vauvenargues
If you love a woman, then, in fact, the one you love is not you. Ale to the one whom she no longer loves - to yourself.
Paul Gerald
That person, like you love me, is extremely beautiful for me: I'm not like that. Ale ti love, and I will try to be good for myself.
Mikhailo Prishvin
“What is more beautiful - love chi buti kohanim?” - "Kohachi. Here you have a b choice."
French historian Léon Treich, with references to the Duchess of Clausel
“Why do you think it’s better to love, anizh buti kokhanim?” - “Because it’s better!”
Sashko? Gіtry
We pragnemo love others, so that mothers will bring love to themselves.
Denis Didro
For a person, there is nothing to hide, a lower obitsyanka loves yoga “forward”, at that hour, as a vin will be bi buti kohanim, it’s two or three.
Helen Rowland
For a woman, do not be a kohana - misfortune, no way to love - a tragedy.
Dorothy Dix
So easy buti kohanim, so important kohati.
Francis Scott Fitzgerald
Why is it important for some to know what you love, while for others it is important to love yourself?
One even more popular Russian song is already richly rocky and in its creativity, and more traditional way of telling about its unearthly, impassable love to the other way than the popular Russian song.
Tse part of yoga image i, ymovіrno, yoga nature. Naytsіkavіshe, scho for tsієї people not є pershoznachnuyu reciprocity. You get drunk with the power of love, and її inseparability gives you a special affinity for yoga for the senses.
It is even easier to love an ideal. Vіn can't be enchanted, vіn zavzhdí stagnant, vіn inventions by us and by ourselves at our request. Tse kohannya, like a fire, it’s insured against roses. One word, I can hardly see it.
Zvorotna istoriya - a person cannot live without seeing that it is crazy to love. And it is not so important to love someone. Golovnya, schob vіn postiyno vіdchuvav chiyus shalenu zalezhіnі vіd ny.
Such people often collect shanuvalnikov or shanuvalnitsa, and constantly monitor the steps of love, as a kind of pretentiousness. The reasons for this are: internal complexes that eat a person in the middle, “asked” for self-sufficiency, hypertrophy of his centrism.
and etc. Behind the list. But there is a paradox for the fact that women themselves know them, suffocate and live with them, ruining themselves and their lives.
Why does everything seem like this? In our to the current world way of life is on a voluntary basis, tobto. skin rob svіdomy vybіr, and yakscho you started to be put up to the filthy lad - tse your vybіr. And how, in your opinion, your fiancé turned out to be a “dagger”, who will you entrust to him?
If you want to live with a king, then at once become a princess! Tse means that you are guilty of learning to value us in front of you.
The women who are ready to sacrifice, the people vyznachayut shvidko. І vіdpovіdno otmenyut tsim іz satisfied koristuvatisya. If you don’t love and appreciate yourself, then your life will have only “goats” chirping all the time, as if you will be courting and self-assertive for your rahunok. You have a choice either to live with filthy lads and to sacrifice yourself for them, or to learn to love and respect yourself, and to believe that you are only the best in your life.
Do not take the role of the victim.
Cholovik, what a day you can’t be allowed, so you suffered. Vіn rob everything, so that you feel yourself happy with that kohanoy order from him. And you will not be able to cry in order with him, hiba in joy.
And remember, man, which made you cry, never appreciate your tears, but, therefore, you are unworthy.
Obviously, kokhannya cannot tolerate hisism. You can’t just accept love, you need to її i vіddavati, but alе vіddavati tim, hto її good. Remember, like Eduard Asadov:
“To love is to us in front of you.
To love is to mean your own, like a river,
Splashing with spring generosity
For the joy close people.»
Cleverness, stereotypes of the bulk of the attitudes, but more women in the kohanna choose the role of the victim, they forgive everything and endure everything, they are ready to protect their principles for the sake of the kohanny man. And people don’t need such sacrifices, they stink about them, they fight, they lakayut and that stosunki die in an hour. And blame the person for what you don’t know, even if the stench didn’t ask you to sacrifice yourself.
From life you take away those that you choose. They chose the role of the victim, you got a person - a cat, which you are constantly "strachuvatima" for any kind of pardon. You choose the role of a woman born in you - you will make a good man who loves you. Choose yourself, what kind of person do you want to entrust? The one who makes you cry and laugh?
Don't be afraid to love, without kohanna your heart turns to stone. I light around you becomes silent and dark. The very love to rob your world is different. But if you love, do not go to extremes. Stronger you can go over to the messenger and less ruynuyu stosunki. But if you don’t love yourself, the person you see and know that you will be mutually compatible.
Lyubov tse: Appointed by a glance of psychology, there are three absolutely super-clear interpretations of the concept of “Kohannya”:
- Love - the camp of stagnation - discord, similar to neurosis, if respect is weakened, drunkenness is used, people become "come into the light of this world."
- Kohannya is the same internal drug, if the brain sees the hormones of satisfaction, dopamine, it looks like happiness and lack of turbotness.
- Kokhannya is a painless sound, the need of a person to feel kokhanoy for himself, to give beautiful emotions to others, to be happy and satisfied.
Psychologists insist that the right cohanna is similar to love to a child, a show of a pure soul, self-giving to the end, turbota and speech, you can’t understand with your head, only with your heart.
Love is ob'ektivne understanding, to one love - to give gifts, to others - to speak and feel, and to the third - to live without a call. Take that explain in words, it’s almost like an hour more smoothly.
What is a kohannya between a man and a woman
You can talk about kohannya for a long time, in other vectors directly. Pershochergovo - tse turbota, bezkorisliva, like bringing more than satisfaction to the life of both individuals. Tse yakas opposed to suffering for the special. Skin zustrіchny, even once, if you dream of showing your life with an individual, changing your foundation, adding to the new Farbi emotions and creating harmony. With whom people in authority create such a pіdnesene for a sense of intimacy.
So, obviously, the traditional foundation of love is the state of pulling. So, neuroscientists have been brought to the conclusion that the brain activity of dead people, that the state of the pulls is the dopaminergic motivation, that it helps to make the twin ties. The first for everything, as the main factor, the position of pulling out in the youthful age, if the value and the adequate light of the specialty are not formed to the end. For mature vіku characteristically the most attachments are manifested by intimate namirs. The subject is pardoned if he takes a swede-line pull or wakes up for a dzherelo kohanny.
The skin of us knows one family couple, de man to love, and the squad allows you to love chi navpak, the squad to love, and the man is baiduzhi before her. After succumbing to them, you involuntarily wonder what is more beautiful: love chi buti kokhanoy?
The young lady has everything to love and want, so that our kohannya will be mutual. Zustrivshi their first kohannya, we are often rebuffed in a situation of innocence. We fear that our love will be undivided and we will not hasten to be confirmed in love, so as not to take away the spirit. Insignificance unleashes passion and the moment comes that we can no longer see our own life without a kohanoy people.
The more we love the person, the more we win, the less respect for us. And we take it as if it were chilling that poslyuєmo zalitsyannya: we’re trying to be addicted, we’ll call you and we’ll let you know once a day, we’ll chat with you. And the wines are only a little distant, vvazha, what to emboss on the new, and begin to grind for another. So a lot of women spend their first meal and all their lives think that only they could do it. Through the fates of the stink, you come out for another person, who you love, but the axis of upliftment is in the fact that you yourself love yoga, you can’t stink.
They try with all their might to strangle the one who sees a person or thinks that he is guilty of feeling happy and waiting for everything that came in handy and entrusted to him. That unruly camp, if you love a man, but you don’t know how much you feel about a friend, you know a wealthy woman. It’s hard, to the one who feels emotional, and it’s acceptable, to the one who raises self-esteem.
If spiritual maturity sets in, the woman begins to think, it’s important, so that a person will be in order with you, how to love you in a right way. From the vіkom vіdnosiny enter at the greater calm stage. For those who she herself does not recognize such deep feelings for her own person, the woman has already begun to marvel at calmness. There is a mind, that in life it is more important to make people smarter, how to love you, how to always help yourself with respect and turbotoy.
Out of contentment, she allows herself to be loved, not knowingly, like a friend, but rather like you in the depths of her soul. It is acceptable, if a person makes a gift, it will rise in price with her and dbaє, if she is unwell. Manipulating a person, you won’t know how to prove the summation through those who play with other people’s feelings.
Aja live with a man, who you love, but yogo - no, it’s easier to learn. The woman does not feel like a goiter, does not become jealous, and is less likely to succumb to the fruits of this kohanny. Obviously, no luck with whom you don’t see, even if you love yourself, navkolishniy svit it is so beautiful only to those who live in your new kohana people, in the light of a dotik, as your heart is ready to name.
Without kohannya, a person cannot be accepted for intercourse with a person, and this exercise, like satisfaction, often calls out hostility. First, if you want to be robbed, if you live with an unloved person, you should feel sorry for him. If the frustration becomes already unbearable, you want to drink like a person, so that you will find relief.
Prote robiti swidki vysnovki, like a person to love you, but you - nі, still not a trace. If you are not convinced that your life will become better without it, try to change your behavior. Chi do not zasovuyte stosunki, do not emboss on the new one and do not make it look too rich.
Moreover, be the first to get closer to a person. Tell a close person about those, how your day passed, pootskavtesya, who fought for your day. It’s even more important, if we consider ourselves, we’ll need it and we’ll be impressed. So you learn to be friends with a person again - share secrets and fears, exchange news and solve problems at once - you can, you can help him in return. Then you can try five more distances - more often you can see the signs of the kohanny. For example, vlastuvati romantic supper with candles or massage before bedtime. If a person believes that you love him, you will calm down and stop being intrusive.
Well, you yourself love a person, but you don’t recognize yoga in mutuality, in terms of bringing order to your life. Put on a smart, smart behavior at the vіdnosins and cohanim, be self-sufficient. Samy shortest way suffocate a person in yourself - do not be afraid that the wine will leave you. Guess what brought you joy to get to know him? Get busy with new things: start earning your own living and become independent, learn how to drive a car, or master a foreign language.
In case of whom, don’t swear by arguing with a person, but always laugh. Tell you about the problems and successes, the fights and the ridiculous depressions. If so, change your behavior of wines, you won’t remember and lose up to you, if earlier, let’s hope, then it’s better to grow up for an hour, to calm down and seriously talk about it. Step by step harmony will be awakened and the wines of understanding, that it is better for you to know no one.
What is more beautiful: love chi buti kokhanoy? In our opinion, to be happy, you need to love, and be a kohana. Only then, if you replace "or" with "i", you can induce harmonic happy blues. When it is important to know that in the most important unions there are folding periods in life, anger that fall, if the love of the other half is forgotten, it blames the sumnivities on the value of the hundred sons. Golovnya, who cares about happy splits - be patient. Partners control their emotions and unique extreme solutions.
Love chi buti kohanim? Whoever thinks about this choice is rich: whoever wants to get drunk, and whoever wants to know a loving and faithful person. Which choice will be correct?
There is no real choice of choice. The union “abo” in the name of the article is a pardon, and it is correct to write “i”: love and buti cohanim. That the stars are vinicating the illusion of choice and how її will you wake up?
Incorrect settings for love stosunka
In the first place, it is simpler to say: how and whom it is necessary to love, to start us as children, and it is unimportant to shy away. The fathers pass on their reconciliations, which are more like pardons, and in schools, unfortunately, there are no lessons in kokhannya. Children to start with us, which is good, the crime of the worst. І іsnuіє dvі protilezhnі behind zmіst installation schodo kokhannya.
1. You need to love others. Loving yourself is badIn such a rank, it’s not enough to start people: to help others (begrudgingly), talk about being quiet, who is older (abo, navpaki, younger), share with them, who cares about life, thinly. Children learn love to the others, breeders of domestic creatures and help from the learned classmates. Love itself is called by its egoism and criticized.
Tsya vikhovna installation to bring to the point that people will seep through the sacrifice. With kindness, everyone is not molting, but friends and relatives sit on yoga. His (so specialty) such "loving" people become crying, and the soul is suffering ... in the absence of love. People have gone over, what to take kohannya, to allow others to love, is filthy and worthless. And a person is tormented by food “Why am I so good and kind, but there is no one to love me?”. A woman with such a mindset has only one thing: be a kokhan.
2. Let them not love others. And we love you
Tsya installation zustrіchaєtsya not so seldom, as zdaєtsya. Seemingly simpler, banal rozpeschenist, if children give a mustache, whatever they want. You are instilled, scho vin is the best, and also, all yoma is wine. A person grows up knowing that the whole world is turning around for a long time. Vіn miraculously takes love, especially the material equivalent. The result is a grown-up infantile and arrogant prince. Yogo his (specialty) is more tenditne, but his soul suffers ... all because of the same marriage, that you are given, that there are few gifts. A person will be tormented by self-esteem, not respecting the majestic number of shanuvaliers and the fuss of a new one. Such a woman has only one thing: love yourself.
And now it’s more heady: insulting the installations can’t wait for a long time to go to hell! In the first type of love, sacrifice is given, and in the other, greed. The first option is that it is unhealthy to give everything to oneself, and the other option is supernatural pride. Buvay so, that insulting principles will come together at the vihovanni: fathers fall in love with a child, when they take it, they also “dishonestly” spend it on other people.
What is so right kohannya?
Kokhannya, really, tse harmonic balance of vіddachi and acceptance. She starts from love for herself - from the courage and adequate self-esteem. Egoism here, obviously, is not up to anything. Then follow the gift, the miraculous process that brings half of happiness. If a person respects himself, then she is ready to accept and accept at the first place - and even before her, a friend will come half-happily.
Vіddavati zavzhdi is only possible for those with whom the people have been recaptured. It is impossible to take the zhalyugidni kokhannya from the bottom of the soul, supporting them to take 100 times more to save the soul.
You can only accept a person, if your soul is open, and you won’t trust other people. The one who can accept it, can give it right. The one who is ready to take back.
If there are problems with one of these yakosties, then, singsongly, blame the difficulties and z іnshim, protilezhnym, yakіstyu. If a woman loves strongly, it means that she needs to learn to feel tenderness and warmth. Like a woman pragne, be a kohanoy, now it’s time to learn to accept those gifts.
Unrequited kohannya not bova?
Same way. Everything is irreplaceable - the peroxide of that chi іnshiy bіk - vouchers of ochіkuvannya, flirtatious gifts, wash that wimogi. Today is beginning to feel, that in strong senses there are no chances, and the stench most often calls out to the wind - so it feels, kindly, warmly. The stench goes from the soul, and from the mind, the mustache goes from the rose. Kokhannya does not call out suffering, she sees it in them.
It’s more important to understand that the cohanna is stronger than the flooring, that you rarely blame yourself once, for the first time. It vibudovuєtsya at vіdnosinah and z'yavlyaєtsya todі, if two started from the correct balance of vіddаі and accept BE-YAKIKh chuvtіv, or they "caught" such a balance in the process of growth and development of vіdnosin.
"Zokhuvatisya abo bazhati, shchab zakohalis in you" - wrong.
"I am addicted to fire myself and allow others to be addicted to you" - true.
"Accept others like that, or else, they should accept you" is wrong.
"I accept others without minds, and be natural yourself" - virno.
Harmonious balance is nature itself, not an ideal. It’s a pity, through the wives of the wives, the deacons become self-possessed, growing up; to that, it is necessary to fill the bumps in the ventricles with others, as if on the cob they come out crooked and sore.
Love does not endure duty, it is impossible to pity, and to grow up the object of love, nothing interfering with yoga. Axis scho bazhanno memory, wondering who I feel in myself and others.
What do you think about the right kohanny?
Instruction
Undivided kokhannya - forever great drama. A woman has a miraculous mind, that she has no chances for reciprocity, it is impossible to love a person by force, even though it’s not without reason to say that you won’t punish your heart. In the depths of the soul, you will continue to spodіvatisya and at the same hour you are constantly afraid that the kohana of the person will suffocate into someone else, and you will spend it now for good. Zhіntsi wants to constantly bachiti yogo, dbati about new, robit yoma receive surprises. Axis only youmu tse baiduzhe.
There is a mind that such a situation cannot be repeated forever, and most of all it is impossible to influence anything from oneself. Although it’s wonderful, you can know positive moments from someone. A person can be happy in the sight of the fact that his heart is full of love, life is filled new sense and not so much more importantly, love chi ni. Ljubljacha people, and even more - a woman, with our eyes to marvel at the present world, and the wines start to shimmer with bright farbs just to the one who in the new one is the same, loves and unity, to inspire like wines in no case will be in order.
Be it, navit, it would be possible, happy and mutually cohabiting cannot be without jealousy, worries, Timchas’s super girls, people begin to present one claim to one, often, in the heat of the moment, break apart. How can you love a person, wisely, that you can’t seem to feel like it, and don’t ask for anything natomist - it’s not worth talking about the beauty of your soul and the richness of your inner world.
Another situation is possible. A woman stuns a person, in order to love her, she tries to sharpen her respect, but she only allows herself to love, not being sensitive to her. In this way, we won’t take the opportunity to manipulate, we’ll succumb, we’ll take this respect as carefully, we’ll willingly accept expensive gifts and we won’t learn to correct our conscience through those who play with other people’s feelings.
It becomes easier to live in this way. A woman does not see jealousy, she does not feel the goiter to inspire to grow up for the people and is less likely to cory with the fruits of her kohannya. Prote no spiritual pidyoma at your own vіdchuvaє.
Well, it’s better to love, knowing that there will be no reciprocity, why do you allow an unloved person to feel love for himself with that turbo? Decision dermal is taken by myself. As a rule, in a young city, girls are taken in by a terrible tragedy, then, out of satisfaction, they accept beautiful faces of people, until they themselves are full of baiduzh. If there is spiritual maturity, it becomes easier for women to accept the situation, to love only the other way around, and to know the sensation of life with their own lover.
Of course, the greatest happiness is to love and be kohanoy at once, and it’s just miraculous, if people, let’s go through life and suffering in the past undivided kokhannya, all the same, vdassya know yoga.