Why work, like my cohabiting person, scary to beat me and fight at the dribnitsa? "I'm getting on my nerves!!" - If a person beats Why a person starts to fight.
If you ever feel guilty about just looking at your person, with whom you need to be united together “and in the mountains, and in joy”, do you feel stronger than the bazhanna just go where you go, abi yogo not bachiti? As soon as you start to fight with a person, then you may have serious problems in the windows and you need to get used to the terms.
Our psychologist will tell you about those who are shy, how they fight people, so simple that you will soon forget about that hour, if your only bazhann was more apart.
Why is the man fighting?
Well, a man fights and fights - a similar problem is blamed hour after hour for hundreds of thousands of women in the whole world. Most of them stumbled upon the problem and continued to live happy family lives.
First, try your own advice on the question, why are you fighting with yourself? Those who have not screwed the cap on a tube of toothpaste again or have not walked their dog, have they already asked for it a hundred times? Or maybe I’ll sit again all evening watching TV with a splash of beer in my hands, and the fact that you have a migraine and yogo cries of “Come on, Arshavin, earn it!” Are you just being beaten?
Here the club, as it seems, is about two kints. From one side, that’s why that very person, in a yak, if they died, and for a yak they went abroad, and the axis from the other ...
From the other side, in the thick of the bitter consecration in love, that romantic proposition of the hand and heart of you, I hope no one is ahead of those that your quiet family nest periodically calls the braziers of the scarp. Moreover, blame the stench of the most recent areas of your apartment.
You didn’t suspect that order, which you put in place for a long two years, in a second to transform into chaos, only to the one who, bachite, needs to know the bed, as if he didn’t wear wine already, and on yoga, all his talent is directly blamed. ruiner". It's a pity, the most widespread causes and all the stench associated with our butt.
Cholovik becoming dratuvati - shukayemo compromise
Family life - tse, persh for everything, compromise and the sooner you understand, the better. You can be lucky that you don’t go to sacrifice fast, and you live in greater harmony with your needs. Really, it's not like that.
Think, even if you have your own skeletons in your closet! For example, when you look at the stars, your eyes are shriveled with a razor when you need “emergency epilation”, if you don’t have hair for an hour in other ways, and on your page the “wife has been erased” or the bazhannya propylososit the kilim in front of the TV set right at the end of the Mundial. Wait, you're not a yangol.
So de wykhid? Never mind the bitterness will kill all those lower ones, for how many times did you feel one to one? From there, everything is already lying around for you.
What a man is fighting - what work, what did it feel like? Try to be somewhat tolerant and tell yourself:
- So, wine, zvichayno, lightly shrug off your sleep, but then, like wine, before tim kohaetsya!
- Obviously, my man is not the best man in the world, for his hands are simply golden. At the booth, everything is screwed up and screwed up.
Options may be impersonal. On skin yoga minus try to know the plus. And you will be amazed by it, like a kind of belongings, you are really lucky.
Zagalni zakhoplennya in the fight against butovy underdresses
Try to delve deeper into yoga hobbies. Tse help you better understand your blessed one. Let's say, go fishing with him. It is not included, that, having risen from all the thin spaces, you and the floorings themselves will be drawn in, that in another day you will, choking in the sight of a hoarding, tell your girlfriends about those that “spinning this mark is just a plague!” i sho on a new vee,
It is even more important that you have a sleepy bed as a person. If people are suffocating “one after the other”, then the beds come closer to them, so that none of the rubbish underdresses can no longer get on the path of your family well-being.
Korisno at once z'їzditime at the entrance. Choose to be quieter, but obov'yazkovo a fiery place. The beauty of nature is calmly, and your pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst pіdsvіdomіst priymatі all navkolyshnє (zokrema i chelovіka, scho scho zapokіylo) іncludіvіlі in a positive way.
There is a possible and protractile option here. Fix it okay. You can’t show yourself, as if you’re pouring into human pretense to the point of being sonorous.
After two days of separation, you will attack one on one like a hungry wolf (at good sense) and inspire as your person then the power of the latest rout at the apartment through the program of the beloved team, you are absolutely not vide with jealousy.
What a man is fighting - why can't you work?
Mіtsnі, stable stosunki will be no less on the kohannі. The head key to these doors, tse mind the partner. A woman in nature was created more like a gnat in every plan. Їy richly easier to follow the main way of life of a kokhan.
You don't need to practice yogo perobiti. Do not think that other women have done a bad job, and you have the power to change a person. You can't! Or take yoga like this, like wine, or go.
Do not think that people are blind. Stink bachat everything for an hour richly better for us. And if your person looks at you in love and understanding of yoga, kind soul, turn around, wine will be able to assess the same. And who knows, maybe one fine evening you will be explaining youma, sitting in a luxurious evening cloth at the hall of the Opera House, why the ballerina can wind up the same style, or why the coloratura soprano winds up in the mezzo.
Beat a man: what work?
Olga(32), slubі 10 rocіv
Ten years family life- a more meaningful term at first glance. In a childish routine - the state, children, repair and otherwise - the hour seems to be squeezed, there is no such trivality. І axis raptovo, fate on the eighth, it dawned on me: we need different films, places, types of repairs and so on. Tobto, we vzagali dissimilar people one on one. On the back of my mind, I was surprised: it was given, it was obvious earlier, I just didn’t show respect. And then I began to remember all the little details, which as a result formed a great mountain of claims, the head of which sounded like “you don’t bachish with my wife.” Visnovok іz tsikh razdumіv buv simple, - mabut, the hour has come to shukati the apartment and part. With a sigh, everything seemed to make me understand.
Directly, our conversation with the psychologist began to change from Katya’s food: “Why are you talking to me, and not to the realtor?” Here and began the rallying of everything, buy heaps of claims and search for answers. As a result, we decided to finish the visnovka that was not suitable for me: the behavior of a person mirrors my hair. Tobto, better for everything, win tezh maє the same bunch of claims before me. To the only one, to which it was not possible to get to the bottom, why - why did you put the knife switch, which one day did not dare to focus on the partner’s shortcomings.
Katerina Ignatova, transactional analyst: Buvay, a person comes to therapy, as far as she thought it over and formulated the request. Vin, for example, a moment to realize that the same rake is always coming. Otherwise, youmu does not dare to reach the bazhany. Abo vin something to be afraid of. In vipadkah, if the question is obvious, you can negociate the robot. Prote z Olga the situation turned out to be different. Vaughn spoke for a long time about those that a person has ceased to understand, that they have more razdіlnogo, nizh zagalnogo, but at the same time she could not figure out for herself what kind of therapy she wanted.
Like a mit, if we started talking about a little Olga, tears came into our eyes. A rich and virile girl arose - in the її mіstsі vinikla was ruined, but the girl was unhappy, as she could not know the everyday causal consequences, she was just nasty. Vaughn began to swear that she was constantly embarrassed to bend over, and she was even tired of it. And the very same thing we did, we rozpochati will come zustrіch.
Like a fighting man.
Ganna(27), slubі 10 rocіv
I came to the psychologist in the state of complete absence of help: we were friends for 10 years, but still I didn’t learn to understand one another. A person is called not to chirp with children, for a new one is less than a robot. Win and see our needs. You know, once you earn a penny, we can be put up to something, like to the center of the universe. There are a lot of moments spent in yoga behavior. Already started to get busy, maybe I'm not working like that? I don’t understand why my family life doesn’t add up. I guessed, the psychologist would give a third-party look at the situation, but in the middle you didn’t understand, what could be changed in the beginning.
I will need additional help in the consultation process, I took it. Marina gave a smattering of obedient joys, which were really obvious, but I myself would not have fallen asleep on the thought of their chivalry. Zagalom, positive destruction is already accepted. One session for serious changes is obviously not enough, but I would like to understand where you need to collapse.
Why beat a man? Psychologist's thought
Marina Aksionova, psychologist: The first attack on Anya is sweet at the meeting, vіdkrita, ready to spіvpratsi. But the process of establishing a contact seemed to be collapsible - the distance and the presence of the change were observed, which were not invisibly placed by the client and seemed to be closed. Before that, Anya had come for a consultation with a little child, like, naturally, she had respect, turboti. This has also become a peril for focusing on the situation. Possibly, in a similar rank, її stosunki with a man are formed. It is important to understand one alone, if you are aware.
We discussed a lot of food: how a connection is formed with a person, how they turn around a little, how contact is established, how it is cleared,
in both and so on. And I thought that one of the reasons for the “not such” behavior of Anya’s man may be in the area of unclearly prompted stosunkivs between that man and his squad. Possibly, on the right, the unknown one has the same. The offensive claims of my client became obvious: the need for intelligence, the need for encouragement, including moral, sometimes the directive behavior of a person, as if taken by a girl as aggression. It is possible to give the characteristics of “resistance” to the pairs of bets: it’s impossible for Anya to take a person like an enemy, to whom I can make a enemy. And the fear of growing apart, spend for yourself, which is often experienced in family life. For Anya, as for a thin and vulnerable person, it is important to know one's own - the power of kut, okremi in this way, in which one can develop. Narazy girl basically realizes herself like a mother. Aleone wants to feel bazhana, necessary, flowery, beautiful - in a word, Woman. Schopravda, declares about what is needed through the mother's part. It’s important that Ani’s respect was directed not only to children, but also to a person: for example, organize a trip at a cafe and a movie together - there, you can be alone, make yourself not less than fathers, but also a man and a woman.
In this session, we concentrated on Anna's stosunki with a man. And then I tried to understand the conflict with him as if it were the reflection of the internal conflict of my client. In Ani nibi there are two voroguyuchi parts between themselves. One is passive, vulnerable, victim, otherwise - active, zhorstka and aggressive, so as not to be wise and accept those who are, to establish their own rules. It is necessary to know what are the parts, how to play a role, how to live and interact. At a glance, the internal inconvenience of feelings, needs, bazhan, ochіkuvan, unreasonable and in some way unacceptable to myself.
What we used to talk about, I saw more about them, Anya’s feelings are inconsistent and sensitive, as she needs special space, and sometimes self-sufficiency. І yak coherently їy vyslovlyuvati tі pochuttya - through the fight, what to know them. It’s rich in why the girl doesn’t recognize herself with a healthy and mitznoy on her feet - it’s important to understand and practice far away.
Beat a man: another story
Nataliya(34), the girl has 15 years
I came to a psychologist not just because of the abstract, dissatisfied family life - we still have a solid experience. There was a specific problem - the happiness of a person. I did not know what to work in this situation - what to work, what to turn around and drink. One on the right is a hypothetical setting up for the sake of a person, and zovsim іnsha - close with her for real. Emotions felt, obviously, even stronger, that anger was unreasonable for us. I didn’t take the right path: I started digging in myself, shukati nedolіki.
I came out like a psychologist from almost a nameless lightness: it worked out, we solved the main problem, set priorities, I had a reason, in which I was going to collapse far away. It was too hard. But the night before it became so nasty, so they hit him with a butt on the head. Anew appeared the sight of a hopeless, deaf kuta. The next day, I feel comfort, even though marvelously, it turned. But I don’t hesitate: I understand, one visit is not enough - to change, you need to work on yourself.
What work, how do you fight a man? Dumka expert
Zhanna Sergeeva, analytical psychologist: The sight of a deaf kuta is the very same camp, where a person often comes to a psychologist. Sound out loud in response to the crisis of the middle age, if there are too many vicherpans, the head of the vikonan, another half of life is repaired, for which one has a better life, for example, knowing oneself, gaining wisdom. But you can see that you can only go through a crisis, as you are often accompanied by ill feelings: yes, nothing is stupid, there will be nothing new, fighting man, they are wondrous things, they are not happy at the moment. Abo bazhan zovsіm not z'yavlyaєtsya.
If Natalya described her camp, the word “deaf kut” sounded more than once. All the same, she blew it out of it - change your life, remember the empty ones that you have settled down after the fact that the children have grown up and have ceased to demand a steady turbo. Until that time, the woman had not worked for a long time, and I wanted to feel more independent as a person, smart and financially. Ale choose busy to the soul, what else to bring pennies, did not go into - on the thought of Natalia did not fall down the everyday ideas of anything. There is also a fear of competition with young people who have recently received enlightenment.
Analytical psychologists work a lot with the use of images, symbols, images, myths. That is why I urged the clients to tell the fairy tale to the beloved child. We could have joked about the image of a new one, making it a powerhouse of strength and innocence. It’s important to say that Natalya was such a fairy tale in her, she didn’t remember her childhood very well. Alya before his eyes was placed the book "Black cock, or underground inhabitants." Z її hero - lad Alyosha, who descends to the underground - Natalya associated herself. Closing her eyes on my passing, she indicated that she herself should enter to this underground. “How do you make contact with your future?” - I energized and otrimala vіdpovіd: "On the dotik." It was warm, soft, fluffy - but if we began to talk about it, it was obvious that there were two images behind them: a rabbit, a domestic, calm and patient one, and intestines, yak you can protect yourself in the absence of safety, rob your own vibir she herself does not allow herself to be curt. I urged Natalia to think more often about her gut, as a gift to give her strength. And also look for a contact with your own unknown, the stars can come to tell you what to do. Introduce in detail the place, de Natal, to get better, clothes, to whom we go there, the road to the booth to the office, to make a new one for yourself, to feel freedom, lightness, and singing. Such “films” about our future building give us more, less be logical understanding of the situation. With your help, you can find out what we really wanted to do and what kind of things.
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How can I see those, how I seem to be, there are, hot. It’s already easy to stream it to yourself, my razdratuvannya more and more often breaks through the names. But I still love yoga and want to be with him.
Why does a person start to fight: psychological reasons
The situation described above is similar to that of a typical fallow land. Such sim's seem to have a weak-like susceptibility to sharp changes in mood.
Druzhina, yaka vydchuvaє psikhologichno zalezhnіstі vіd cholovіka, maє podvіyni pochutya. From one side she is tied to the new one, from the other side she is torn apart, that she is trying. Rudeness and caress go one into one, that you need to properly tlumach the behavior and people start suffering.
Insanely, such couples find it easy to get used to compromise, for them they fall on black and white, they are practically daily.
Such a model of behavior is formed in the children, if the fathers zastosovuvali kіlka strategіy in vyhovanni, then covered with mosquitoes, then vіdshtovhuvali, zastosovuvali violence, children are important to understand why it is so put before her, and її zavdannya begin to learn to stick to the behavior of the father.
Oskelki in early childhood, the fathers could not secure the child's protection and security, then she has a practical day-to-day education dovirchih vіdnosin. The new one has less sense of closeness, so as to pass over from inconvenience. Then a singing mechanism closes in the child, which launches a permanent change of feelings.
At the request, a man is fighting, what work is a cicacious moment. Emotion like teasing is superficial. For rozdratuvannyam hovaetsya more and more glibshe: bіl, images, fear.
If such a woman suffocates, then begin to spratsovuvat nagodzheniya childishness mechanism: kokhannya will not be long, to change the satisfaction, a rose will come. And to enter into the group rozdratuvannya, as I can protect the woman from obvious suffering.
The man started to taunt ... Razdratuvannya - rice, you are afraid to cross. Vaughn reveals another peculiarity, in psychology they call it “shadow”.
Razdratuvannya on a person is a protector, which protects you from the penetration of the deep process of the unknown. Razdratuvannya give an hour to the unknown impulses to calm down and call.
How to get ripped off on a person?
If there is any negativity on a person, then it’s important to stop fighting.
But if you dare to know in the right senses, then you will see those with whom you cover up your dissatisfaction. Don’t give yourself the stench to love someone in a right way, mothers of special freedom, love someone consistently. An illusion is being created, as if it were making you feel the deepness of the kokhannya.
Sob to get out of frustration on a person, to endure those who care for him.
It is possible to irritate a person - tse zahisna reaction to the broken cordon. Showing all the love, the woman is spending her specialty. For the sake of this, you will leave your dream for later. It’s up to you that a person is to blame for what he didn’t dare to realize. Through tse vіdchuvaє nibi nezrazumіle razdratuvannya on cholovіka. Explanation, razdratuvannya - tse reaction on a small special space, which she saw herself at her place.
Why bother with such harassment on a person? It is important to know the compromise between life with a partner and without it. Sim'ya vymagaє a lot of things to consider, but it's not necessary to fall into extremes. Take the rhythm of life, which is comfortable for you, do not be influenced by what is significant.
Living with a man is like buying new furniture, you need to blame, turn it over, get out.
In family life, look at the stars, set priorities. Being a man, continue to watch over your care, but at the same time, secure your care.
If you react to your own needs, and listen to yourself, then drama will stop accumulating. Your person is not to blame for the cause of internal stress.
Dissatisfied with the hour signals about those that you do not dare to understand yourself. Maybe, for whatever reason, you can’t work out what you want, you can say it well, or you’re afraid of embarrassing someone else. With the help of these diami, you allow yourself to see life.
Unsatisfactory plans are transformed into dissatisfied with themselves and know they are out of frustration. Be truthful and tremblingly stand before what is in the soul.
Dissatisfaction with a partner can be blamed through yoga, as we know, infantilism. Here the woman takes on the role of mami as a man, as it will require the sorcerer's mind to rise. Shorazu vіdchuvaє vіdchuvaє razdratuvannya, if vіn not vikonuє vimog.
It’s about you, to be honest, that the skin of a person can have his own pace of life, temperament, for someone to make a decision, it’s enough to be quiet, and for someone it’s necessary. Obviously, special differences call for confusion. But all the same, respect the particularities of the parterre, so that the stench does not run after yours. Those that are instilled in people by nature cannot be twisted.
Pobut that family obov'yazki impose their own rules, but a couple can learn to accept one another, which will help them to compromise.
For razdratuvannyam on a person, you can be hovatsya as if the need is not satisfied. And if you want harmonic stosunkiv, then you need to recognize and sing. Feel and understand, the crime can’t kill you.
I wanted to finish it, that the dramatization of the whole is naturally felt, trapleyaetsya at all. It acts as an indicator, which shows that the time has come to gain respect for yourself and your inner light.
Starting a sleepy life with a kohanoy people, what could you let in, what would change the euphoria, addictions and charms to come? And the stars in the new one ceased to be cute, and the heat beats out of the number, and the behavior is out of jealousy. The forces are running out, the girls are fuming - the squad becomes drastic, strained, angry. What work, how do you fight a man? Yaki possible reasons? Where is the root of the problem? І not as much as an ear of kintsa?
Why is a person becoming a prankster
Ring out the roiling of the squad after the first fate of a happy life. Some serious twins and chi stinks can blow your hats, psychologists will help you.
How to beat a person, it is necessary for us to explain the reason for this negative emotion. If it is reasonable - it is decided to come promptly.
The reason for the embarrassment | Cause coils |
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Cholovik sloppy, bezporadny at the butt | Borscht on the tablecloth, miles of brizki on the mirror, brudni shkarpets under the sofa, winter speeches to fight the retinue of the guard. Stupіn razdratuvannya lie down according to the nature of the image. Like a woman is shattered by cleanliness, її negativity accumulates quickly, waggling around with serious family conflicts. |
Making friends too late to spend an hour together | Tse tі bet that they work together. Obviously, they have a shared trip to work / work, however, they move, monotonous weekdays and weekends. It is rare for anyone to go into such a regime to save trembling and tenderness. For the first time, women fight first, because they don’t get a fresh wind. The stench just gets into the act of single-manhood. |
The person is linear, without initiative | A man on the couch with a beer in his hand is the best excuse for rozdratuvannya. Yogo is constantly adding molts, everything is at his disposal: you can watch movies at home, spend more money on bad roses, tired, you can’t go anywhere, we can’t save up enough for a car. |
The team called vin rich obov'yazkiv | The squad is started by a fighter, as if the slave is strongly affected. Literally everything is on it - children, the main income, organization of doswell, gospodaryuvannya (obprat, infuriate, put to sleep). |
Accumulated images | The corruption is not to be blamed empty space, It's like a snow coma. Psychologists say that long-standing, unsatisfactory images of that claim become a trigger for a permanent development. Such a reason can become a drive for separation. Navkolishni marvel at what: "The stinks parted through the German kitchen!". And what was up to this group, no one knows. |
Druzhina not vlashtovuє dozvіllya squad | Like a squad, friends of a person are fighting, you can always come in handy for football, a stinking fisherman, if you need to clean up the kitchen every day, you need to spend pennies on sumnivnі auto parts - the world will not be able to get a check in this. Druzhini just put food ruba - or friends (football, garage) or me! |
Sexual dissatisfaction of the squad | After an unhappy night, as a rule, an unhappy day comes. Intimate closeness means a lot of things: like the squad is satisfied, it’s less drastic, that’s a fact! |
A man gives children a filthy butt | The squad is becoming more drastic, like the idleness (unacceptable behavior) of a person is driven by її children. Vіnіchim don't choke on anything, don't pronounce a successful life, don't pass on an important message, don't read children to anything good that could be good for them. |
There is one more reason, through which a man fights a squad - the period of the child's training. Psychologists do not care about the importance of a global problem, the shards of this situation can be short-lived. The fault of the increased drativity of hormonal disorders and the fight maybe mami for future canopies. Save the harmony of the slave, less patience, rozuminnya, turbot of a person.
First of all, you need to listen to yourselves - why have you lost your negative emotions behind the board?
Dratuє cholovik: who is guilty of what
All people are alive, this is our behavior, self-feeling and emotions to lie in the presence of rich zovnishnіh factors. Most of the bumps fly on the nearest people - on people. The partner can play with the woman at the time of PMS, during the period of inability to receive training / work, at the hour of important life situations, when welding with mom / girlfriend / boss just fine.
In such sleeping quarters, nothing is to blame - all the stupidity, the summation of the furnishing, in which all the negative emotions were confused. Understandably, the person is not guilty of standing up, in a way you are squirming, it’s unfair by the age of the new. Vmіte razmezhovuvat vlasnі problems.
Everything is like a squad fighting with a person: like a wine, crope, laughing, looking like one, alive, a smell - on the right, definitely at the squad. If you are fighting at this address, if you have any kind of drive, ask your own thoughts: “Why would you give me a call, if there was another person in front of me?”. If the opinion is negative, then nothing, the crime of a family psychologist will not help you, because the problems of your roiling are more pronounced.
And then there are the reasons why complexes, dissatisfaction with the quality of one’s life, irrational perekonannya, negative minuliy dosvіd and other psychological problems of the squad act as degenerates. For example, a squad is fighting a man, who, with his sounds (behavior), casts a spell on an unacceptable person from the past. Whose wine is the smallest person? Nі, zhіntsі it is necessary to understand, that he entrusted іz іz zhivot іnshа іnsha people, іnshіm character, attitudes, views on life. At the same time, the psychologist's robot will have a direct squad.
What can you do to razdratuvannya and fix everything? You can only hurt your partners, and you are ready to work on the waters.
Chi varto go, yakscho razdratuvannya reached the peak point? Psychologists seem that vryatuvati shlyub not go into extreme situations: the squad fell in love with a person, but is not ready to take yoga like this, like wine at once.
Like razdratuvannya mezhuє s hatred, baiduzhіstyu, anger - union ryatuvati not maє sensu. So don't think that you can change a person / reshape / improve on yourself. Tse khibna stitch, mature people do not change.
Well, if you love a person, or if you want to inspire positive emotions, if you don’t know how to humiliate your anger, the next step is for you.
Otzhe, scho robiti, like a powerful man fighting, bіsit, and are you ready to beat him in?
- Know, accept and regulate your drama. As soon as you see that the crackdown reaches the peak point, look for ways to the entrance. Learn to calm down, chime in for an hour. Wash off your disguise, fall asleep in a voice of love with a song, blame your mind, drink some tea.
- The door of a rosemary pidide for the rendition of a neohaynous, lazy chi of an uninitiative person. I would like to calmly ask you to put the scarpets in the pan for the whiteness, spin the toothpaste behind you, go for groceries at once, pick up the child from the garden, eat at the kitchen table. Tell the squad that the soldiers are so important to you, and they definitely don’t stink that the union was panned by scandals and scandals. Shlub is a robot of both partners, so you can’t get into one gate.
- At times of uninterrupted sleeping hours (on a robot, at home, on a recovery), it is necessary to correctly designate the special space. Know your own occupation, on which you are moving. Kindly help creative teams and sports. In the future, you remember that razdratuvannya is known and freshness is present again in the waters. Ale, don’t overdo the chicken, don’t work so that the suffocation vibudovuvaet bar'er between you.
- Mostly turn around to the past. Guess what the person cheered you on, how you fell in love with yoga. Vlastovyte romantic pampering, try to feel like a young woman and a sensitive woman. A man will try to wait for you.
- Praise your partner. Do not be stingy with a wide compliment, as you understand that a person is trying to smooth out your anger. I washed my plate, and prepared my bed, and switched my boring football for you. Remember to emphasize respect for the good.
- Like the problem is attached to the non-violent girlfriends of obov'yazkіv - discriminate sexual life. AT to the current world tse robiti awkwardly: films, specialty shops, literature. Do not waste anything. Let it be infrequently, but it’s more than enough!
- Like a person is fighting his busyness and otherness, spending more than an hour at a time. Find out the hoarding, as if you will be both to the soul, dwelling on a sleepy weekend for a day. After the robots speak obov'yazkovo, discuss the last day. Initiate dialogue plays an important role.
- Most often marvel at yourself from the side. What are your objective reasons and claims? What is fair? And how do you remember when you are?
- Don't take an image. As you see, you start to fight, tell people about it. “You interrupted the pivshafi at the search for a T-shirt, I am angry with you. Don't work like that anymore."
- Often hang around one by one. Psychologists seem that tactile contact is closer, smoothing out all the beauty and shortness between a person and a woman.
- Translate the problem into humor. Like a man fighting strongly, champing or spilling borscht on a light tablecloth, revealing a clown’s red nose on his face, or instead of a hairy curly ore of peruk. To smooth out the negative, and for the whole hour think about yoga goodness.
- Forget about moving tone, manipulation, threats. Scandals are less powerful than anger and anger, and a person only works against what has been said and works everything for evil.
Another recommendation from a psychologist. As if you are being strongly fought by a noble person, take a sheet, spread it out, write moments with a left-handed hand, as if you were not in power, and a right-handed person - your reaction to these moments. It will be ideal, if you have the right to try it at once. Let him open up his leaves. You have 2 lists in your hands: in one, those who fight you, in the other, those who singly fight your partner (see, get angry, shout, cry, go, eat dishes). Exchange your lists and go ahead, work on the 100s!
As a person you are far away, and you don’t know what to work, the main task of a psychologist is to promote this problem. Explain, nourish, practice one by one. Not a single Movchannya vomited a hat.
As if a person has come to you, or rather, yoga sounds and that behavior call out to you is less annoying, think about those that all people are different. You have a man, like bi vy were not similar, different, vihovannya, values, temperaments, statements about life. Those that are pleasing to you, you can reach only the power of your will, and navpaki. Take a look at the new one under a lower hood, not even pretending to be the one with whom it is impossible to live any longer? If so, you should know from your own strength to find out! Aje vie both deserve to be happy!
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Bagats used to have such a thing. Once you catch yourself on the fact that you can directly beat like rice or the name of your person, beat up to three-handed hands and creak in your teeth. And in my head the thought sounds louder and louder: "Ah-ah-ah, how are you fighting me!!"
Moreover, most of the time, earlier, the rice chi diy, who called out to piss off their person, did not rush. Abo, prinaymni, did not call out SUCH negative feelings. Did you start working with him, did you get out for him without any fuss? So the lad didn’t fight earlier, but then we began to fight. Let's figure out why it's so annoying.
In this article, we are not talking about those situations, if a person fights for pressing objective reasons (p'є, smoke, don’t blink, don’t help anything, at the TV set all the free time, mutter steadily, stupidly, yours, etc. thinly) .), but about these situations, if the scam is started through drіbnitsa, and sometimes - and zovsіm nibi zvіdki, and all the growth and growth. I want to.
Two vidi razdratuvannya
Chi є rozdratuvannya on svogo cholovіka alarming zvіnkom or navit drive rozіitsya? Why does a man / lad begin to fight? Let's try to get to know each other. Girls swear at the same variety of underdresses, that it is important to indicate to what category your subdivision belongs .
At once I will bring a spear of butts (all the real girls' scarves are on their people), divided into two groups. And you need to choose, to which group your imitation is more suitable.
Otzhe, my lad / young man / man fights and beat me less, scho wine:
The first group of podrazniki:
- throwing shkarpets everywhere
- forget your guilt
- do not buy products
- don't brush your teeth or don't wash your hands
- constantly pouring the toilet
- champing
- do not speak lightly
- do not close the toothpaste
- rozdmuhuє be like a sore and no, like youmu is nasty
- crunch with tassels
- feel the inguinal region
- laugh at bad fires
- knocking with a spoon, if you make zukor at tea
- too much lick hair
- mispronounce words
- everyone listens to mom and podtakuє їy
- do not go out, if friends come
- do not know the strings of the scarpets in the wake of the arrival at home
Another subgroup:
- dratuє how to sound yogo smіh
- play yoga dots
- drag yoga smell
- play those chi and yogo tins
- dratuє yogo way of thinking
They appointed a group - what did they give?
How did you already understand
- the first group - podrazniki zrozumіlі ta zakonіrnі
- another group - imitations at first glance irrational
So if before you smіh, voice, manners, gestures, the smell of your man did not fight, but then became a rapt. And not to the one who became stinky (smell, like it smelled earlier), and not to the one who became irzhati, like a kіn (laughing and laughing with a loud laugh), and not to the fact that the wine became uncontrollable and stupidly waving his hands (gesticulation like a bula, such lost) - but then I started to fight from tsgogo (and sometimes at the same time).
І reactions among different girls are also different: if you start to sing and smirk a person, if you accumulate everything in yourself, vіdchuvayuchi, as if rozdratuvannya slowly covered everything well and psuє character, if the term is shukkaє vyrishennya problem.
So what's on the right? Why do we at this moment start in the bugnet and take it as a diary, draw the sounds of your people? Why do people start to fight? Absolutely, what is the sign, but the sign of what? And it’s better to lie down in a group of podraznikiv, in a yak your man is drinking.
I’ll sort it out with the first group, because the reason for the strife here is always on the surface. Vaughn is obvious, she figured it out, and if you suck it, your teasing will be gone.
What work with the first group
What a marvelous thing, so many (to name such psychologists!!) seem: “Change your position in such a situation, learn to accept a person like that, like a wine.” Let me rephrase: "call the hell out, sit still and be patient."
For those who do not have such a position, the bagatma is overrated by women and girls (and by me, among them) joy: talk to him . Do not shout, do not quarrel - talk. Calmly and wisely.
Understand this verse: people shy away not to harm us. You have already asked to continue, so that your person ceases to work, and the wine continues, all the same, not out of evil. Well, from just the same people. For them, often dribnitsa are those that are important for us. Stinks often do not mark the one who fights us, they forget that.
So, my dears, just talk. Not shouting: “Take me apart with your own…!!” and not in an ultimatum form: “If you don’t stop, I’ll stop baking pies!”, but reasonable, with explanations.
There are more than a couple of simple rules here:
- Speak not with hysterics, but with arguments. People will understand the language of arguments.
- Do not zagalnyuyte and go to special. Talk about chastkovnosti, and not about the people themselves. Tobto. as if talking about scarpets, talking about scarves, and not the axis of the axis: “You stinking pig, the axis is like this, like living with such an ugly istoto! ..”. Why so? Because they criticize us like people - we don’t feel it, we curl up, we are imagined, we attack at the sight. If they criticize our okremі diї (especially poking fun at what we ourselves are - darlings and sonechki) - then we are ready to change for the sake of the comfort of our people.
- Speak not in image, but in discord. Your man has no way of imagining you. You don't live with an asshole. І yakscho vin to love you, she respects (). When you form, you attack. If you get confused, you just share your experiences and joke about the outrageousness and cuddling of your person. It’s better if you attack Yogo, or if the woman came for support and you can solve this problem?
- Talk about your own feelings, and not about those who are an unacceptable bastard. "I'm bad", "I'm so embarrassed", "I'm not on my own because of this", "I'm so worried" - tse garni options. "You don't listen to me!", "You don't do anything for me!" - Tse duzhe nasty options.
Apply razmovi
Come up to your person and say in a calm, soft voice: “Dear, I need to discuss with you what is important for me.” Before the speech, forget about the phrase “I need to talk to you” for a while - so you only call out the panic of a person, and you will not be able to calmly accept your words.
Check, while the person is in the position of hearing, timidly pause, so that you can take this respect and say: “I love you more, but what do you care about us: you are saying the words with the wrong voice and not only my ear, but singly and the hearing of your superiors, supporters, friends - don’t you want to, so that the stench would think that you are an unliterate person? How do you think, how am I going to correct you and you slowly remember, how right, can you help me? І opa - tse vіn vіn prіmaє vіshennya, but not you came to the new one with a hitch.
Abo: “I love you more, but it’s too bad that I’m more turbulent: you constantly sniff one place, sometimes in public, wanting not to commemorate that ... (Tse, schob wine is stronger). And me, first, it’s not handy for you, but in a friend way, I’m worried, why is everything in you there, and why is it not necessary to get it wrong with the doctor?
Abo: “I love you more, but I see that dissatisfaction is growing in me from one drive, and I don’t want it to wag one time on the trash for us. I would like to, so that you still do not forget the guilt of your mind: you can not be sensible, but it stinks, it’s even unacceptable, I didn’t call life among the smorid. And to make it better for you, I’ll put it on the front door.” And everything is in the same spirit.
To talk about it in a language that you can instill as you tolerate, then you will vibrate and see a new and wiser іnshoy person - vin tezh one time more often to tease you like that. We are all different, and you can’t do without moments of razdratuvannya. And if you don’t know how to correctly observe these moments, then all your stances will be lost.
To talk, problems from the first group can be overcome. Nothing, as soon as you need to repeat tsyu rozmovu dvіchi, trichі - sooner or later the person will remember. Golovna, don’t say: “Well, I already told you already, well, I asked you a hundred times already,” because that attack was ringing. To repeat again, it wasn’t mad until the end of the night - you don’t get angry.
Guard
Possibly, your man is bullying you just for the one who behaves like an asshole. For example, it seems. There is no need for patience, no need to move, no need to try to overcome yoga. Don't see. Rather, invest your time in the pursuit of a good man, and for whom you yourself become a good woman.
Why work with another group
For another group, everything here is richly folded. The reason is no longer lying on the surface, and you don’t know what love has passed, what you have “burned up”, what you just got mad at in the hundred years.
As if I had a similar situation. With us, everything was good with my first lad, until after a couple of months after an ear of stosunkiv, I did not reveal that I was greedily fighting yogo ... voice. What if I didn’t say vin, even if I said vin, I’m ready to bula virvati from the new language. Moreover, there were no objective reasons for such a reaction. Well, the axis of the people. The voice is like a voice, earlier it wasn’t bisiv ... I didn’t understand why I should beat my lad.
It seems like: if the lad is fighting, then you are not guilty. It's a pity, tse so-a-a-aleko don't start like that. Sometimes a person fights just like that, if you don’t want to be entrusted to another person, if you don’t want to know yourself yet. However, if you are a dear person and you don’t want to tear up your ass (before speech, look at the article), you need to try to solve the problem in any way.
Your embarrassment will come later
On the right, in that teasing of a similar kind comes through psychological reasons . You can use:
- depression
- stress
- hormones (PMS, for example)
- tedious or one-man life
- dissatisfaction with one's life
- dissatisfaction with intimacy and intimate life
- you fell in love with yoga
To that, read once again the reasons and be honest in front of yourself: what is it from the listed above?
As a matter of fact, from the first few points, the outcome is obvious: take care of cikavim . Sign up for dancing, swimming, art school, start going to new places - improve your life!
As if to inspire new occupations, you don’t miss out, win a psychological trick: write down all the pluses and minuses of your person on Arkush. Pluses will be more significant and їх will be more (not just like that) and, perhaps, so you guess why you chose yoga, and marvel at the new one with a fresh look.
Dig deeper
It didn’t work out, it’s necessary to dig and renew my honesty from myself, for you are not powerful in your life. You should look at the confusion, but through those that you can, if you want to know something, don’t ask me for the right reason. And rozdratuvannya needs a break, and it won’t be “attached” to one person’s rice: go to it, voice, laughter, gestures, etc.
Look at the list below and give an honest opinion:
- you don't get it human respect?
- Vіn not call you zamіzh?
- people of girlfriends better watch them, lower your man you?
- Are you not satisfied with sex from him?
- would you like to earn more wine?
- you don’t like that you can’t win living food? What else is important food?
- would you like to realize something for yourself, express yourself, but you don’t know, what kind of fault do you seem to be streaming?
- chimos sacrificed for the sake of a new one?
- you don’t see in the new defender that one who could help you in conflict situations and protect you from problems?
Yakscho on yakes іz tsikh pitan vy vіdpovіli “so”, then tse, shvidshe for everything, i є the reason for your frustration . And it will be necessary to solve the problem, depending on the fact, on the basis of nutrition, you answered “so”.
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And what hasn't been realized yet?
Well, well, even nutrition did not clarify the situation, but you want to save money - turn for help to a good psychologist, help you get to the bottom of the matter. Believe me, you won’t be the first and you won’t stop coming to a psychologist with such a problem.
Expanded problem
The most important girls, I can give the pleasure of making two speeches, which can help solve the problem:
- re-read all the articles (їх not so rich)
- marvel at a good exchange rate
New? Let's see, it's possible, the root of your embarrassment is that you're just don't be happy with the hundred girls, even if you love your man . I most often look like a banal nevminnya competently vibudovuvat stosunki and trohi old chi trohi wrong svetoglyadu. And the same article, books and courses will help you more style terms to correct your light-gazer and learn how to be happy. Todi and razdratuvannya pide, and you will become richly happy.
І you learn how to be this woman, how to get good people, behave properly and in spite of your own borders, at the same time shouting majesticly that povagu. I - what is important - a woman, how generously to love and respect your person, and also to motivate and nadihati.
Adzhe in rich vipadkakh like a buvay: a man fights, more to lie on the sofa and do nothing. And if you entrust to another woman, this man himself will know a lot of things to get and gifts to your dear gift. I’m uplifted, if you feel like history, if with one woman you’ve been in trouble, and pishovshi to the next, becoming cool, generous and successful. So, it’s too rich to lie down because of how a woman behaves with her man.
I need to ask myself: I am that woman, the order of which person does not use will until the development of that root of new heights? Am I that woman, like a man who keeps watching and in a suit? Am I that woman, what kind of person do I dedicate my life to my victory? How do you respect and what kind of hoot? Yaku wants to work a happy day?
If not, then don’t get embarrassed. I sing you, how can you learn how to be such a woman. Bagatiokh from us was beaten for the human principle, and this is our fault. Alas, someone from us does not understand, that as a person, having made friends with the same man at the bedside, in the new get-pure, the options “face”, “dobuvach” and “achiever” are included - more than you spend energy, like in a house there is one more man? І axis here the “sofa” option is turned on.
Well, if you learn how to behave like a woman, then a person instructed you to behave differently. And as a result, you will become richly happy and successful, and your blues and your feelings will become truly noble.
Do you think so? Todі just pochnіt razvitatsya at those stosunkіv. And you will be happy, as soon as your dreams begin to change for better, and you will become more and more happy. Obov'yazkovo read our blog and marvel free online webinars.
Another extended problem
In some ways, ripping off a person is a show-off that you live not for this life, as if you wanted to. I check if there is something new, that the food is “violating”.
- So, for example, you can be turbulent by the food of the one who is independent of the person you live with. And wanting, honestly seeming, I don’t want to goiter, I get food, I fall on the same person. Raja to you, after reading the article
- Abo, scho is not rare, you smell like a throw, you pull on and get tired. If you want to believe that it’s so and can but (“after all, live like this! ..”), your inner woman will repair the opir and in a whisper, what you want in a different way. Raja to you, after reading the article
- And maybe you really don’t have power in your life and you don’t know how to get to it? Think.
Yak pozbutis razdratuvannya
Zagalom, as you have understood, it is possible to get rid of embarrassment as much as possible, so be borderline honest with yourself. I is necessary for whom:
- choose the type of your drawing (rational chi irrational)
- even more rationally - talk to a person, even more irrationally - to get to the bottom of the right reason for the embarrassment
- put down the cause of the anger
Well, as your playful person is not particularly useful to you, and the swindle is growing - go. That's why the axis is:
It’s better to be alone, lower at the same time from kim. Life is supposed to be short and the road, so that you can spend yoga on tearing up and empathize yourself with those who fight, just for the sake of not being deprived of one.
Girls, write obov'yazkovo in the comments, what are you fighting with your man, and if you fought earlier - what did it all end with? Have you solved the problem, have you solved it?
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