Conflicts of children at school are the way of their manifestation. Like a child at a school conflict
Rarely, such a child goes through the stretch of his childish life to avoid conflicts with the same people. There may be conflicts on a child's Maidan or in a child's garden, for older children there will be conflicts at the yard or at school. Oskіlki fathers in their time were also children and stumbled in unacceptable conflict situations, then often blamed for saving a child from conflicts, or arranging for falsehood and punishing the guilty.
As a rule, we teach our children to these rules and ways of behavior, which we ourselves have adopted. However, most of us, like fathers, our powers seem to collapse, and we respectfully respect the children to understand what happened, and there are no ways to behave in conflict.
Nevtruchannya
One of the options for the behavior of the batkivs is to ignore the situation, ignoring what is happening. The skin s father has his own explanation of why the stench is important, that it’s not varto to get into a childish conflict. Sometimes it’s due to the fact that grown-ups don’t give reasons for worrying, the situation is all-too-common, and grown-ups take into account that it can be made brown for a little one and, maybe, you can teach a child.
In fact, there are low conflict situations, with which a child successfully copes without the introduction of a grown-up, especially if he showed a grown-up earlier (and a child could acquire), how to behave in a similar situation. However, here it is important to show respect for a little child: as a child suffers, you cannot get out of the conflict on your own, your help is necessary.
Unique. Drink in your kennel/kindergarten/school
As a father for himself, having chosen the position of unique conflicts, then we propagate that very model to your child, so that he chooses a quiet place, de conflicts do not trap. However, similar behavior generates more anxiety and unreasonableness in the child, how to behave if it’s in your interests.
On the right, in the fact that by stretching its life a child, the future has grown up, obov'yazkovo zstrіnetsya z ієyu chi іnshoy konflіktієyu. And, unfortunately, without the slightest notice, the child is completely deprived of his defenses and often cannot make elementary actions for himself.
Active confrontation. Like and call to the address of another father and child
As if in the middle of us, living in a rich, sensitive image, sacrifice, injustice, then we especially zealously begin to protect our child, not remembering, as if transforming into a tyrant for someone else's child and father. At whom all become victorious, ringing, notations, able to inspire a cry, hysterical speech, rudeness.
However, such a behavior can only provoke our child, like a strong affect, be it strong emotions, like a child is not wise. Even if you are able to such a boisterous manifestation of conflicts, try to explain your little behavior in an hour, if you calm down. Vzagali, be it a rozmov with a child, that discussion of a conflict with clarifications of a child’s feelings and a її staging to the situation will be even browner. You can also tell about your feelings, about those who already got angry and could not express their anger.
Batkivska vlada that help
The main reason for the conflict is the breakdown between the specialties. So it’s either after giving you a bodily ushkodzhennya (hitting, shoving, tasting, etc.), or after falling on your power (you chose it or they didn’t give you a hard time), or they repaired a psychological squeeze (they called out, shouted, said something was unacceptable). In such a time, the father has the power to establish the cordons and to help protect them, without destroying the cordons of the other. For example, as if a scoop was taken from your little one from a dog sitter and wines came to you for help, importantly, corysty with the father’s power, go to someone else’s child and say in a singing tone: “Tse scoop of my son (daughter), , vіdday yogo, be kind. Sound the children to make speeches, but still you see that a stranger child does not want to speak your speech, try to know a grown-up one who speaks for a new one. As a rule, an older child helps a child to separate from an expensive object.
The main task of the father is to give the child an appreciation of the value of himself, his own upliftment, and to teach the methods of behavior in conflict.
Eternal sacrifice or little tyrant
You should note that your child often becomes a victim of conflict, but a tyrant (to whom we represent other children), stand up to whom respectfully. Imovirno, the child often feels crooked and not taken away at home. To understand what is involved, and to help a child, you can consult a psychologist.
Conflicts between children - to often see a manifestation, an indispensable attribute of their growing up emotional development. Irrespective of those who conflicts in school deliver impersonal negative emotions, like a child himself, so її fathers, the stench is still ugly, to start a pidlіtka virishuvati problems and know spilnu mova with singles. The trademarks of the Obov'yazkovo Navichiki Povodi Yoma in Maybutnoma, not for Vibudovannya, Ale for productive spivprats on Roboti, Adja Vimaga Vmigenny Zagodenzheneni in the team, and they will be touched to his own overt. working process. Otzhe, children are guilty of conflict. Ale, how is it right to work, so that you don’t cheat so deeply, you feel like one alone? How to get out of conflict situations correctly?
Causes of conflicts at school
Chim young child, tim lower rіven yogo intellectual development And yet there are fewer in the arsenal of social skills for solving disputes. In the world of growing up, among the children of the world, singing models are being developed in exchange with one-year-olds and grown-up ones. Such models of social behavior are saved in many ways, and can recognize some changes less in a transitional person.
And while the children are growing, the stench of the madness begins to fight for their interests. Most often, the conflict between children at school is blamed through the struggle for authority. In the skin class, there is a sprinkling of leaders, like turmoil, they stand alone, leading to a conflict between those and other scientists. It is not uncommon to be able to resist the lads and the girls, or, for example, one person of the whole class. Children of a school age are shy until demonstrating a flurry of pride, but sometimes they can appear in cynicism and zhorstokost completely otochyuchiy and especially weak children.
The conflict between scientists can be due to such reasons:
- mutually form that tiles
- zrada
- love and sympathy for classmates, yakі do not match
- fight for one boy and one girl
- the essence of mindfulness among children
- non-acceptance of a cremated individual by the collective
- supernice and struggle for leadership
- hostility of "lovers" of readers
- special image
Most often, these children enter into conflicts, because they do not care for close friends and do notzahoplyuyuyutsya chimos krim schools.
Prevention of conflicts at school
Irrespective of those that conflicts help to form social skills in children, the fathers are guilty of helping to unify some of the weldings and post-ynoy of their children. Aje conflict can be resolved quickly and calmly, without mutual belittling of that image. Don’t get into a conflict, especially if you see that your child can get out of the situation herself. Nadmirna opіka in tsomu vpadka it is not enough to get into trouble. However, if you know that you can’t start a conflict on your own, a child can’t, you need to get involved in the situation more accurately. It is not necessary to press hard either on your child or on your opponent. It is indispensable to vimagati public vibes. You are not guilty of behaving like a grown-up, like you can have power and building cardinally intrude on the situation. You, obviously, wiser and wiser, lower your child-scholar, but, not less, better take on the role of a friend, who simply tells you to work, but especially does not take part in z'yasuvanni stosunkiv. It will be more natural and allow children to learn how to get out of the most difficult situations.
After that, as the conflict is drawn up, talk with the child. Tell him about those who in his life will still be faceless of such conflicts, and at once it is necessary to give all your pardons, so as not to allow them to the future.
Even more often, the fathers brood over him, as if they had overcome the conflict at school, even at the early stages, if they start rushing the strained children of their children with classmates or friends at the yard. Try to create such an atmosphere of trust in yourself, so that the child does not bother to share his problems. At this time, your pleasure can help you quickly correct the situation.
Obov'yazkovo znaydіt for a child who loves busyness. Tse mozhe buti creative gurtok. On the basis of common interests of a child, you can know your close friends, with whom you will not conflict. Tse help you to fight against bad competitions in the class for leadership, for being a reader, and sometimes for no reason.
Today's life is impossible without conflicts. That child can learn to allow them without being aggressive. Even if constructive criticism can be allowed to be accepted, the most correct decision is the most important one. Only a few words and a straightforward dialogue help to reveal attached problems and enjoy normal trust in return. Also, our life is nowhere without conflicts! Ale stinks of obov'yazkovo guiltily virishuvatisya, shards of attached aggression and attached images can negatively infiltrate the mental and emotional state of a person, develop into a new complex and lead to trivalo depression.
The conflict of the child leads to distrust in yoga, fortune-telling, and sometimes to the consolidation of stereotypes of conflict behavior in yoga. Obov'yazkovo follow him, like stosunki support your child at school, with classmates and teachers. Try to lightly and carefully correct your behavior and set it up to the point.
Shkіlnі rocks - miraculous?
Shkіlna it's time - this is the hour of taking away the child's knowledge. Tse important period of formation of an individual, character. And, ring out, this hour is often accompanied by conflict situations. The fathers of the schoolchildren, to instill like this, their children have not yet come across such problems, they want to learn about their nature, wanting to theoretically, but “forewarnings, that means challenges”.
We turned to the psychologist, the director of the training studio "Sim'ya plus", Larisa Mikhailova, to learn about the peculiarities of conflicts, which can be blamed on schoolchildren.
Lariso Mykolaivno, tell me, what problematic situations do children often encounter at a young school?
If we are pregnant in an early period - children of the cob school age, then conflicts can be connected with them, so the child simply knows his place in the team. You only come to the class, you try to take a singing position, "to win the place under the sun" or become a lover for the teacher, but don't have to go out. The problem is blamed on the sphere of mutual "student-student" and "student-teacher".
Even more often it happens that the youngest school of conflicts turn on the other father. All of them are up to the child. The stench vvazhayut, for example, that the child was insufficiently appreciated, or її do not see the middle of the uchnіv, do not accentuate respect for him too much. Then another aspect is included - the whole problem of “teacher-father”. I, apparently, in the skin of situations, it is necessary to orientate in conflicts in their own way. We are talking about conflicts between the same people, tse, nasampered, understanding the roots of the conflict, emphasizing the special features of the child. The fathers are guilty of understanding, like drawing a character, they brought it to a conflict. Possibly, Vіn is simply his centric, the sound to the point that all the respect was only on him. As if, for example, she is one and hyperopical child, then, naturally, having come to the school team, she sticks to other positions, and drags herself after herself when conflicts appear. Obviously, the necessary correction of the robot and the correction of the situation - just looking at the children at themselves, at the team, at the moment of interaction with the same-year-olds.
Buvayut situations, if a small number of students lead the fight for leadership. How to make someone have a vipadka?
Let's talk about leadership and about those, if the child sticks with the leadership tendencies of the other, then to achieve a strong, learning, but already mutually in the middle of the class. Here, the role of the teacher is even greater, as if you will work in the classroom. For example, the teacher can distinguish between the two leaders directly at the robot, so that the stench could manifest itself in the skin of their own sphere, so that the stench could see the power of significance that was seen from the class, but the skin in its own way. Yakscho, zvichayno, tse dіysno two are approximately the same "for the power" of scientists. And even if some of them are the strongest, then they just happen to accept the situation that there is one leader, and decide, let’s say, approaching the figure of people.
If a child has problems with a teacher, what can you do for their cherry?
If you talk about the "teacher-student" conflict, then here I need to know what to stand for. For any conflict, it is not necessary to marvel at the outer side, more than just “the tip of the iceberg”. As a rule, under the rule of the "upper" there is a lot of everything. Tse mozhe buti i osobisti stosunki - sympathy and antipathy of the reader. I’m not a bi professional, I’m not, I’m all the same person, I’m trapping myself, so the reader is preemptively put up to the child. Possibly, I’m guessing for some other learning, for which the new one didn’t have a hundred years, but for a good child, for which you can’t grow. Tobto, tse special subjective setting of the teacher himself. Obviously, it’s not professionally, it’s prote trapleyaetsya. You can blame the situation, if the teacher superciliously criticizes for success, for behavior, but the student takes it for squeamishness. These tasks call for other mechanisms: you can discuss with the teacher those who, in some form, give criticism, as if they are constructive, so that we don’t take it as an image of zaiva vimoglivist. The situation has a school psychologist who has a dopomogty, you can marve on the situation of the Obtelno I, the rosemychi of the individual ditini, the recommendations of the recruiter of the zy іz іz kim know, so the dietary dads are more finished. Most of the time, the teacher does not shy away, but, bachelors of learning, I want to achieve good results.
You said that often dads also turn on before conflicts. What rank?
If we take the sphere of "father-study", then there is a lot of everything that, let's say, makes the process of teaching a child at school easier. Often the fathers take the position of the victim, they seem: “How to force us to be oppressed. Axis i in the cage before us were put in a wrong way, axis i in schools barked anew and forever cries before us, etc. The psychology of the victim is a rather strange model of behavior, as it is easy for the teacher himself to put it down. Better for everything, you will need psychological counseling. Somewhere like a stone stumbles on the right estimates. Batko is aware that the child of Talanovite is gifted, but he does not confirm with his assessments, and blames a conflict of interests. In other words, at the thought of the fathers, the value of the child is reduced.
Which way can you know from this situation?
Well, I know, it’s necessary to marvel objectively, so that you can increase the intellectual development of the schoolboy and give the father’s mind, you can’t grasp the child’s skills. That is why some fathers do not sing quiet folds, like a child. Zvichayno, stink to love yoga and respect the best, but, unfortunately, the assessments, otherwise, the knowledge does not confirm. Sometimes, if you are a reader, knowing the strengths of a child, it’s like fathers: “He has a great potential, get busy, develop!” The fathers don’t react in any way: “Check on fours, and, speak to God!” Here the conflicts are blamed, for the one who marvels at the child from one side, the father from the other side.
How can the fathers understand that the child has problems?
If you want to help those fathers to help your children, then in the situation of “learning-learning”, the fathers still don’t get involved better, but in a be-yak mood, add respect to them. For example, like a child to come and complain about one-liners, about teachers, chi navpaki, flicker and say nothing about the school; like wine aggressively or dramatically responding to food about a specific subject, learning or reading, like wine starting to write like evil notes or drawing caricatures of people and signing be-like lily words, this is a direct indicator of what the child has problems. This is a signal for the fathers, so that the stench brought respect, obv'azkovo explained the reason, obv'azkovo spoke from the child. If the fathers move out of the child, it is necessary to let out the emotions of those who are in the middle of the child through this situation. Tse can be crying, crying, laika. Let the wine be better at home, wake up with the fathers, wear everything in your own and at a critical moment, just scream at the teacher, or a one-year-old. The situation is getting worse. To that, the fathers listen, rozumіyuchi and podіlyayuchi like a child.
It’s even more important not to look at the side, for there are two extremes: otherwise the fathers are more likely to support the child, it seems that the readers are insane, they rolled up the children, but on the contrary: “Axis of you never rob anything, the reader is right, you’re just laying!” and etc. It’s necessary that the child heard that they heard, that they followed her, that they were with her at school, that they almost didn’t reach the fathers. Then you can shukati out of this position.
And chi varto vtruchatis? If so, then how is it better to robiti?
It is possible, as a child, to explain, as if you were grown up, or to put some kind of butt, she will figure it out herself and the father will not be needed. And so it’s better to inspire, because it’s more often than not that the fathers of other children react to the delivery of zhorstoko, the stench starts to irritate with “mother’s syncope”
As such a situation developed, that without the participation of the father's participation it was impossible to do, then the work was done as softly and unremarkably as possible, so that the children from the class did not find out about it (to talk with the teacher at the school yakіy- neutral territory).
It’s better to teach children to cope with difficulties on their own, to overcome conflicts with peers and to house with a teacher, to respond adequately to criticism, not to take special care of their own faces, not to look, not to cry, etc. That’s why everything is emotionally unstable reaction to those who go to school. The smaller the nervous system, the bigger the child’s protidium, the more protid it is, the better it is for one’s own interests, the voice of one’s thought without image, without pretensions, without ringing - it will be easier for them to deal with all school situations. Age conflicts are practical for everyone: for prosperous students, and for quiet ones who do not grasp.
Nourishment, as if the child is on fire, as the fathers react. Even if they themselves stink to conflicts, views, claims, then, better for everything, the child can also try to follow the model of behavior at school. Here we already talk about family therapy. It is necessary to understand that the child does not fit into the class system, that there are no ways for the new one to peacefully interact with the students or with the teachers, and over this it is necessary to practice.
What are the peculiarities of the behavior of older children?
Middle Lanka (children aged 10-15) are characterized by some other aspects. Here, obviously, the psychological peculiarities of the old age are superimposed, conflicts, intolerance, and anxiety increase. Especially grades 5-6 - tse transition to middle school, tse change from the system of education. You can be of great importance, what a classy kerivnik to get on with, the old man's authority begins to decrease, and the authority of the same litters of other grown-up significant people grows. It becomes easier to interact with teachers, to the fact that the teachers are more likely to allow themselves to be praised for their respect to the teachers and fathers.
How can you get into the folds of this period?
An even more important riven to the professionalism of teachers, which they can smooth out, not just strangle by force, but smooth out the incomprehensible themselves. Not less important will be internal interaction. Aje pіdlіtkovy vіk- Tse sing the reverb "for lice": what is seen in the middle of this whole thing. Like in this time, there are some folding moments, stinks, obviously, in the whole period appear.
Whether it’s a vipadku, a general recommendation for the cause of the cause of the conflict, the essence of the conflict, the understanding of the behavioral aspects of the child and the search for a mutual outcome for all parties, it’s not the same for the young schoolboy, so for the middle. And in the middle lantz, the actuality of the nevtuchannya batkivs is especially relevant, so that in the third century children should instill zhorstokishis to the participation of grown-ups in conflicts of the same age.
What can you do if a child of a yakomoga would have to deal with conflicts?
Obviously, it would be better to take up prevention, so that there would be fewer such situations. Kindly, like fathers, for example, included in the after-class life of their children, and even same-year-olds from the class with great interest to be placed before her. If a mother or a tato can organize a walk, if she is shkilni holy, then the child will lie before people, as if they give priority to someone who is just a cicava sim'ya in a new one. Obviously, with such a child, the school will have fewer conflicts.
Podlіtki often do not want to accept the help of the fathers and move on from them. What to work in such a situation?
At any time, it can be done not from the side of strength, but from the side of interest. It’s so, that it’s easier to tell someone else’s people, lower fathers. And here psychologists can come to the rescue, and psychologists are not the first mortgage. That is why, as a rule, when studying at school, one is afraid that at the same time one’s wines are deployed with a school psychologist or a teacher, or one can go to class ladies, to fathers, and so on. You can also consult an independent specialist. This is the best option, we know the shards of a child - everything that you say at your consultation with a psychologist will be lost between them. You can get more help, and the psychologist can tell you how much you need in order to normalize your blue. We are right in front of, well, stosunki with fathers, for as such, as there is no confidence in stosunkas with fathers with fathers, then it is necessary to correct, so that the father can help him resolve conflicts at school.
All the same, pershochergove zavdannya batkiv at that, schob chasno recognize the signs of the problem, what is brewing?
Tse is important. As if the fathers do not give respect to those who come to the child from the school, what to say or not to say about the school, it’s important for them to understand. Like a child, you know that everything that happens to her is not so significant for the fathers, as if you wanted to, you will be removed. As if the problem does not disappear, it transforms into a snow sack, as if winding up, winding up, winding up... And the situation can go to such a moment, if you have to change the school.
Ale new school neobov'yazkovo all problems arise.
Zvichayno. The special features of the child have not changed, the orders of the fathers have not changed, and even greater is the possibility of that which, even in the new school, the child will get stuck with these very difficulties. But, perhaps, once again, the stench will think in a different way, not about those who are not people, but about those who, perhaps, in the middle of this, in the middle of the child, are afraid of such situations. at times. I will be a good supporter for therapeutic work.
At the end, I would like to guess that the conflict is easier to get ahead of, lower the risk! Let there be fewer conflicts in your life, and if there are stinks, then let them have a constructive character!
Why work, how often did your child have conflicts at school? What is the need for fathers to get involved in welding among classmates? How to teach a child to cope with conflict situations independently? Psychologist Olena Abramova
STAY STAY
The blues of the class develop behind the very laws, like a grown-up suspenst, and go through all the stages of shaping the team. Whether a childish collective will inevitably blame its own hierarchy, they declare the leaders and the "unfortunate". As long as the system is vibudovuvatimetsya, conflicts and spy situations between the participants are inevitable.
This fact is especially relevant for the singing centuries: the entry of children in the first class, the transition in the middle of the Lanka and the period of the transitional crisis in the older classes.
The first-graders, like they came from a childish garden, are not yet able to make contact on their own, focusing on the power of discipline and on the authority of the grown-up.
In the fifth class, the change of social role zbіgaєtsya with the cob of transitional crises, if for the child, the initial thought is of the same kind. I often especially for the 5th grade students of the biyki and the z'yasuvannia of the stosunkivs among the boys between themselves and between the boys and the girls. After their own re-examination for the minuscule, such duelists often become friends with unspoiled water.
Senior schoolchildren revise one another “for a mіtsnіst” with the method of self-denial. That's why you are correct, if you can express yourself in other ways: for the learners, through sports creative achievements, for the hobbies they are calmly going through this difficult period for the skin child.
DOPOMAGAIMO CORRECTLY
Why work, if your child has become a participant or a victim of a conflict between classmates? Why is it necessary for fathers to intervene in conflict situations?
Before that, in order to praise the decision about teaching a child's conflict, understand how to extract internal resources from children in order to do it independently. In the presence of the father, there is a willingness to discuss the situation at home that has developed, and listen to the child without moralizing. In the situation, if the conflicts are blamed between the boys, the mothers can delegate to Rozmov about the ways of doing this, or to another authoritative child for the child: a relative, a coach.
If the conflict of interests is not of a protracted nature and there is no threat to physical health, then the wart should be taken care of by the child in the fact that she can get into a problem. independently.
In that mood, as the situation gets worse, that your child gradually becomes "weak lanka", then the deputy of the sensible for the rich fathers of the bazhannya punish the krivdniks varto vitratiti forces on the selection of information about those to whom you want.
Dovircha Rozmov with a child, a classy kerivnik, in addition to revealing the causes, through the way the child “pulls” the aggression. Do not start barking at the fathers of krivdnikiv, or vimagati from the school of the administrative solution of the problem. A piece of protection for a child as a teacher or as a director can turn up the respect and make the class even more infatuated with “love”. It is not varto to deal with false children independently, without their fathers.
ONE FOR ALL
As in the class, there is a constant “etching” of someone from classmates, or a class of subdivisions into groups that “throw” among themselves, then the whole class will require preventive work. At this stage, the connection of a school psychologist and the bulk of the father for carrying out after-class visits, Igor and sleepy trips, scho to gather class. By the method of successful inquiries, you can learn new skills of careless intercourse.
On my knowledge, friendly to this classy team, in which the fathers mate among themselves and are ready to stained glass forces that hour to create in the class of a careless and cirque middle. For example, the fathers of the same school knew the way to include an “important” student in the team of the same people. The deputy of the “reviews” of the stench began to ask the “problematic” lad to visit them every day, de vin zmіg in an informal situation, call their classmates and chat with them.
In view of the radiant system, today's school does not attach any importance to the development of children's skills in effective speech education. In these minds, the “deputies” of such courses can become the fathers themselves. Trainings and team building games can be organized independently or with the help of specialists.
WORK ON PARTY
As the situation went into a dead end, and there was no way to get into conflicts in the class in a “peaceful way”, the only way out for a child could be to be transferred to a different class or school. But it is important to understand that in order to overcome similar problems in the offensive team, it is necessary to systematically teach children to beginners of constructive communication. Korisny dosvid of a child can be taken into account psychological groups, at the creative studio or at the sports section, they teach team sports.
It’s impossible to get rid of conflicts, but be it a problem, to the negative, give some evidence of similar situations in the future. Part of the conflict in the class over the fate of your child can become for the father a kind of "beacon", a sign of a "weak place", with which you can practice. It is important to help the child learn these "mechanisms" and the peculiarities of behavior, so that they respect you to know contact with peers and learn other ways of interaction.
If you have a specific diet for school conflicts, you can turn to fahivtsiv at the Center for Psychological and Pedagogical Rehabilitation and Correction.
For the address vul. Barbusa 65a around 17.00 to go through groups for the training of newcomers effective communication for students of grades 1–2. You can sign up for a group, for an individual consultation and take the report information from a psychologist Deer Abramova at +79048122996.
Psychologists to the Center to conduct psychological games and team building training behind the author's program "Zero Meridian", who became a supporter of the Russian competition of correctional and developmental programs for courses on choice for schoolchildren. Request presenters for batkivsky collections or you can get detailed information about trainings by phone:
+79048122996, psychologist Olena Abramova
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11.11.2013Mother's situation:
She had a problem: a conflict with a school teacher. She has a “handless” child: she started to read too early, she knows a lot about the need for more children and from the skin drive she can think of her own thoughts, so don’t worry about the need for trimming with her. When tsomu in nyogo, not everyone is far from physical development and to this fact, practically without considering nursery garden, I can’t reach a connection with one-year-olds and I can’t, and sometimes I don’t want to use my “I” for help.
That’s why in the classroom, at breaks in yoga, the boys often lie, and at the lessons of wine they try to “transmit” their knowledge “behind the topic” to the people, which, of course, respects the readers, calling out unpraised.
With a stretch of fate on the її rozpituvannya “how did ours do it?”, She took off the sour viraz, rebuking that wagon. The woman tried to hold “heartfelt” conversations at home, but when a new day dawned, everything was repeated anew. Even at the first acquaintance, she slandered the teacher’s respect for those who didn’t achieve anything with a “drill”, to that, the sound of wine sounds to the animal in the family on equal and only listen to a healthy mind, hanging calmly. But there are thirty-two shooters there, and the child is over-excited, as it will require an individual approach, maybe, strain.
I thought about it on the rest of the day when I started on the graduation wound. And on the right was a taka. If the official part is holy, that licorice stele for the little ones has already ended, the part of the fathers with the children, as if they celebrated at the other half of the day, they went, and the reshta virishila continued holy for the grown-ups. In reality, it looked like a dance of champagne, a purchase of sandwiches and, so to speak, an informal conversation, which in our mood won for itself zayvim.
While they were growing up, they were preparing, the children were doing their best for themselves. The blue and the other two cottonmen were playing at the school corridor in a catch-up. Vaughn went to the door and began to guard. Behind them followed our teacher. If she stared at the lads, she grabbed him by the lapels of her jacket and began to bark unnaturally, while chirping yoga for greater significance. After babbling that she guarded, she lowered her hands, but did not stop screaming. Mother could not reach them at that moment. Firstly, through the breast at the throat, but in a different way, to those who are firmly overwhelmed in the fact that in the presence of children it is not allowed to criticize the toppings of grown-ups. In addition, the class was left with fathers, made holy. The stench went like hell without saying goodbye.
The next day, she went to the psychologist. To her її earlier sent by that very reader. Up to a group of psychological correction. Also, the psychologist knew about the folding of the lad. Vaughn spoke about this whole situation, she talked about talking to our teacher about the children, without specifying the lad, and then or ask the mother for the pleasure of a psychologist with the readers, as it will be in tyzhen, or to propagate whether you know the way
It was in power, but in the evening of the same day, the woman was telephoned by a teacher of a parallel class and ordered to come to her at Mondays to school at Rozmov. Vaughn came in handy, there are already no options. Aleone knows that stench is friendly and shared by all podias, and she knows for sure, from the words of my reader, that the “stigma” of the unhanded on the її blue appeared from the filing of tієї, іnshoy, until the stench of the past fate they went to the “preparation”.
Mommy doesn’t want to bark with Kim, only if she wants to, so that they don’t break her son, like that squishy lad. Youmu learn two more rocks here. No one can guarantee that in another school you will know a tolerant teacher-friend. And if in the new class the blues do not develop so by themselves, then, nayimovirnishe, the new one will have a stable complex of its own and will be important. So I went to a psychologist, is that axis right now?
Indication of a psychotherapist:
In this situation, there are no right or wrong. You won’t overthrow the school, that’s for sure. It is necessary to be attached to both sons and mothers.
Sin needs to learn how to play the role of a school student, whom the physically strong peers and teachers will feel like they don’t lie “equally” to everyone. You need to learn how to be more patient and get out of bed, so that the psyche of a child is not crying and angry, that you can so easily її zlamati. Protecting Yogo too much too much, you will try to rob Yogo in a lifeless life, if the hour has come for him to show his independence.
The doctor does not understand one thought. “Vona was trying to protect her respect, because with a “drill” you won’t reach anything, because. wine sounds to the wild on the equal and listen only to a healthy mind, hung calmly. Ale їх there are 32 shootings, and the child is over-excited, as it will require an individual approach, maybe, strain. To go out, why for a new need to hang your thoughts calmly, but can you be over-excited, hanging your own?
As if it wasn’t there, it’s another argument for the greed of її patience, that moment of a kind of jealousy of її children in the form of unfriendly splashes of otochuyuchih people є those who are blamed for it intellectually. This is a true plus, to that a reasonable person is easier to use intellectual methods of psychological zahist, lower "m'yazova". A child can be taught various “psychological” behavioral techniques in the situations she describes.
In addition, estimating what you see, it is necessary to protect the thought of the head participant - її sin, and not just motherly. The need to go to work, the decrease in success, the loss of all friends, the change of behavior (has become different) can be said about those who have not taken root in the team and need to “beat the bells”. Why don’t you know, and why don’t you go to more lessons, the success rate doesn’t change, if you have one or two friends-classmates, the behavior is the same, then, better for everything, there’s a hell of a mind trust the synovs.
If the facts of the teacher's assault, then the stench (without any squeeze from the side of the mothers) is guilty of becoming the subject of discussion with the clerk of the lighting mortgage. The doctor thinks that in this moment you don’t need to pick up film and photo evidence, it’s enough that the child said about him, otherwise she danced like that in her eyes.