The man wants to get married, but I don't. The man doesn't want to get married
Olga, Tver
Yak buti, why don’t you want to get married?
Good health! We’ll soon make friends with my name, I’m an Old Believer, and I’m a New Believer, but I didn’t even go to church and I can’t understand how to fight there, I want to wear a cross. You don’t fence me off at the church and don’t laugh at it. But I want you to get married, but you don’t need it, even if for the first time you just go to the church, and then you will be anointed. The new one just doesn’t have time, how to speak. Yogo's head is occupied mainly by butovym problems, which are called earthly people: they go to the village and there they either pour or practice, youmu there is not up to the church. I still want to baptize our children, but I know that I am engaged in foolish women and it’s just unreasonable that I’m marrying. You can’t marry anyone by force before the church, even more so than yoga. If you go to church, then only with a wide faith, but I don’t want to force him to do so. Believe in the soul, but don't go around the churches. How can we be in such a situation? Give Yoma peace, if you don’t want to, or continue to swear Yogo Zatsikaviti in tsoma?
Good afternoon! You seem to make friends without a bar, and, perhaps, if I write rows, You have already become a man of that squad. Fallow depending on your position, that will be different.
Yakscho Vyshche have not yet caught the “legalization”, the varto seriously zamislitsya, and chi required to take care of such a person to go abroad. Why do I put nutrition so sharply? To the fact that you have a different life, look at the head of the food buttya, you have a different vector of life. Those who are not expensive for you, they call them “fools”. How do you think to live together? Age and problem only grow, especially when children appear. Starting with nourishment for those whose mothers of children have begun to burn, and finishing with nourishment for those goals of vihovannia. Here I have summarized the following statistics: if a child is a believer, it is less than a mother, that the ability of a child to become a believer is 30%, and if a father is 70.
At the same time, suffocation will make you correctly assess the situation. But the fact of sumnіvіv is already obvious, otherwise you wouldn't start asking about the priest. Deeply sympathize and warmly rozcharovuєtsya the one who thinks to "change" his future person. I repeat the words of the classic, sho loving friend friend - tse not tі, who marvel at one to one in the eyes, but tі, who marvel at one beak. Otzhe, sіm timesіv vіdmіryay і once vіdіzh.
Well, if you have already made friends, but on the right you have gone so far that you can change it already, then my pleasure will be like that. Continue to go to the church to visit and without anything, pray to God at home, do the fasting. It is especially important to show people on the cob of a sleeping life that your feet are, that you do not change for everyday furnishings. It is more fervent to pray for a person, so that the Lord, having touched his heart and awakened a new faith in such a way, so that one time he could say at once from Blessed Augustine: “I have loved You, Beauty, so long ago and so young, I have loved You! The axis of Ty was with me, and I was with the old one, and there I joked with You, at whose fair-looking world, You created, I broke in, indulge! With me, buv Ti, with you, I’m not bov. In the distance, in the light of you, light is on me, what would not have happened, yakbi wine would not have been with You. You called, shouted and broke through my deafness; You flashed, sang and drove away my blindness; You pour out your plow, I inhale and suffocate without You. I have eaten thee and I am thirsty for thee and help; You bumped into me, and I burst into flames about your world (“Speak” Book 10, ch. 27).
But on the same day you can drink fates, and you will need a lot of patience on this path. Remember, " it is impossible for people, everything is possible for God» (Matthew 19:26)
Good day, father. I’m a friend of a sudden, a man took me with a little child, a father who left us in the days of the people. I have been churched since 2001, so I respect my other friend, I pray, to the one that I prayed for a long time and asked for my father. A miracle man, like a man and a father, who doesn’t know, but not churching and little. And I can’t rot the fact that I don’t give any meaning to the fact that living with a innocent girl is a sin. I can't do yoga. I prayed for the napoleglivist yogo of his drive. She prayed to the saints. How can you fix me? Maybe it's time for everything? Did the Lord himself bring Yogo to whom? I live by sin. Ale razluchennya, tse I so razumіyu - do not leave. Separation through those that a person does not want to get married is absurd, and the Lord will sue me for this. Father, give me joy, how can I live, how did they give me a temple, how do I stand before God after death for this sin, how do I go to church, being unmarried? Thank you in advance. Evgeniya.
Archpriest Oleksandr Ilyashenko confirms:
Hello Evgene!
You are truly worried: the registration of a slut is a legal slut, and not a sin in the eyes of God, that Church. The Lord has given you good man, i You can be a guide to Christ. Ale, I will propagate your guilt in pershu churgu, your love and turbot about a person, your respect to the new. Try to show the beauty of Christianity to a person, and, obviously, do not stop praying for him. About okkіs okrі mi situations it's better to be honored with a priest at the temple especially. God help you at your pracies! Do not scold and speak to the Lord, who has given you a good man.
With honor, Archpriest Oleksandr Ilyashenko.
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Not reading replicas quietly, whoever says, I quote:Spirituality is made friends, which are the members of the body of Christ, the most important intellectual justice of the Christian and church church. Only a single person in a family can become a "home church" (Rom. 16.5; Phm. 1.2), as a person and team together with children grow up in a spiritually perfect knowledge of God. The moment of one-mindedness becomes a serious threat to the integrity of the friendly union. For this very reason, the Church honors with its own language the call of those who believe in friendship "only in the Lord" (1 Cor. 7. 39), to those who follow the Christian reconciliation.
The reason for the appointment of the Holy Synod is also to speak about the Church’s honor “to such a height, in which there is only one side to fall to the Orthodox faith, according to the words of the holy Apostle Paul: “The unbelieving person is sanctified by the retinue of the believing, and the retinue is unrepentantly consecrated by the reverent” . fourteen) ". The Father of Trull Cathedral was sent to this text of the Holy Letter, as they recognized the real union between persons, as, "being in nevir and were not insured to the flock of Orthodox, they united among themselves with a lawful hat", as if by chance one of the friends turned to faith (rule 72). However, the rules of those other canonical appointments (IV Sun. Vob. 14, Laod. 10, 31), as well as in the works of ancient Christian writers and Church fathers (Tertullian, St. Cyprian of Carthage, Blessed Theodoret and Blessed Augustine), defending the way of life between Orthodox Christians and followers of other religious traditions.
Based on old canonical attributions, the Church today does not consecrate the baths that are laid between Orthodox and non-Christians, at the same time they know so much as legal and not safe, that they change with them, like they change with the prodigal sleeper. Visidichi sirkuvan Pastyrsko ikonoi, Rosіysk of the Orthodox Church Yak at the past, so I know the skiing of the Orthodox Christians, members of the elderly ceremony, and the sofasies of the Church of the Church, for the Black God, Orthodox Church in vіrі. Such practices are being extended by the rest of the century in the majority of Orthodox Churches.
The Church leans on childish fidelity, making friends with that inconsistency of the Orthodox school, rooted in the words of the Lord Jesus Christ: "(Matt. 19. 6.9). Separation is judged by the Church as a sin, more guilty of bringing heavy spiritual suffering and making friends (at least one of them) and especially children.
In 1918, the Roci Pomіsny Sobor of the Russian Orthodox Church in the "Designed to bring to breaking up the love union, consecrated by the Church" recognized as such, the Crimea will fall in love and enter one of the sides of the new Orthodox churches, as well as the fall of a person, the nature of the friends, the prophecy of the Before the gateway spizhittu, Sho came to the gateway of a nobo boule with a messenger for a hiumph self -vanity, a shut -in -rustle for a leprosy of abo Sifilis, triv -in -law, prying to a gift, Posydnan to the vegetables of all, Zazihannya on Zhittya, Ztya, Zvezhiye, Snowly, Snowly. forfeiture, unfortunate hardship of mental ailment and evil deprivation of one person by others. At this time, this change has been added to the rupture of the slub by such reasons as falling ill with SNID, medically diagnosed chronic alcoholism or drug addiction, causing a squad to have an abortion for the mischief of a person.
With the method of spiritually vihovannya naming and priyannya zmіtsnennі podv'azkіv priests call to the fact that the conversation, scho before the initiation of the Sacrament Shlyubu, reportedly roz'explain to the naming that naming the idea of the inconsistency of the Church's loving union, blatantly rosy, like an extreme mother. diyan, appointed by the Church as a result for separation. It is impossible to take the time to break up the church slut for the sake of waiting for the feast of the "confirmation" of the community's separation. Vtіm, as if the breakup of the school was a fact that, especially when living apart, making friends, - but we can’t recognize it, because of the pastor’s indulgence, church separation is also allowed. The Church does not even want another row. Prote after a legal church separation, according to canon law, another way is allowed to an innocent person. Persons, the first slub of some kind of disintegration and rupture of their own guilt, to enter another slub are allowed only for the mind of repentance and vikonannya penance, imposed visibly to the canonical rules. In quiet wine swings, if a third hat is allowed, the term of penance ruled St. Basil the Great more and more.
Good day! We live with a registered partner for 6 years. The first axis is nareshti, I "virval" at the new year for the wedding. Now I don’t appreciate the very fact that knowing my bazhanya get married, the person was not the initiator of yoga, but rather having waited under the singing vice. Why are you working now - get married, why check on his understanding of the decision? Ale, so you can and don’t get caught. And our children are already three fates. I can’t add the fact that before everything, I’m trying, I’m home, and my small (purely womanly) image - even though I live in a bad way, and here it’s clear that no one wants to inspire me, but let’s make friends -serious" on me do not want. (So I want to say: if you don’t want, you don’t need to.) Surely, she deserved to be put in such a position. And if you need to forge your ambitions and that pride, and catch a person in words, until you change your mind, then blame it for food - I read that I was named to be in white. And how am I already named, how is it a son? White is the color of purity and innocence, which, unfortunately, does not stagnate before me. І candles in the wedding, tezh read - a symbol of purity and sensibility. Give me some advice, be kind, in the situation I described, is it still necessary to get married? (I'm sure I'll do what is necessary). And if so, then why was my "status" named for a long time foreign women to stand in front of the vіvtar? And one more meal. If a man has slept with me, what will he need to confess and take communion? I sighed firmly. Ale tse yogo persha in life spovid! Alien soul, obviously, darkness. But I'm afraid that my "onslaught" at the part of the wedding will lead to a formal confirmation of that uninformed communion. It’s no longer seeming about those who are afraid to say to you, it’s necessary to read some prayers before taking communion. You can take a look. What is work?
Prot. Volodymyr Bushuev:
Good day Olgo!
Not long ago I saw such a sheet, a woman of 50 years the same axis so "viral" at a person for a year, but life 3 years is silent, one razdratuvannya. Think well what you are doing. Rather shukati way to compromise. Go to Vinchanny step by step, often buoy in the Temple with everything, live like a Christian. Read Orthodox literature. Your mind needs to hurry up properly.
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