Family see blue. Mutually with a child
I am close to people who are important for yaki buti no one can. To that, in return, they play a majestic, first-rate role mental development that well-being of the skin її member.
Mentally, psychologists podіlyayat sim'ї on prosperous and unfavorable, gradually correcting themselves: skin sim'ya can have their own problems. In order to reduce problems to a minimum, change the standard of speeches at your booth, the necessary elementary basic knowledge about the psychology of sim'ї and practice to create a friendly environment, in a skin like a snake to develop behind the song of nature, light, about yourself that otochyuchih.
- Do not flatten your eyes at rudeness, put one alone on the plate. And it’s impossible (for example, in a relationship with an alcoholic person), it’s impossible (there are socially unsafe tempers, for example), to bring the relationship with this member of the family to a minimum.
- Start housekeeping. Promoting the problem, we give an understanding to the partner, children, fathers, that they are ready to discuss the ways of virishennia, to reach a compromise. This is how one-to-one povaga manifests itself, without which it is impossible to normally reciprocate with one another.
- Want to help each other, chuynist, pragnennya spend sleeping dozvil in all possible ways (it’s better for you to know who to love, what you can do for the skin - with the help of varto koristuvatisya). It is especially important to follow this rule in order to encourage children to be with each other. If you have a sprig, put the emphasis on the fact that they are brother and sister (brothers or sisters), that they will not have anyone near and dear to them. Repeat this fast, children are more responsive to the glory of fathers. With the fates of you, sing the confirmation of this, your susilla that respect will not pass for nothing.
- How do you spend dozvіllya, before the speech, more importantly. Okremo? Good, but you can have a sleep, like with friends, so with fathers with children. Walking near the park, pizzeria, shops, walks - all important dribnitsy they will guide you, like no other.
- There aren’t many of them, it’s time to invent them. Traditions unite us, make an alliance between a man and a squad and a connection with children (especially important and relevant such a call for help). Let's go to grandma's place, it's holy in the air, preparing the beloved strava, embellishment new yalinka- Tse can be everything that is welcome. Abi traditions were followed by everyone. Do not finish it, the time has come to think up something else.
- They are based on each other, with the head rank, on the roles of those rozpodіlenih between you obov'yazkah. Your Sim's roles are already set. Tato is a healer or a spiritual leader. Mom is a housewife or a business lady. And the axis at the time of the obov'yazkіv is more foldable. Above the calm, everything works. Write once, housewives, who for what you say, and you will allow the most wide-ranging reasons for welding.
- Treat love: in hundreds of women with a man (team) and children. She doesn’t know anywhere, so they didn’t tell the drive from whom. Yakshto in sim'ї є povaga, razuminnya that fidelity, be th love. And that means that your fetters are not broken by vipadkovy furnishings and navit by beads. You are together, and you are strength. For the sake of which varto buti we will respect! Do not forget to take an hour to mate with a child and a partner, especially with fathers (the stench will also require us, as we are, more than an hour has passed from our people).
Vzaєmini in sim'ї vmahayut your permanent part, as you did not take a role in it. Do not take one alone as if it were natural and eternal. How to just let such a staging to the kohanih, it’s more likely to ruin myself. Think about what list you can create for your loved ones.
Tipi vіdnosin at nіy.
Let's start with the kokhannya. What kind of fatherly love is there and why should children be brought in?
It would have been better if the fathers are guilty of loving and accepting their child, be like: hearing and not hearing, beautiful and negligent, reasonable and unreasonable, open-minded and closed ... So that the love of a child to fathers and fathers to children cannot be of any intelligence. No wonder it seems: “Batkiv is not to be robbed!” Ale, it’s a pity, navit mitts, having created tvir, which doesn’t show up to their points, throw yogo into a distant kut, or navit vanish, at spalah I see that rose in myself.
You will say: “They repaired the same ... The child is not a picture and not a poem!” So, the child is not rich, ale, tim is not less, there is nothing else, like a brother of his fathers! The artist contributes everything he can to his tvir: talent (what kind), soul, hour, pennies, health. And what do they invest in their child's father? And those are the same - Batkiv's talent, soul, hour, health, pennies ... and a lot of things! I'm wondering what's richer, lower the artist's picture.
About insane love, it’s a lot to say and write, but you can’t love people so much, to that in this, they grew up, they were loved for their intelligence, hearing, cheerful giving, openness, honesty, beauty ...
Oh, where do children like that? They didn’t really love them (or they were afraid to see that they didn’t love) for emptiness, disobedience, confusion, for the filthy badges at school ... What for? That dermal for her! Who among you does not consider himself unloved, unhappy?
And why read like that maddened by garne behavior, batkivske kokhannya? You can’t save the fathers for a thought, what can your child be able to grow up in them, in the fathers, and see your time?
Dear fathers!!! And the stars of all those who do not accept the authority of an individual can appear in your child? And let's take a look at the axis of the different types in return for the family, zavdyaki how the specialty of the child is formed!
Diktat! All of us after the fall of the SRSR recognized what “authoritarianism” is! And so can you be? Maybe? How about? Well, that’s right, if all the members of this family are without any reservations rooting for one person: fathers, mothers, or grandmothers (rarely hear me). This person is punishing and merciful, guilty of violating, who should be robbed, how can one speak with him. Vіn vyznaє, de komu learns, kim kom buti (that’s how the profession will be for representatives of the growing generation), that richly different. Someone at the booth has a “dictator”, that mind, about where to go.
The "dictator" behaves like this only for good reasons, love for his loved ones - so you get it. I will take responsibility for my life, for my future. You always know how and what can be. We try to tell you that you will be lost without something, get pardons ... It is acceptable that everything seems to be only a whisper, “to walk on your back”.
It is especially bad for such children. Why? And the fact that the dictator is strangling his initiative, does not allow him to develop a little bit of his own goodness, self-reliance, activity. You can allow yourself to create and belittle the one who has the luxury of super-chiti youmu. Inviting to practice, win zmushu! Navit rozpovіdayuchi about shchos, vіn kazhe: "I zmusiv yogo go to the store!", or "I zmusila її wash dishes!" A child in such a time of consolation of the right to inspire a voice in these children, as they have special interests: to wear that robe, which the fathers bathe in, to go to that sports section, as if choosing a father and mother for him. You can zaboronit zustrichatsya with this other friend, only the one who doesn’t fit the “dictator”, his talents develop less than those, like they commemorated the new father. Yogo I can learn to learn to sleep, play the violin toshcho. You can show me, what kind of new musician!
Hyperopia-Review of dictatorship. Only the "dictator" wills the punishment and violence, and the "guardian" "removes" the members of this transcendental turmoil and demonstrative love. For the new power manipulyatsii s pochuttya guilty, pochuttya obov'yazka. Vіn “opіkun” is the biggest scrivenge in this family – “no one to love, nothing to know about it, nothing to respect it, to think only about oneself, but only one must love and about all dbaє, protect hardships!” Vin vymagaє love and respect for yourself in yoga "self-love"!
In truth, both the “dictator” and the “guardian” are talking, first for everything, about their calmness. Should they worry about themselves and think about those who are close, if the stench is smothering them with their orders with an overworld turbo? It’s easier and calmer, if everyone is listening, you can’t deny anyone, if everyone is so timid, like they want to stink! Їm (and “dictator”, and “guardian”), in fact, baiduji interests and the experience is quiet, who, as it is given to him, is in the upper power.
But sooner or later, “authoritarianism” sticks to the support like in the state, so in the same way! Most of the time, you’ll see the opir spalah from the side of the children! A back of the stench is repaired by lies, vivertatisya, hypocrisy. The world has matured children, they can sling rudeness, anger, go out of the house ... Buvay, that the rebel knows the blows, yogo opir zlamano. Ale, there is no reason why, but at the same time, the support of the will is broken, faith in oneself, in one’s ability; formations of a complex of innocence, the head of a serious child.
And even in the first mood (if the opera is not broken), the growing chergovy “dictator” or “guardian”, then in the other (if it’s far off to strangle the child) you will be absolutely helpless, without initiative, or specialty. It’s better for everything, the life of such a person is accompanied by a lancer of failures, like in a professional, so in a family sphere. Maybe you should have mercy on me, and I’ll spend my time on my “friend’s half”, so I’ll take responsibility for my life for myself ... Ale, nayimovirnishche, sleep to sleep - who needs such a wine? It's rare for someone to love for nothing, just like that!
And now the food: what did the dads say about such a result?
Obviously, no! The stinks are enchanted by their child, the stinks are demonstrating to you in every possible way. Yoga behavior is fighting! The stench of your childish shyness, like an artist of a near-by picture! The stench looks like something new, they make themselves more likely to grind.
Another food: what, having become fathers, can people give to their children who are born in such families?
And only those who cant! They didn’t teach them to love and appreciate their loved ones, they hated to shake the thought of other people! One will impose his will on the members of this family, and the other will impose evil on the comrade!
And what is strictness? What is the method of strangulation?
Suvorist is a ceremonial pidhіd, deluded by goals in a specific skin situation. Tse vihovannya zvichki dotrimannya hromadskih norms, laws, morality! Ale, not violence against specialty, not strangling the will and initiative. Suvorist is not a dictate and not a hyperopia!
What is punishment? Tse scho, obov'yazkovo humiliation of human goodness? Tse obov'yazkovo "welding" chi image?
Viprobovayuchi punishment, the child is guilty of understanding, that she made a pardon, she is guilty of learning that she was wrong - otherwise the punishment is marna! Vіn is guilty of perekonatisya, scho roblyachi similar pardons and gave, vin himself allows himself something more important in life. And more than that, I can’t be blamed, that they can have the right to a pardon, and I’m corrected!
Suvoriste and punishment, as if they were victorious correctly, are accepted by children as justice, motivated by the need to “give a lesson”, but not like a kohanna, or yogo is too much!
This type of mutuality is commonly called "democratic". Here there is work one for one, and the right to the voice of all members of the family, and mothers of one's own interests and hoarding, so as not to disturb those close to one, especially to people who are obviously inquisitive, and the right choice of the profession. Here children are helped to develop, grow like individuals! In such sims, they respect the femininity and thought of the cutaneous member of the sim, like a child. Here panuє "spivpratsya" that mutual assistance. From such families come good, smart people, who can work in teams, charismatic leaders, successful businessmen ... Such children are written by their fathers.
There is another type of mutuality similar to anarchy. In psychology, yoga is commonly called "permissive". There can also be different options here:
- "Diktat navpaki", if the fathers go on about their children and obey their will. The dictates of a child, on the back, rozchulyuє batkіv, the stench will want such behavior of a child. In growth in an atmosphere of permissiveness, “why the child was quiet, but the child did not cry!” Vіn love batkіv like zherelo satisfaction of their needs, if you become self-sufficient, be like paths to achieve your well-being, as a rule, for the sake of others, you can forget about batkіv vzagali.
- "Nevtruchannya." Tse trapleyaetsya, as if the fathers vvazhayut that "we have our own life, and the children have their own!" Children, as if they can join the life of the grown-ups, do their work and roam, and the fathers let the life of children go on self-fueling. , criminal grouping ... Some of these children grow up and become independent, stick to the life of a leader, like they try to "own their practice and mind"! But, as a rule, they are soulless cynics, who cannot love and appreciate close people, including friends. About such people it would seem that the “vulitsia swung”!
What is your style in return for this - you be the judge. Minify yoga chi, for the benefit of your children - also swear to you. If you have said that you “should change”, but you don’t know how, then I recommend that you turn around suddi:
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With deep respect, that indulgence of love, that mutual understanding of us, Lyudmila Astakhova.
Anton and Vlad
Anton: I should be more like Vlady those who know how to think critically, not to follow the NATO. The axis of the infection was overwhelmed by the flood of selfies, and Vlad was up to no good. You can watch the process behind the scenes, think - it’s necessary for you, joke like a sensi. Tse menі have a new imponuє. Vіn versatile, creative, for an hour walking to the studio of theatrical craftsmanship. Sometimes we are encouraged to speak English among ourselves.
Vlad: I play games on English language. And at school, English is boring. I love all vivchati. I want to learn how to cook. I have all my loves. I don’t like only liver and semolina.
Names
Victoria and Olena
Olena: Mi zustrіchaєmos, walk. Together we go to the store. I need it, so Vika helped me with roses. I know badly on pennies, I respect badly. You will explain to me, I will remember. As if there are pennies in me, I'm talking about Vika. Vіka kazhe: "Don't stain them, we'll drink food at the same time."
Victoria: I see that Olena is my close people important part of my life. Cooperating with her, I learned to accept the situation and not envy ochіkuvannya. To that, if there is a refinement in you, and the stench does not vanish, you will always be disappointed. I understand that you are still alive in such minds, you cannot change in such a short period. Navit if everything has changed dramatically!
Photo: Oleksandr Vasyukovich | Text: Lyudmila Drik Material given by the project "Names"
Aunt that Lera
Tetyana: At the same time, it’s a wonderful, piece-by-piece conversation: you need to catch a spiel once for a day, to sleep with those ... And now I just fit in with Lerkoy to talk! Our girls have quickly outgrown friendship, even natural. It's amazing that we knew one and the same! Our couple - tse vluchennya in the bull's-eye.
Lera: Tetyana is my good friend. Naturally, I have many friends in the boarding school, but half the time one friend went to Italy, then a friend ... I practically did not lose my close friends. At the second class, we were transferred to an elementary school, it was easy to adapt. Іz "home children" stosunki did not form like that. We could not understand one alone. Shiro kazhuchi, I don’t know why. I think, stink, we, ditbudinkіvtsiv, were disrespectful of the trochs.
Photo: Oleksandr Vasyukovich | Text: Lyudmila Drik Material given by the project "Names"
Marina and Veronica
Marina: I truly respect the team "Threads of Friendship"! At the project, it’s even better to go to the selection of pairs: at the moment of passing the training, before making the bet, you can go through the river and learn more. The curators are talking about those who are grown up and young as much as possible fit one to one. Regular training sessions are held for mentors. Formally, a foster caregiver can know for a child less than two years a day. Ale ours with Veronica, the blues have grown into make friendship, So scourge after an hour is already a lot of things.
Veronica: The conversation with Marina has fundamentally changed me: I learned how to be open-minded, I became more inspired, courageous, and straight. Zavdyaki I thought about entering the university. I graduated from the college named after Kedishka, got the specialty of a woodworking artist, and now I have entered the Faculty of Philosophy and Social Sciences at BSU. Vivchatimu psychology. Perhaps I will see a team of some kind of social project for the “Thread of Friendship” kshtalt. Adzhe psychological assistance is necessary for everyone who has spent up to a difficult life situation.
Photo: Oleksandr Vasyukovich | Text: Lyudmila Drik Material given by the project "Names"
Vira ta Mikita
Mikita: If I started talking to Vira, I became wiser. Becoming rich on what to react in a different way. Vira rozpovidaє, like the need to live. At school, they taught us the same, but it’s hard for one. I already learned how to cook soup, cook pasta in a naval way. I myself buy potatoes, pasta, carrots, cabbage, soup stock. Vira sent me a photo, like everyone was working.
Vira: Buvayut moments, if you happen to rush youmu to the rescue with a saber at the ready! Such children, like Mikita, trust everyone. I say: “Mikita, don’t give anyone a passport!” I didn't give wine. A few days ago, I took a new vitiagla, who was taken by the hand, brought to the office of the operator of a stylnikovy zv'yazka and issued on a new two cards. In the office it was announced that it was not two, but two. It appears that they can be exploited for illegal IP-telephony, hacking. We closed our cards. Ale, I’ll tell you about me not once, but in the second month!
Photo: Oleksandr Vasyukovich | Text: Lyudmila Drik Material given by the project "
Fathers and children
Skilki is written, skilki is said about stosunki between fathers and children. And viz i ninі there.
Skilki is written, skilki is said about stosunki between fathers and children. And viz i ninі there. Even more fathers are dissatisfied with their children, they criticize their actions and want to live for them.
In his line, children quietly hate their fathers for being involved in their life, for controlling that manipulation, for scandals that dokori.
And such a situation is already three thousand years old, and more than for everything, it appeared at once for the blame of the people.
Zvichayno, it’s not rich happy family, de mizh fathers and children panuє povaga and mutual understanding. I want to believe that there are more such families. Ale, in this article, I want to bump into the most destructive families. Sіmey, like mischief to the normal and vil development of a person as special.
Otzhe, yakі see vzaєmovіdnosin buvayut at sim'yah.
1. Old men are tyrants. The fathers are trying again to order their own will of the children. The stench of the control of the skin їhnіy krok, kozhen vchinok. Zvichaynno well, pretending to be rozmov about that turbota. Ale kokhannya is not in control and does not disdain. Spravzhnє kokhannya to believe and pіdtremuіє, nothing not vimagayuchi natomіst. And how many fathers didn’t change for themselves that otochyuchy, that stench bazhayut children only goodness, stench follow only one method - new control over the lives of their child. What are the options for the development of such a family? A child, otherwise, comes out of sim'ї, so that you can take the opportunity to live your life. Otherwise, I will obey my will to the fathers and transform into “roslina”. Unfortunately, the first option is not ideal, so as the greatest vipadkivs of the child are deprived of the image of the father for all life, and it will be possible to vibudovuvatime at their own future family, like a child’s posterity.
2. Weak and characterless dads. Tse fathers, as they have not achieved anything from life, and apparently they can not give anything to their children. Such fathers do not have authority for their fathers. Such families often grow up to control and manipulate their fathers. From such children grow yakі vzaєmini have sim socially unadapted grown up. Hotch, zvichayno, buvayut blame.
3. Batki are friends. Bad option for family vіdnosin. If you have such fathers, take care that you were spared. Such fathers trust their children, allow them to live their independent lives. Such fathers often look young for their age, cackle like suffocated youth. Such fathers are good to them, so that if they don’t want to neglect the development of their children, they don’t get involved in their special life, they deprive them of sufficient space for freedom and development.
4. Soulless dads. These are deplorable and deeply unhappy people who cannot and cannot love. For them, children are no more, no more than the same problems. Don't hug, don't kiss, don't show to your children lagidnih sliv. You can feel them: “We gave birth to you now. Thou us all life zіpsuvav (la)". Children from such families have 2 variants of the future. The stench also in life does not show everyday feelings and in the face of whom they suffer like a stink, so it is sharpened. But the child firmly believes that everything will be different in the new. Often the children of such families in the future become even more loving and lazy fathers.
5. I, perhaps, the most optimal option, fathers are mentors. Such fathers really take care of their children. The stench is not just to see them at the gardens, then we will go to school, to the institute. And then we’ll raise our hands, why, having said, we don’t have children with our fathers - mentors to chirp with their children, mate with them, praise whether it’s their choice, with which they help to make the right decision. Such fathers from childhood guard for the interests of their children, and help them already in early age know your call. So the fathers can’t say to their child: go and learn and practice here, because I wanted to in my youth, and now you realize my dream. Such fathers do not in any way manipulate their children, frightening them to work those who respect the fathers for their needs. Fathers - mentors give a new choice to the development of their child, with whom they help, suggest, shy everything so that the child knows his own life of power. It's a great pity, there are few such fathers. Maybe to the one who understands physics, mathematics, literature and other sometimes stupid speeches in the world, but no one can read us, like being such fathers, like being able to writhe in a right way happy and harmonious children.
It's no secret that a lot of people protyazhuyut svogo svogo zhittya prodzhuyut in this chi іnshіy formіy suffering through stosunki with fathers. Htos vіdmovlyaєtsya chi unique splkuvannya. Inshi postyno weld, scandalize that z'yasovuyet among themselves stosunki. And the deacons choose the option of a pokirnoi and pokirnoi child, as if imitating beautiful family girls, and secretly hating their fathers for their life that was not far off formed. Well, if you have really warm and wide stosunki with fathers, then I will warm you up. Although there is already a great sense of the fact that you simply do not see the inflow of fathers into your own independent choice and do not mark the attached manipulation. I want to be better for you.
At the skin sіm'ї objectively folded sings, yakі zavzhd її svіdomlena її system of vihovannia. Here, on the basis of understanding and understanding the goals of vihovannya, and the formulary of yogo task, and more less goals of stosuvannya methods and methods of vihovannya. You can see the 4 most important tactics of growing in family and show them 4 types of family relationships: dictate, opika, non-truce and spivrobitnitstvo.
Diktat in this case, it manifests itself in the systematic strangled by some members of the family (importantly mature) and initiatives and a sense of goodness in other members of the family. The fathers, sensibly, can and are guilty of showing help to their children, moving out of the goals of vihovannia, moral standards, specific situations, in which it is necessary to accept pedagogically that morally correct decision. However, those of them, as if giving priority to all types of injection of punishment and violence, try to establish the power of authority on the apparently fallow land, weak strength, stick with the support of a child, like a blow to a vice, primus, threaten with your counter-approaches: by deceit, by deceit, by swindle and sometimes through the door of hatred. And yet, as an opir, they seem to be angry, at the same time they show evil and richly valuable features of specialness: self-reliance, a little bit of goodness, initiative, faith in oneself and one’s own ability. The authoritarianism of the fathers is reckless, ignoring the interests and thoughts of the child, strangling, primus, and, at the time, the support of the child is often emotional or physical violence against him, znuschannya, systematically giving up his right to vote with the highest guarantee of nutrition, everything is worth laying down serious failures in molded individuals.
Opika sіm'ї - tse system vіdnosin, yakіh batki, zabezpechayuchi their praceyu satisfaction of all the needs of the child, protect yoga in the form of any turbot, zusil and hardship, accepting їх at home. The very same children seem to be inappropriate for life among the collective, children have self-reliance, initiative, the stench is so chi іnakshe usunutі vіd vіrіshennya sіlnyh problems sim'ї.
The system of inter-society vіdnosin in sіm'ї, scho budєtsya on the basis of the know-how and navіt dotsіlnostі nezalezhnostі іsnuvannyа іsnuvannya vіdroslih vіdі, mozhe bred tactic. unscheduled". Most often, the basis of this mutuality lies in the pasivity of the fathers, as well as the indifference, and at times their emotional coldness, baiduzhism, nevminnya and nebazhannya read buti fathers.
spіvrobіtnitstvo as a type of interrelationships with sіm'ї peredbachaє opredkovanіst mizhosobistіsnyh vіdnosiny sіm'ї zagalnym tsіlyami zavdannymi spіlnoї іyalnostі, її organіzаtsієyu i vysoky moral іnnosti. This situation itself has its own mystical individualism of a child. This is how I become a group high level development - by the team.
2. Classification of styles of weaving
Great value in the formation of self-esteem maє style family wedding, accepted from the same value. Psychologists see three styles of family development: democratic, authoritarian, natural.
Democratic fathers value the behavior of children and independence, and discipline. Voni themselves give you the right to be independent in some spheres of your life; not obmezhuyuchi yogo rights, one hour vymagayut vykonanny obov'yazkіv.
Authoritarian fathers look out for children of an unrestricted order and do not care that they can explain the reasons for their orders and fences. The stench is zhorstko control all spheres of life, moreover, they may not be entirely correct. Children of such sim'yah start to chirp, that yogic intercourse with fathers breaks down. Another important vipadok is baiduzhi and zhorstokі fathers. Children from such families are rarely placed among people with confidence, they experience difficulties in intercourse, often they themselves are zhorstok, wanting to be in great need of a kohanna.
Pojdnannya baiduzh Batkiv's remembrance z vіdsutnistyu control is also an unacceptable variant of family vіdnosin. Children are allowed to do everything that they can get tempted to, with no one to squabble with their rights. Behavior becomes uncontrollable.
Hyperopeka - zayva turbot about a child, overworld control over all his life, grounds for close emotional contact, leading to passivity, lack of self-reliance, difficulties in splintering with one-year-olds.
3. Injecting the type of vihovannya into the behavior of a child, molding її special features
Kind of minds vyhovannya in sim'ї lie down is adequate and inadequate behavior of the child.
Children, as if self-esteem is low, dissatisfied with themselves. Tse vіdbuvaєtsya in sim'ї, the fathers constantly condemn the child, but put before her the testament of the zavdannya. Child vodchuvaє, scho won't show help to the fathers. Inadequacy can also be manifested from advanced self-esteem. Tse vіdbuvaєtsya in sim'ї, often praise the child, and for dribnitsa that reach give gifts. A child is punished even more rarely, the system could be harder than a m'yaka.
For the vihovannya of an adequate manifestation, a system of punishment for the praise of a child is needed. That praise is switched off at the new one. Gifts are rarely given for toppings. The rest of the zhorstkі early warnings are not victorious. In families, children grow up with high, but not dependent self-esteem, respect for the individual child will rise with sufficient vimoglivistu.
Anxiety can become a special feature of a child. High anxiety builds steadfastness with constant dissatisfaction from the side of the fathers. Through the growth of anxiety and the low self-esteem associated with it, the initial achievements are lowered, unsuccessful ones are consolidated. One’s own innocence can be attributed to a number of other peculiarities: mindlessly following the orders of the grown-up, children are less likely to follow patterns and patterns, fear to show initiative, formally acquire knowledge and methods of action.
Another option is demonstrativeness - the peculiarity of specialness, connected with the increased need for success and respect for oneself. Її dzherelom sing out the lack of respect of those who have grown up to children, as if they feel in this sіm'ї zanedbanimi, hatred. Ale buvay, scho children show enough respect, but they don’t satisfy through hypertrophied need for emotional contacts. The promises of the powerful to the grown-up are not reckless, but, on the contrary, the most famous children. Such a child strives for respect, teaches breaking the rules of conduct.
The third option is "out of reality". Beware of depression, if in children for the first time demonstrativeness is combined with anxiety. These children may have a strong need for respect, but they cannot realize it through their anxiety. The stench remembers little, they are afraid of crying out for not being praised by their behavior, they could be grown-up to pry out the wickedness. Dissatisfied with the need for respect to lead to an increase in more passivity, incompetence, which complicates and so insufficient contacts.
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