Ditina said that yoga is used at home. Child b'є otochyuychih
Live, let's live for others,
Ale only on the rahunok of another;
Get pleasure, be your own,
Don't chip anything from someone else:
Axis rule, track straight
For happiness of the skin and all.
G.R. Derzhavin
"For the people of Queen Gremislav. L. A. Narishkin" (1798)
The little girl recently learned to walk and walk with her mother. Vaughn carefully rearranges her legs and go there, where you carry the stench. Mom carefully guarded for the little girl, as she looked at her for a significant step, kicking the child, puffing on her hands and with the words "You can't go far with mommy!" without aggression, but sensitively slipping on the buttocks, until the girl starts phikati. Do you know the picture?
It is impossible to talk about whether a physical influx on a child is like a father in a spirit of temperament, a mental state of a wildly healthy like a father, and a child itself. Vtіm, and vіdrivі vіd vіd zagalnogo cultural equals sіm'ї. What is absolutely unacceptable for some people, then for others it is obvious, unimaginative and unimaginative. To that, if it seems that it is not possible to beat children, otherwise, on the contrary, "in the face of a blunder in the dupe of no one has died yet," it went out as empty, in the face of specific people, that furnishing of their life.
How and for what it is impossible to beat children, in view of such a slippery, for such furnishings, without dying? Different clarifications and additions to the tsikh extinguished іnodi can radically change and transform the idea, like the stench is. You can’t beat children, but how can you morally crush them, belittle them and put them into words? Slopan in the hollow of a six-fold lad, crushed in public by the father, not physically in the child. Ale kill in a child, be-yak dovira to the father for all life.
In this article, under the word "beat" it is not possible to beat a child to an unfamiliar state, I will not be afraid of injuries and any kind of violence, which will lead to a pathologically grown-up camp. Why do you want to know - the topic is okremoї rozmovi.
How to differentiate physical manifestation to a child on spontaneous, impulsive and understanding, what to come out of such a technique that rules just tyranny of grown-ups? Bagato mami seem to know: "We don't have our child." Ale chi skin from these mothers can swear, for example, that, for example, on a day before, they didn’t attack the dupe with their screaming wild voice from an unknown drive of a child, if the stench trudged together exhaustedly with bags like a trip to the shops? How can it be divided, where does it start to "beat the child" and mother's "I just can't see it anymore"?
How to physically pour on a child yoga by fathers and relatives of the relatives of the opposite thoughts of the fathers themselves. Kozhen induce their own arguments, as if they swear by the zdebіlshgo on special dosvіd, naboutiy at that hour, if the father was himself small and without care. Good, so many grown-ups remember their children and analyze the methods of resurrection of fathers. Mentally, these people can be mentally subdivided into kilka categories:
- the fathers, who themselves were not chipped by a finger, they did not belittle it, they did not depict it, but everything was shrugged off with a way of negotiations and temptation;
- the fathers, who were not beaten by the children, were beaten lightly, but the children were morally belittled, imitated, like the children, they made their way with a path molded into a new, almost guilty litter;
- the fathers, as in childhood, took away the sweatshops and flattering, but only for real fault, moreover, the child was suitable for winter, with whom they had grown up, they did not belittle and did not portray;
- fathers, yakі small childishness and yakikh і beat (important and sore і wear a belt), і belittled, і punished with the drive.
It is easy to guess who from these categories of fathers will be categorically against the physical influx, and who is more respectful, that there is nothing terrible for the child in the potlichnik. The unacceptability of the physical punishment is blamed on yoga for humiliation, image, guilt.
There is nothing terrible for the most physical spit (as it is not beaten, obviously) there is nothing terrible. Life is impossible to be refined and completely safe. The skin of us sticks (sometimes more, sometimes more often) with different physical infusions between people, starting from friendly fights and fighting, ending with self-defense and defending our goodness. In life, everything is different, and it is impossible to isolate and absolutely turn off the physical, including the "father-children" in the hundred years. Skіlki would not discuss on the mothers' forums the topic "how can you physically punish your child", forever there will be opposers and so zatyat physical punishment, and no one can change one's own truth. And it’s all the less so because others have a diametrically protracted knowledge of the fact that such a physical punishment is so early. In some, it is ottozhnyuetsya zі humiliation of the child, and іnshі priymayut physical infusion is less like a protest of the father against the behavior of the child. And if you are mature enough to be aware and thoughtfully stand up to your own thoughts with your child, then you will be able to save some of that negative evidence, which if you have tasted the child yourself. Otherwise, the father can not put food, like you behave with a child, you just accept that model of vodnosin, like you’re bachelor’s from your fathers until the new.
The most important category is fathers, who were beaten even more severely in childhood, who lived in destructive families, which put a special weight on them. Those who could rise above this oppression, in which the stench lived in childhood, and overcome the chaos in their souls, the instillations of their powerful fathers to know the unequivocal answer to the food "beat chi do not beat." Use your finger not to chain your child. Well, who did not dare to repair the model of the vіdnosin, to create an exact copy.
Often mothers slap their child, or give him the potilniks themselves, as an addition to captivating and basic words. For fixing, so be motion. In this manner, the stench is induced to virobiti the child's mental reflex. If mom said that you can’t go far, then if you ignore the fence, the child will be sicker. And then, as my mother thinks, the child will have a strong association: "I can't" - "it hurts." Tse pedagogical pardon. Virobiti such a mental reflex in a child is possible for more than an hour. A child is not a creature, її it is required not to train, but to teach. And it is necessary to help you to adapt to the extra space. Tim more reflection and temperament, mortgaged in a child by nature, may have a significantly stronger influx on your behavior, lower mental reflection, as if you are trying to attach your father to you.
If mother doesn’t know how to use tactics to improve her child’s mental reflexes, she may happen to increase the dose of physical punishments or supplement with moral infusions (belittle, lie, scorn). What is the best result for yourself in changing the behavior of your child in such a struggle? Ale ditina її, madly, otrimaє nі psihіchnі traumas and complexes.
Often, in words, mother declares that she won’t beat her little blood. Ale, it’s so folded, that all good people act like a smoke, if mom is in a fit of anger, if she’s in a fit of anger, you can’t get involved in any other negative emotions, so you don’t physically pour on your child. When you come to you, you start to feel sorry for the little one. Aje Vaughn knows what she sees the little ones, she herself, perhaps, if she tried everything on herself. So, in such scenes, they realize for themselves unfamiliar attitudes, mortgaged to children. And with a rozum, everything is mother rozumіє, but everything is the same, yak and її dads repaired it.
Kindly, like a mother, if you want to change the current scenario in her mind with your child, make sure that in most cases it’s good for us to take that decision to take care of yourself within the framework of critical situations, don’t help. The very sight of such episodes, which are often repeated, can help mothers to switch from automatic (unrecognized) reactions to quiet manifestations, as if mother were to turn in the presence of a child. However, varto vrakhovuvaty and those who can not be long-term anger in their own, aggressiveness, drativity, like a skin from a father at an hour at a time when you are old enough to your child. Such an internal fence on negative emotions can lead to somatic illnesses (migraine, chronic, then sometimes), so it can lead to rapt, why there are no reasons for spalah and fierce aggression with a different degree of ruinous consequences. Child well priymatim tse yak deep injustice on vіdnoshnennju until new. To that mother, varto, do not stifle your anger and beat your child, but make sure that she recognizes her right to her. And even if you don’t beat the beat, try it out yourself in the fall of the situation. More shortly, zvіsno, as if you won't choose "do not beat". There are many ways to translate aggression and destructive energy into greater creativity. For example, mother razumіє, scho you want to give your child for shchos. You can promote with your voice your camp and your bazhanya. And you can, for example, wash the dishes, stroke the whiteness, otherwise it’s on її vibіr. Deyakі mami can rebuke: "How do I miti utensils, if in me in the middle everything is squealing and virue in view of the fact that this shibenik should work like that?" In this vipadka, you can break a couple of plates, and remember those that are left out. And healthy humor, and knowing that there are no ideal children and no ideal fathers, it is better to know the way out for being destructive energy.
So it’s up to the skin dad to understand, that his life is filled with positive, creativity, joy and development, whether it’s the negative of the middle of the world, and the light of the day with the child’s zokrema.
It is often possible to recognize as a symptom of an internal psychological or emotional disorder that is unfavorable in the person himself.
Sim'ya for a child is a small model of suspіlstva, in which you happen to live if you live independently. V_dnosini y sim'ї - tse own kind of simulator for the little one. They can teach you that if you want to lie, to make you angry, or you can fight, then you can (as I will remain in the defense of the world!) hit your own fake. I mean, children don't dare to defend themselves against the attacks of grown-up and older children. And then the stench can’t give advice to the hoaxers at the children’s garden, the school. The child becomes a potential object for ridicule, an image. And in a critical situation, the posture of a child is absolutely defenseless before violence. Tobto. motto: "Children can not be beaten!" zvedeniya in the absolute, you can serve a filthy service in molding methods of self-defense in the child itself.
From the other side, as the fathers allow themselves to show the form of a forceful injection at the age of a child, then they can’t turn around and take everything, as if they were hitting a child on the potilnik. By such a rank of wine you protect your goodness and, therefore, you can stand in conjunction with other people.
The most effective way to escape the forceful interplay with your child is to transfer from the position of "older-younger", "swinger-learner" to the position of friendship and spivpratsi. This is an important way, which means the participation of all members of this family. Ale at the fathers, who go along this path, it is unlikely that they will raise their hand to a little friend, who is being told. And if you get up, then the child is obov'yazkovo probing and sensible, that the mother is already exhausted and embarrassed. Be-yaké in life...
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I sometimes spank a child, but without aggression, more to get through to her, if I almost want to.
At the link with the theme of this article, one episode was guessed from the book of Carlos Castanedi "Come on the way to Ixtlan".
I'll do yoga again. The second glance, what is called ...
"Me and don Juan just sat and babbled about tse, and I told you about one of my friends, which is a serious problem with the nineteenth son. The rest of the rocky boy is alive with his mother, and then dad took yoga to himself and I immediately stumbled over food: why work with a child? Behind the words of my friend, that one didn’t learn at school in a moment, that one didn’t cry out, and, moreover, the lad had a day-to-day building to the point of being angry.
So, it's really a problem, - don Juan chuckled.
I want to tell you more about the children's "tricks", but don Juan cut me off.
Enough. It's not for us to judge about yoga toppings. Bad kid!
It is said to do it sharply and firmly. Ale potim don Juan smiled.
Ale, what is the job of my friend? - I'm asleep.
Naigirshe, what can you do to win, - you better think about the child, don Juan said.
What are you doing on the street?
Batko is not in any way guilty of barking, or the lad’s slob, if it’s not repaired in the right way, it’s like it’s out of control, or it’s filthy to behave.
So, if you don’t show firmness, how can you teach a child?
Let your friend smash it so that someone else slapped the child.
Don Juan's proposition resonated with me.
Don't let Aje Win let anyone point his finger to the new one!
Well, my reaction was worthy of you. Vin smiled and said:
Your friend is not a warrior. Yakby wine was a warrior, I would have known that with human beings there can’t be anything girsh and marny direct opposition.
And why in such vipadkas to rob warriors, don Juan?
Warrior is strategic.
All the same, I don’t know what you want to say.
And the axis is: yakby your friend was a warrior, vin bi didpomіg sinovі zupiniti svіt.
What rank?
For which youmu needed a special power. Win can be a magician.
But vin is not a magician.
In such a time it is necessary that the picture of the world change, to the sound of a boy. On whom you can help and with great help. It’s not yet a bug of the world, but the stench is spread, maybe not worse.
I asked for clarification. Don Juan said:
On the mission of your friend, I hired someone else, so that I could turn the lad. Potrіskav bi garnenko on netrі and znayshov bi there chlovіka yakomog terrible zvnіshnostі.
Schob that nalyakav baby?
You are a fool, just slyakats in your vipadka are not enough. The child needs to be supported, but the father will not achieve anything, as he himself layatime yogo or beatime. In order to stir up a person, it is necessary to press hard on her. However, most of the time, it is necessary to lose the posture with a visible connection with factors and surroundings that are directly connected with this vice. You can only roll with the same hand.
The idea came to me stupidly, it was scarlet with her.
Don Juan is sitting, leaning his left hand on the box and leaning on the bottom of the board. Eyes of Yogo were flattened, but under the eyelids the eyes of an apple were collapsing, first of all, like earlier, looking at me. I felt uneasy, and I said:
Maybe you can still explain the report, what should you do to my friend?
Let's go to hell with the netrivals and know the nastiest bastard, only the youngest and the youngest.
Let's don Juan finish the wonderful plan, which may be inherited by my friend. It is necessary to work in such a way that you will spend an hour of a chergov's walk with a child of employment, following them or checking them at a delusional city.
At the first misconduct of the son, the father give a sign, the tramp jump out of the ambush, grab the lad and wake up like a trace.
And then let the father know how to calm the lad and help him come to you. I think three-chotiri time will be enough, so that you can coolly change the boy's position to everything that you feel. The picture will become light for the new one.
And perelyaks not nasty youma? Why not rock the psyche?
Perelyak does not harm anyone. How to cripple our spirit - that’s just post-prichіpki, bluffs and vkazіvka, which requires work, and which doesn’t.
If the boy becomes sufficiently cherished, you will tell your friend one more time, stay; let me know a way to show my sins to a dead child. Here at the liquorice chi morse. Let the boy anoint the corpse. With the left hand, be the cream of the belly. If you become another person, and by no means can you receive the light the same way as before.
And here I understand that all these fates don Juan, having planted such tactics like myself. On a larger scale, for smaller environments, but with this same principle at the core. I asked, what is it, and I confirmed it, saying that from the very beginning I tried to teach me to “learn light”.
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B'є mother with a tatom, the elder sister is the most distant, and at the end it was announced that the wine was ready to knock on the head, be it a child. Why viniklo such food, there was no such zі eldest daughter.
It’s true that the idea is to encourage youma at the same time to beat the pear that is hanging by the room. but why? (She explained that you can only give tasks, as if you threaten the security) Tato also explain to you that you can’t beat your mother, but for now, until the results of the year!!
Yakshcho yours, why stink? And the child was scheming and... tato, as it seems, having fun. And my IMHO - you can’t allow your mother to be beaten. Pіd be-yakim drives. vociferate, punish, as if nothing is helping.
The child would be otochuyuchih, as if it were not for yoga, but to inspire without a drive visible to you, how to work in such a situation? How to lie down to what? Roznjuvati zabіyakuvatіst child slid, we're in front as if showing aggression, but even in a friend's black, like a behavior, like I have my own reasons. it’s not so rare to hear and the fathers often don’t know how to react to those that the child would be nostalgic and the fathers themselves. What about what work?
For the cob, you can tell the cause of a child's assault, even if you don't do anything just like that, and even a child doesn't just beat your mother, tata chi grandmother.
In the first place, for help, the child’s beatings show their adversity and the situation (as if I don’t take away the bazhany, otherwise I’m afraid of those who don’t want to) and I express my emotions from that drive (anger, image, anger). Insufficient vocabulary stock and a small amount of social interaction do not allow a child for a century, let's say close to rock, constructively resolve the conflict. To that wine vikoristovuє zagal reflexively, the method of physical infusion, like zahisniy. Zahisnyy kind of minds that are unfriendly to themselves, navіt yakscho You just virіshili slander the child with porridge.
In another way, the child would be otochyuchikh through dozvіl. How the fathers “do not mark” such behavior, child of reason, that hitting your mother is normal, even if it was not explained. In addition, as the situation is, if the child is b'є people, if they feel like її, they will end up in the bazhan of the child (or say the fence), then the child will fight or bite the child specially, manipulatively mature.
Thirdly, the child can fight, as if she repeatedly fought such a behavior. Tse could be in a childish garden or on a childish Maidanchik, children with aggressive behavior vikoristovuyut a beat as a way of arranging and maintaining their positions. Todi child b'є otochuyuchih people, vvazhayuchi, scho tse normal way of vzaєmodії.
Krіm rehabilitated reasons, the child can be beaten up, showing up, or asserting his right to a good thought, which often accompanies. In addition, a child can not only beat otochuyuschie or biting, but throwing various objects, falling on a trap and beating his head and feet on a trap, vimaging the negaian vikonnannya of his own strength.
Note:
- As if your child is like other people, don’t deprive her of her behavior without respect, don’t go in if you don’t mark and don’t check that “you yourself will pass”.
- Just try to get a child to swing, or hit someone at home, or for an hour of walking. Immediately explain why yogo vchinok filth. Negatively evaluate the child himself, not the child. Do not say "those filth", say "you have done filth".
- Children need to explain, in some situation, you can hit, and in some situation, why. Children at the age of 1-3 years need to be explained in an accessible way, that you can’t beat your mother, that it’s more painful for your mother, that it’s necessary to “say zamіst hit”. A child of 3 years old and older to successfully cope with the understanding of “self-defense” - it is necessary to hit and protect yourself, and understand the difference between hysteria, manipulation and beat. If it’s not so, it’s time to explain to you a simple speech.
- Do not break your fences, so that the child's hysteria will go away, just change the manipulative behavior and not reduce the aggressiveness. The child is continuing the beat of the otochyuchi, foreseeing new leads.
- Find a constructive way to get out of aggression, a child can be evil and that “zay” aggression needs to be directed in a different direction. You can crumple and tear papers and throw yoga into the eaves, or beat the pillow with enough strength.
- If you show aggression, you can’t control it, or don’t go out to the child, you’ll be all the same, then it’s necessary to consult with fahіvtsy, oskolki such zabіyakuvatіst can, for example, accompany.
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Sin swear, why yogo b'yut at the cage
Good day! My son is 5 years old. Walking near the cages for a long time, from 2.5 years. And in the rest of the hour, you are reminded to go there, it seems that yoga is there (call you yourself the names of two lads). Suggest, be kind, how to tell yourself: I’m sorry, don’t show yoga, don’t make contact (I’m ruining myself at once, I don’t know how to learn how to react correctly, I’ll say that everything will be kind, maybe I’ve spent some “filthy” moods, Weep for a few days, and then I cry again, I don’t want to go. Let me decide, I can’t teach psychologically, because the child doesn’t understand me))) , why did they stink like that? Ale scho proponuvat? Be kind, direct, how to properly encourage Rozmova, so that I will win the greatest deed ... Egor himself will not swear at all, and in the garden in front of the bullies, you will not roar, you will carry everything home. (Last time, the cultivator didn’t drink like yoga for the cheek of the boy, having remembered only tato, if they took away the arrivals. The cultivator raised her hands: “But I don’t roar, I don’t know anything about it” Vibatchte, there’s so much everything in the cup. . I wanted to describe the problem to the maximum.
Lilia
Shanovna Lily! As if it wasn’t there, but talk to the nursery school attendants, about those who are in the group, seeming mildly, inharmoniously, it’s necessary. This is the most contagious hour in order to “blow up” this situation in the right way. On the right, in the fact that in the preschool age there is an intensive development of the moral sphere of the child, the understanding of good and evil is formed by him. That is why we need to grow up competently to react to the manifestation of aggression and fortune-telling of children one hundred and one. Return to the leader of the group, as I see your son, with the proposition of guarding for the mutual yoga of those other children. Try to act not from the position of a skarzhnik, but from the position of a comrade-in-arms - in a certain hour, destroy the child before school and you want to learn how to vibudovuvat competently splkuvannya with peers. Zvichayno, let the child decide, most of the time, the fathers are accepted like a nebazhana vikhovna glad. But still marvel at the situation otherwise - a skin person can take a stand. And sometimes you have to zastosovuvat force - morally, materially and physically. Tell me about the sons of my wise mother: “It’s wonderful that you don’t tell the thieves on the lads, like you are lying. Ale, whoever stinks can think about how they can impersonate others without caring. Try to firmly and calmly say to the hoaxers that you don’t want to kill them, while they behave in such a rank. Pick up the most suitable phrase for a child for falsehood. Don't let your wine train your mindfulness with your presence.
I beat my child, I began to remember that I work more often, I start screaming for those who win, less fight if you scream! If you were only born with me and in my thoughts it didn’t happen if you hit it, but for some reason my thought was turned off if you fed your baby I’ve said HI WHAT? I was alone at home and didn’t understand why I screamed like that all the time, etc.. then I slapped yoga on the butt for the first time, once I slapped yoga myself I can’t understand why the words that you can beat children have been thrown at me. I smacked Yogo on the butt on the back of my head, it was only one slipper, then three at a time, if I moved to a new apartment, I moved my hands into the socket, I explained to him that I couldn’t, I was pleased to just slap yoga on my hands ...and I smacked strongly Yogo’s hands were chervonim, I said to you like this b’є strum, then starting to play with me forever, lie down, having timidly looked at me like that, laughing, I’m engraving like that and I don’t understand what it was not safe, but it was less frustrating, then on a visit to yoma, it was already 1,4 becoming pompous in front of other children, waving gracefully my hand if I was yogo, for that I hit yogo on the hands strongly and shouted at him with obscenities, in the shower I didn’t want to go for a swim to that one who wants to go for a walk on the street, if I dragged yogo into the shower, then I fell down on the pidlog and screamed like crazy, for that I hit yogo on the ass hard, if I scream, I can’t control myself and bring me out of myself i become a demon me yogo just x I feel like killing, vikinuti, hitting me so shut up, I hate him, I yell at him with obscenities, and so often it happens once a day, but it was more often on me I start to think that I need to work so much ... this year at night, I spav or al uve dream, and kicked me with my feet ... angered me, I beat Yogo on the legs with my hand so much that now my own arm hurts, the company veiled Yogo with his hand, told Yogo to scream with mats, bubbling Yogo on the other edge of the sofa ... I think it's time for me to rejoice, otherwise I will kill Yogo soon. ..sin is planned for a child and not just flooded vagіtnіst, but if I was a vagіtna person, violating my brain with my prims, knowing about me, shtovhav, throwing one of the bags , if I narodzhuvala child, then the reduced child began to die as a result of me being caesarized, my very great dream was to give birth to myself, but I didn’t get over it because I really fell into depression. .. if they brought me a child to me, not being worthy of me, but I didn’t understand why in me it felt like it wasn’t mine, but someone else’s child ... and so it was three months later, I didn’t take yoga, like my ale, suvoro, I wore all the shoes with my breasts ( up to two years) I take care of him, hired masseuses, went swimming, read fairy tales to you from the first day of the people and until the next day, I play, I burn with him, forever I love yoga developing center and at home I take care of it myself, I teach everything about geometry, modeling, letters, at once, I teach everything about everything, I’m smarter, kinder, help me only 2 rocks and I already know what I don’t know, From my side I adore yoga, I love it, but if you start screaming, then I become a demon and I start yoga biti and zhburlyati. What is wrong with me ... maybe it's time for a fool ... I need help, for the sake of not just a Balakan! I need to understand how to cope with myself at that moment if I scream.Vibachte, that I wrote so richly, I can have accumulated more richly already for two years, I don’t understand anything and I don’t want to hear, for pardons the same vibache.
SW. Svіtlano, I want to hang my podtrimku.
What are your fates?
What did you do before pregnancy?
Good morning, Svіtlano, tell me, how the vaginess passed, for what kind of indications you were killed by cesareans. І like you have contagious hormones.
I also want you to do well, that you yourself know yourself and solve this problem.
I want to sleep, like you had a childishness, did your mother beat you?
How is your person to be put before that. scho you child b'єte?
How do you get yourself together with a child?
--- Added ---Vagіtnіst protіkal nasty I after that, if we had a meal with a person, having also beaten me ... I went to the liquorice with my marriages for a short time ... then a couple of times I lay through the tone, showing up to caesarean viniclia, even in the canopies themselves, even if I had robbed ktg it appeared that the child was suffocating at the new heartbeat, it fell and I was cut, it appeared that the windings at the umbilical cord ... with hormones ... I don’t know, I didn’t distort it.
Dodano ---
My fathers beat me, my father began to beat me in the fifth class, then my mother beat me, mostly splashed on my buttocks, then I remember if we were in the fifth class, they came from schools and came tato drunk and beat us more a soldier’s wound with a plaque, having driven us into a kut and having beaten us, with a strong blow ... for those that we didn’t give you a sacrifice ... tse vіn so veered ... after beating me, they loved me, walked with him, I loved to sleep with him, but after that day they hated me ... mothers then began to beat me, once she beat me and drove me with her bare feet to the snow through those that I didn’t want to clean the cibula ... well, and so according to the rubbish, I often got away just like that, my sisters presented me to my mother.
Dodano ---
a person is not aware of the fact that I’m yoga, if a person at home is simpler than a child, then with me then play with him and help a person walk with him and so for the troch ... a person only feel if I scream at him against him, Well, I can’t stream against the same ... I’m fine with a child once, I’ve said to you that let’s get it done, you won’t bring it to good, if you change it, you won’t be more sloppy.
Dodano ---
SW. Svіtlano, I want to hang my podtrimku.
Even a lot of mothers are dealing with similar problems, which are the only ones who know themselves that this is a problem and needs to be addressed.Svіtlano, tell me about your current day with the father of a child?
What are you doing, I'm looking after the blue?
What are your fates?
What did you do before pregnancy?Seeing a person with us is filthy and constantly interfering, with a scandal like only I caused a person, having started scandals through all sorts of rubbish, then it outgrew scandals of skin vihіdnі vlashovuvav in the voice ... do not prescribe yogo ... without a residence permit, do not put us on the chart ... a person a hundred times said if it is prescribed? VIN VIDMOVELIT RIZNIMI reasons ... Men 27 Rock. She worked at a car dealership until she became pregnant, then, together with a man, she helped Yoma.
Vіdnosini with a person we have a nasty sperzhaєmosya, with a scandal, as if only I caused a person, having started scandals through all sorts of rubbish, then it outgrew scandals of skin vhіdnі vlashovuvav in the voice ...
Are you being ruled by such stosunki? And the human? Why don't they separate?
I can’t win over a man, we’ve gone to a beat with him, the rest of the time I’ve waved at me, and the blue will protect me ... I already hate a man, I’m afraid of separation, I’m living with a child, I’m constantly thinking about those who want to drink in a man , but I think how my son will grow up without a father ... I myself can’t cope with my son’s son, everything is far and far away, I’m not hearing, having ceased to hear me, I’ve already started, now I’m already another, not a hearing boy, we were visiting wines there just vodkrivav mouth and screaming, it’s not like you want it, otherwise you shouldn’t give it to you, don’t let it go where you want it ... wine just opens your mouth and starts screaming until you wheeze ... this year again I beat Yogo on the buttocks already viviv me for two and not hearing, I brought the constructor to the kitchen, they played bells with him, we got up and waved my hand at the log, everything scattered into small details, I told you that it was so unkind to work and asked me to clean up the wine. .potim turning around and becoming impudently jabbering everything with your foot to show that you won’t clean up anything. Then, waving your hands at me, throwing cubes, falling on a pidlog and shouting, I didn’t feel bad, and I drank yoga on my butt, it didn’t hurt me even now, I don’t want to have a good time, I’m so ready ...
Leave the child of a person. Otherwise, let yoga be at the reception of my family. Sami - to a psychologist. That sina would not have bothered to show it to the fakhivtsy.
A psychotherapist is a doctor who treats the mental illness of the lung and the middle degree of severity, which are blamed as a result of stress, taken away from recessions, based on childish mental traumas, but not caused by serious illnesses of the brain or other physiological injuries. The qualification of a psychotherapist is assigned to a psychiatrist, which may not be less than three years of work experience and further education.The psychotherapist, on the authority of a psychologist, who is a medical professional, has the right to make a diagnosis, sign and conduct a cure. Vіd psihiatrist yogo virіznyayut metodi likuvannya. Just as a psychiatrist is fond of patients with medicinal preparations, like infusing dialness into the brain, then the psychotherapist rushes to the back of the head on the current methods of injection, for the need to supplement them with medicines. (With)
I think you terminovo need a psychotherapist. You hate the person and cast evil on the child. If you deprive everything like that, then for the child I threaten it with both severe psychological and physical trauma. At the same time, it is necessary that a psychologist should take care of your little one. The child is aware of you and conducts himself properly until your behavior. When the teeth of the little ones grow, the stink becomes even more shriveled. Before that, you already often victorious for the sickly punishment, the end of the world, the powerless. Domovlyatisya not go out - beatim, but if you stop doing help, will you start beating like your father? Terminovo, terminovo for full-time admission to the doctor.
You won’t choose a child, the doctor will help you to understand the situation, to know the best decisions, to write calmly.
Rise redaguvav Ritta; 05/01/2014 about 16:51.
This night, I fell asleep, screaming in my sleep, and kicked me with my feet ... I hugged Yogo Goydala, calmed down, but not calmed down, continuing to beat me with my feet ... As a result, I hated me, I beat Yogo on the legs with my hand so hard that I myself now the hand was hurting, the company was veiling you with the hand, telling you to use mats to scream, you were bubbling Yogo on the other edge of the sofa ...
SW. Svіtlano, but what about you consider after what they described, what do you work, what do you say to a child?
How quickly will we calm down?
I realize to myself that I’m the same as my father, the same monster and creature, the child calms down only in my arms and climbs on my hands myself then if I don’t take Yogo in my arms to follow me and roar, I just don’t understand how to conduct myself with him after the punishment, since I already punished, I just hug Yogo, I tell Yogo that you can’t work so badly, I say that I yogo was barking through yogo not hearing ... I understand that I just got tired and all people are fighting for me, the child is fighting me with their simple horns, I’m starting to rant and I’m fighting for me, I don’t know how to stream myself.
I realize to myself that I’m the same as my father, the same monster and creature, the child calms down only in my arms and climbs on my hands myself then if I don’t take Yogo in my arms to follow me and roar, I just don’t understand how to conduct myself with him after the punishment, since I already punished, I just hug Yogo, I tell Yogo that you can’t work so badly, I say that I yogo was barking through yogo not hearing ... I understand that I just got tired and all people are fighting for me, the child is fighting me with their simple horns, I’m starting to rant and I’m fighting for me, I don’t know how to stream myself.
Do you live with a man or a kimos from your relatives?
Tetyana I resurrected; 05/02/2014 at 07:17.
And how about just don’t beat, just hug, if you want to hit? Squeeze up to yourself, kiss, cheer yourself up in the wake (as if you don’t say anything to everyone else, it’s important with small children) and cry at once.
Youmu are two fates, did I understand those correctly?
IMHO: just think that wine will calm down in your hands, it means that you have a resource that will help you to calm down in such moments. And then, in such a city, the stench stinks of us, other races in the country (in hell, one race, a calm child, for no reason, she began to scream foolishly, vimagati mother, mother appeared at that moment in the city with heart attacks fell, and vіn buv budinka), and if you feel like it, you will help when talking with him, you yourself will win dzerkatim. (An example of what vin b'є you іnodi, Vi yogo b'єte і vin you). Reveal that it’s just scary for him to follow you and cry, and your task is to hug Yogo and yourself to say “do not fight the little mother with you, mother instructed you to love and protect you!”Do you live with a man or a kimos from your relatives?
We live well with our relatives, a two-room apartment, I try to stream myself just for an hour, like a bіs move in and just fix it... , more screaming, wallowing, and I’ll hug him ... what will you give? Forever I think it’s right to work, but I’m starting to stray, I’m trying to ride on cars on someone else’s cars, I seem to you that it’s a stranger, not ours, they don’t let us, because I only feel that someone else falls to the ground, I start screaming, vimagati, I stand wondering how I’m rehearsing when I’m trying to explain to you that it’s not our machine, then I’ll show you that the earth is brudna get up, I’m screaming, today we’ve been walking around screaming, falling down, I’ve been controlling myself, I’ve been following him , roaming and taking away throwing yoga toys, bringing them to the trunk, I understand that I’m going to fight, I’m going to fight, I’m starting to fight, I’m thinking that I’m fighting to fight, just to myself I can’t stream for an hour so I can’t beat it all by myself to fly ... then I’ll just start thinking about what I’ve accumulated ... the axis of the vchora forcibly I asked Yogo to tidy up the throwing constructor, Yaky Vin himself gracefully mumbled from the table on the pidlog and s happy d squirming until it spills into bryazkit, then standing and bubbling with my foot, I asked yoga to clean it up, then I said that the designer would be ruined if the axle would be lying around like that, I urged you to help me, and I just stood and shoved it with my foot, then I just fell on it, far away and pishov ... navit vtik, I turned yogo and started hitting me, throw a constructor at me, waving my hands shouting, shtovhat purposefully, for which I sho I still have a roar on me, I tidied up this designer and threw it on the balcony, once it was the same, then I just tidied up all the yogo toys for two tizhnni, then I saw you statically one by one, I said that I was tidying up the toys on the plate and I wanted to turn around this toy the axis is so, Ale, now everything has begun anew ...
I constantly think that I will embrace yoga if I believe, I help you that it is not possible for you, otherwise those who are strangers, scream more often, wallow, and I will embrace yoga ... what will you give? Forever I think it’s right to work, but I’m starting to stray, I’m trying to ride on cars on someone else’s cars, I seem to you that it’s a stranger, not ours, they don’t let us, because I only feel that someone else falls to the ground, I start screaming, vimagati, I stand wondering how vіn rehearse when i am trying to explain to you that this is not our machine, then i will tell you that the earth is brudna, get up, vіn shout
І more food:these days, tfu tfu used to walk vin screaming, falling down, I controlled myself, roared vin with him, without breaking up, following me, roaring and taking away throwing yoga toys, bringing them to the trunk,
It's not yet possible to misinterpret you
axis suddenly, I asked yogo to clean up the throwing designer, yaki vin himself gracefully muffled from the table on the pidlog and marveled at how the veins spilled into bryazkit sweat, standing and muttering with my foot, I asked yogo to tidy up, so I said to ruin the designer , I asked him to help him, and just standing and shoving him with his foot, then falling on him, then he just stood up and pishov ... navit vtіk, I turned him around and started to beat me, throw a constructor at me, wave your hands, shout, shtovhat whole lege , for which, after squeezing my ass as a result, I burst into tears and just fell asleep again, still in my arms, I roared on me, I tidied up this designer and threw it onto the balcony, once it was like that, then I just tidied up all the yoga toys for two days Then, according to the state, I saw you one by one, saying that the axis of the wines was tidying up the toys on the plate, and the axis wanted to turn around until the new, but now everything started anew.
Uv.Olga I'm not a psychologist, but I know the situation to the point of pain...
As far as I remember the language, in the front post, it was about those that the child cried at night and V її calmed down. Maybe youmu had a bad dream.
In this situation, you describe how a child is trying to take it with his throat - in different speeches.
IMHO: explain in this situation to a child, what to shout is marno!
Grab a bastard (not yet very important) and pull home, without shouting and handshaking, but at home say that you were not good and that you were taken for a walk.
Another option: Stay calmly in order with the child that you are, and move on demonstrating to yourself that the option will not pass. When youmu is nabridly shouting, say: "Calm down!! No means no."
І more food: Who told you, what would you give a better?
More IMHO: it’s normal for a child in such a place to check the skills, you can bend the fathers and how you can treat them (my age is 6 and everything is over, the word NI is accepted adequately). The headline sequence does not change the decision NI means NI.It's not yet possible to misinterpret you
Do you often just hug, praise, kiss as if you are interested, for example, just like that, for no reason?
I'm not Olga...
I hug Yogo often just like that, I play yoga in the game, sometimes I just mend yoga, tattered belly, I’m going to walk around less hugging yoga, I praise Yogo for everything I’ll take care of something, I’ll seem to have got it right, let’s drink, and I’ll stroke Yogo on the head, for those I’m guilty myself on the mountain worker and having done my mustache, I’ll embrace, I praise Yogo, splashing with him at the same time at the valley, sometimes just Intonatziyu Vyslovyu super vin fellow ib in the nyoye vitamishnikhi in the Dolol, I praise the axis of the lifting rods, I say omo, but now Zbrai is the first time, I am in the result how good it was for you, let's drink, kiss each other ... start yogo praise, kiss, hug. Shout out loudly in different weathers, sometimes in your sleep at night, sometimes on the streets, cry out loudly and cry out less.
Vibachte, scho I messed up.
Why don't you want to consult a neurologist about your yoga behavior? And why are you yourself instructed by the Lіkarskoy for help?
There is no charm button, no charm pill, so you can save the bad reaction. What do you check in the forum? What do you want for yourself? What do you want as a child?
Why don't you want to consult a neurologist about your yoga behavior? And why are you yourself instructed by the Lіkarskoy for help?
I know for myself that the problem is only a little more expensive to її virishennya.
There is no charm button, no charm pill, so you can save the bad reaction. What do you check in the forum? What do you want for yourself? What do you want as a child?I don’t want a consultation with a psychologist, I’m still thinking about her, I want to talk in reality with a living person about my problems, just at the moment I don’t have a penny to pay for it ... I’ve already made an appointment with a neurologist for a child, actually help me, I don’t have a lot of pennies on her for now ... I’m checking the forum for support and I’m glad to learn how to stream myself, to work at that moment, if the blood boils, what to do and behave right, if the child has already broken everything, I want to learn patience, strimanity, and suddenly I want to stop yoga beat, I don’t want anything for a child ... I understand that the problem is in me and not in a new wine shouting, without throwing out a speech, if you don’t go into a new place, but I’ll understand that I’m just for the time being, I can’t stream myself and my obsession with yoga to learn, but I myself am not in a state of mind and I myself don’t know how to work ... if we blame him for such a situation, like on the basis of naє less dratuvat then in my head I think a lot of thoughts about what to work, how to tell myself, what to say to you, the first words are calm, I try to explain that so, like all the wines, you start brikatisya, throwing, biting, biting and take it for yourself. this year I just took yogo to the miner, I’m telling you, it’s time for you to sit there, you don’t want to ... I know for sure that it’s time for you to fix it, say let’s take cars and go to the miner, I don’t go but lie and play, I kicked yogo she led me, and bit me on the leg ...
I know exactly what time it is I’m starting to say, let’s take the cars and went to the miner, I didn’t go, but lie down and play, I picked it up and led it, and I grabbed my leg ... the reaction spratsyuval mittevo otrimav on the ass in the throat ...
Having taken off the ass, for those who win better than you know, if it's time for you to be a mountain worker?
You can and you know it’s time for you to go to the mountain worker, but you don’t sit down yourself, and work everything on the piv ... the axis and the virah at an hour if you want to go to the toilet approximately. She never had mercy again. By popі otrimav for those who have tasted me at the foot.
Until the food about those, how to learn how to stream ...є less current moment
The axis of the situation, for example.
for sure I think it’s right to robiti ale I’ll start to stray, Vіn vmagaє to ride on cars on someone else's car, I seem to you that it's a stranger, not ours, they don't allow us, because I only feel that someone else falls on the ground, I start screaming, vimagati, I stand wondering how I'm rehearsing when I try to explain to you if it’s not our machine, then I’ll tell you that the earth is brudna, get up, shout out,
Considering your colivannya and weakness, I think ... the situation, before the speech, could be beaten (by proponing the name of the typewriter, by propoponuvav ask the rulers, what is possible, by propoponuvav commemorating the typewriter with the hairdressers). And when I do not hesitate for a second, YAK is right and WHY. You have a lot of things to go out too late, it’s important for you only to go in with him and you don’t have any doubts that you are guilty to come in.
too rich
Marvel, like a lot of everything: either someone else's car, then they don’t allow us, then the earth is brud. Potіk "nі", the same "so". Aja zavzhdi є yakіs THAT is what.
I remember how I hoisted my son to the mountaineer (I don’t care about myself with a butt every other time, and I have x *** hell of pardons) I just carried yoga to the mountaineer after a drunken lie and after a casual sleep, and the mountaineer stood in his eyes. I didn’t bark yogo in any way, if at 3 rocks the wines instantly got drunk and started to crap around ... Then, like a man, we tried a little luck, if the blue was big on the budinka and I myself was on the mountaineer. Tse to instill pride in bula chi for a new one ... Zrozumiv !!
I think so, that you will see Madish through a sense of powerlessness ... I want to do everything better for everyone, but why don’t I go out.
--- Added ---Until the food about those, how to learn how to stream ...
I didn’t beat the child especially, but I often pressed morally, brought me to tears ... that’s nasty. I made sure that I was flooded with blind anger and I just angered the little girl like my emotions, because they didn’t bother with her. I had to learn to control myself. And here, it’s not surprising, one story of a drug addict helped me, which she started. One of the postulates was tied up, which needs to be understood, to sound simple, but I didn’t figure it out earlier ... so the axis: є less current moment. If you don’t stream at once, you don’t stream at all. You are throwing lies - and everything is new. Don't worry tomorrow. We don't have anything later.
Explain smoothly how, but I guessed a little about myself at that moment, if I figured out that FROM INFECTION I would start to emboss unprimed on my daughter and ... sorry, I can’t explain how it helped me zupinitis. Everything inside was viruval, it was torn to rage in anger (why I received it, that my daughter would cry at once - it’s like a blood-thirsty zhorstokіst, a torment bazhanya), but it seemed like a rank in one second it came: awareness of my anger, the forecast of what would be given, I’d pray moment of choice, robiti so, chi not so, then robila vibir - strimatisya. At the same time, everything calmed down. Gniv ishov. Everything was done in a few seconds. No, after that anger is not in the middle of me. It was just obvious that the water was flowing at the moment of selection. Tobto tse bulo not through force. There was no such thing that I, visibly wildly irritated, smiled through force. Navpaki, schob anger pishov, you are usuvaeshsya in the situation is familiar.Oh, Skoda, I can’t explain it right, yak tse.
And then, after the fact that I had once treated myself in such a manner, everything went downhill ... I began to care for my daughter more, and not for myself.
Until the speech, so, my anger also flooded me with tides itself in moments of disobedience. Ale, here I’m okrema and I’ve been working on myself for a long time ... at once, and it’s wonderful to show me that you can’t listen to me.
The axis of the situation, for example.
Considering your colivannya and weakness, I think ... the situation, before the speech, could be beaten (by proponing the name of the typewriter, by propoponuvav ask the rulers, what is possible, by propoponuvav commemorating the typewriter with the hairdressers). And when I do not hesitate for a second, YAK is right and WHY. You have a lot of things to go out too late, it’s important for you only to go in with him and you don’t have any doubts that you are guilty to come in.
This situation predicted the typical behavior of a person for the least part, as it is not inspired by what to say is wrong (I am not a psychologist, but I often conduct business negotiations). How to behave like this people? stench induce too rich reasons that prove my rightness. All the reasons are different, different, and may be indirectly related to the right.
It’s completely emove, that the child is aware of your colivannya, innocence. I'm lying, I'm protesting.
Marvel, like a lot of everything: either someone else's car, then they don’t allow us, then the earth is brud. Potіk "nі", the same "so". Aja zavzhdi є yakіs THAT is what.
I don’t know myself what to say and how to deal with it, always judge that you have to work in public places, everything starts wondering so you can’t work with the first ... think that everyone thinks that my child is crazy ... I have a complex on this topic, for a new one, if you had 1 month, they robbed an uzi on the head brain and there, like a motherland, it overtook the norm, but not respite, but just yoga physiology is like that, for an hour everything passed and came back to normal, but if my mother-in-law knew about it, she began to talk about my son as if he was sick in the head, she always spoke to him like a rozumovo vіdstalim and once said that my son needs to be protected from splkuvanni and not allow you to cry, I energized why? she said: well, well, the new one has a mind in his head ... the axis of the same me and jammed .... Now I’m worried that everyone will think that he’s crazy ...
If you want to beat the situation, then at some point you should go out, but sometimes the gentleman to the winds against the minutiae and continue like this bovaє і sina more than anything else, you don’t need to say anything to your crim that you don’t want anything to stand on your own ... let it all come in here ... .
So I’m always like this and I think that my task is to calm down at that moment, if the wine gets hysterical, sometimes if I don’t go out, I stand and I think that I should still calm down, or I could just buckle up, if the wine gets drunk, wallow.You have already written a familiar history, I have enlightened you.
I remember how I hoisted my son to the mountaineer (I don’t care about myself with a butt every other time, and I have x *** hell of pardons) I just carried yoga to the mountaineer after a drunken lie and after a casual sleep, and the mountaineer stood in his eyes. I didn’t bark yogo in any way, if at 3 rocks the wines instantly got drunk and started to crap around ... Then, like a man, we tried a little luck, if the blue was big on the budinka and I myself was on the mountaineer. Tse to instill pride in bula chi for a new one ... Zrozumiv !!
IMHO: Svetlana, think about who you need to be an ideal mother for?
I think so, that you will see Madish through a sense of powerlessness ... I want to do everything better for everyone, but why don’t I go out.
I slapped yoga on the butt not to the one who didn’t want to sit on the miner, but to the one who tasted the wine in my leg so much that the blue was overflowing, but as a result we’ll sweat on the miner. I’m so glad if I myself sit for a long day on a mountain worker, I myself sit yoga before going to bed, before a walk and after sleep, all the same control I bitten less from and took off, and not through those who resisted going to a mountain worker.
Ideally, I don’t want to just learn how to stream myself, to understand what to think and how to act at that moment, if it’s lateral to the sight, how to understand, if you catch yoga, change it so that you don’t spill all the negativity on blue. My fathers didn’t dare to stream this stench and not ideals, I want to be not like them, but everything is better from the inside ... for an hour sho vіn zapnuv me like a zakhist spratsyuvav, shvidko like a blisskavka ... b’yu yogo then if you’re far away and I don’t know how to tell myself how to tell yourself that you can’t work like that. Best of all, I think I want everything, but I want everything to be normal. I’m just afraid that the zvichka will often overgrow ...Dodano ---
Chi don't bite me.
Let me tell you about my request, we’re trying to help you, because you didn’t think that the child was not perfect, but it means so, You filthy mother gave birth to such ...
I have a complex on this topic, for a new one, if you had 1 month, they had an ultrasound on the head brain, and there, like a child, it was normal, but not respiration, but just yoga physiology is like that, everything went well and came back to normal, but my mother-in-law, if she knew about that, they began to talk about my son, as if about a sick head, she always spoke to him like a rozumovo vodstealim and once said that with my son, you need to be protective of the splinter and not allow you to cry, I fed what? she said: well, well, the new one has a mind in his head ... the axis of the same me and jammed .... Now I’m worried that everyone will think that he’s crazy ...
Tezh same, psycho child, and Vinny Vi ...
If you want to beat the situation, then at some point you should go out, but sometimes the gentleman to the winds against the minutiae and continue like this bovaє і sina more than anything else, you don’t need to say anything to your crim that you don’t want anything to stand on your own ... let it all come in here ... .
So I start like this and I think that my task is to calm down at that moment, if the wine goes into hysterics, and sometimes if I don’t go out, I stand and think what else can you do to calm down, or you can just get drunk, if you run into wine, you wallow.
I'm not lying to my child, I tell you how, if not to give that very typewriter means not to give, what can I tell ...? Piti buy її youmu scho b vіn calm down. I don’t just seem to calm down, I don’t just tell you a lot of what I’m proposing to you in return and the bird is amazed and the weather is rocking, and ride on the mountain and climb on the tree, and give it all to you who want to get out of the Maidanchik.
You overdo the child, You hiccup for an hour if you go to the toilet, You crawl out of here, you take all the responsibility for your behavior on yourself ... It’s marvelous, I’m good, why do you behave like that?
Well, shout, shout zrozumіє, scho DO NOT PRACTICE option and stop.
You don’t succumb to it yourself, don’t take it like that, like a wine, block it, and you don’t feel it in a safe axis and a lize with a drive and without a hand.
Why is it so terrible to get drunk, how can wine be described?
Zvichayno siv, where are the wines going to go? Are you stronger?
You didn’t understand anything ... I was talking about those that I didn’t strain because of that drive, when the hour and wine came, I started all the work myself, I just suggested and not without reason brought the butt, if the wine was a moment and crap.
To reveal the situation, the child was grave and wanted to go to the toilet, and... got drunk, peed herself. You yourself have created discomfort, now you will have to get up in the heat and change clothes at that hour, as soon as you yourself go and piss a little and calmly continue the game. Do you think that you yourself do not understand the hour?
DO NOT strain with a ticket and mean to give the situation a chance to complete itself.
Navіscho, navіscho you tse control? So you can’t learn how to go to the toilet yourself, check what mom will behave)))
but once in a while I bitten the axis and took it off, and not through those who resisted going to the miner.
Ideally, I don’t want to just learn how to stream myself, to understand what to think and how to act at that moment, if it’s lateral to the sight, how to understand, if you catch yoga, change it so that you don’t spill all the negativity on blue. My fathers didn’t dare to stream this stench and not ideals, I want to be not like them, but everything is better from the inside ... for an hour sho vіn zapnuv me like a zakhist spratsyuvav, shvidko like a blisskavka ... b’yu yogo then if you’re far away and I don’t know how to tell myself how to tell yourself that you can’t work like that. Best of all, I think I want everything, but I want everything to be normal. I owe everything that I shove alone in my own fight that I’m not streaming, I’m screaming and I’m yogo ale tse bovae seldom ale well ... I’m just afraid that I’ll grow into a voice and I’ll be often ...
Author Your fathers kept ordering you right and beat you, kicked you to the ground, so you didn’t give a damn?
IMHO: Do you joke at once, how do you know how to make a child work everything that I want, without victorious with my physical strength?
To interact, you need to learn, feel, accept and direct. Tse means vrakhovuvati yogo, look at that bazhannya, the right to pardon that self-expression.
Tetyana I resurrected; 05/05/2014 at 06:29.
Svitlano, hello...
I just started reading your topic and, perhaps, further in the comments, you already adopted a more productive solution to the severity of the situation ...., but I can’t get into it at once ....
I have to sleep at my side at once, my boy is second-hand, his breasts are wet, and in me, after reading it, I see that there is a lump in my breasts and tears.
I beg you, please, kill your smut, protect the little man, if you want to see yourself, as you see it at once.
Ale, an hour to go and an hour is not enough, the child has already taken it, now you will need to "rejoice" those who have caught the rock and it is possible, you will see more negative emotions.
I sympathize with your little one, and that one with you. Pratsyyuy over yourself, vizobov'yazanі, tse your vіdpovidalnіst, now. Mothers are not less likely to wear that people. My mother was also beaten by my father, but it didn’t show up on us. If you can, check with yourself.
Hai be happy. I just couldn't get through...
Light, hello! Having already passed the river ... Tell me, how can you do it right now? The richness of what you described is similar to my situation, I feel like a wretched mother for those who put my hand on my child (yoma 2.8 at a time), a child with a foldable character and temperament, hyperactivity is prone to prostration, for which the neurologist diagnosed "emotional lability ", for my child, it’s completely hysterical, screaming at your veins until your veins are blown, lying on the ground, fighting, including with your feet, biting, pinching to sinciv, smiking by the hair, you don’t react to the respect of the mayzhe ... we are all known in the school in the sight of our children, we are not familiar, we walk only if we want to, but we don’t stand on the streets, there are few children on the Maidanchiks, we had a chance to get a balance bike, because we don’t hear, we’re far away run after him. Shouting with the drive and without, less already tse vivodat z pivobertu, as it seems, I’m not streaming forever, I can hit my lips more painfully, or I’ll hit it in disguise, I’ll blow my ass every day. I’ll explain everything in a good way, later on in a raised tone, then I’m already gazing (the person doesn’t stream any longer) and I raise my hand or I smile like I’m not normal. I feel like a nonhuman, but the nervous system is no longer visible. From time to time I drink calmly, but it’s not enough to help.
Enthusiasm...