The best friend of a person is needed, I want yoga. A lot of squads don’t mate with me
At the conference on family therapy, the problem of paradoxical family communication was recently considered. The idea lies in the fact that situations are often blamed in this, if a person or a squad does not have the ability or the need to speak directly, it will give rise to a whole breast of unreasonable, untrue ochіkuvan and sordid images. Typical is a butt, which, as I think, is a well-known rich man - A man (a lad, a child) to rob those on which the squad is formed. Perhaps, having said the wrong things, perhaps forgetting about the mother-in-law's birthday, perhaps not having lost respect for cleaning up the cleaning, as if the bula was ruined for the sake of it. There are a lot of options, but there is only one bag - Druzhina (in love, girlfriend, etc.) is formed. people (do not move, speak monotonously and dissatisfied, can go to another room, and in a warmer weather - go to sleep on another sofa). With all this, the women think on only one thing - sob the person before her, having talked, having drunk everything and visluhav, and the HEAD - calm down. That’s why the Scrivgen’s squad, they’re starting to get turbulent for the possible future of a hundred years with a person, and I’ll demand that I take the trouble out of you - explaining that she didn’t understand everything so much, otherwise this won’t happen again, or else we would objectively cause it. Ale, sound the person who does not understand what happened, why he is guilty. More than that - people will not guess that wine, and not the weather, is to blame for the work of women's days. Tim more, what about the question “What happened?” vin otrimuє vіdpovіd "Nothing". "Is everything okay? - Good." (In this respect, family communication is paradoxical - the members of this group influence, what is good for them, if they feel bad and want to stink, so that everyone understands how bad it is for them, and calmed them down). The whole splash of the conflict starts to roar in the bed before going to bed. The woman spent the whole evening, the image of її grew and doubted the correctness of the choice of the person - tezh. Shards of wines appear not only false - wines are stale and cold. With the very characteristics of the woman, she explains why a person does not go to make peace with her. “Vin specially me to call! That youmu don’t give a damn about my feelings!”. Zhіnka ochіkuє, scho nareshti before going to bed, talk to her, calm her down. The man is aware of the tension of his squad, and ring out before going to bed to try one more test to find out what is on the right. Prote, the image of the squad has already grown on the floor, because you don’t allow it to “get away” so quickly, you know that “if you love, then report zusil, to reconcile.” And if you try wine only once, then you should try wine for appearances, but really you don’t understand anything, and you don’t love. To that, in the first place, try a person to make peace, the squad says “Vdchepis! Everything is fine! otherwise - tell me what was trapilos. Nothing was trapiled, ”Todi, the person is aware, that since nothing was trapiled, but if there is tension, then we will try to hurry up, we’ll try to figure it out in a way to relieve tension - to make love. It’s rare that a person voices himself, he begins to grow up to a woman, with a method to help him, calm him down with the means available to him, show him to love him. І out of the price of human behavior to rob your visnovok - won you need more for lying. I reconcile myself to wine only in order to tighten it in a light way. And not її feel, on її the image of youmu nachhati. And out with anger, you see the propositions of a person, ruffled the door, lit up at the carpet. I check, check, check, if a person realizes his fault, and, more or less, arrogantly z'yasovuvaty in what on the right, or go to bed in what he has accumulated. But then, man, you get more confused, because all the propositions are revealed. And it’s easy for people to see the strength and strength. That is why, when you have cleared your squad, the stench rages at your psyche, zasinayuchi. The druzhina in such a baiduzhost either stumble into the mournful disguise to the wall, or go to sleep on another sofa, and guess all your images. But the squad does not sleep, they get confused, call you and themselves, cry and worry. It's bad. And for tomorrow їy, which means that you will become even hotter. Ring out everything by yourself like that. I hope that this article will help you to understand why your team has stopped talking to you in a rapt voice, and why your man does not put up with you, but insolently sings. Obviously, all situations are individual, but the axis of deyaki should be careful about the behavior in them. If you remember earlier that your squad is a girl (or maybe a little girl), you are unique, unequivocally and obviously strained, then the most effective way to understand it is that it was trapilos. M'yako, dbailyvo, do not give up before the first "everything is fine." The more there is scrivgen, the more we repair your support, and the more we demand and rely on it. And for women, it’s best to tell people directly about those who in their behavior have shaped you or hooked you. It’s easy to guess, and with the tightness they have the same shit on the right. Tell me, what was wrong with you, why did you judge someone else and how did you feel embarrassed. It would be better to reduce the immovability of a person’s repetition of his “pardon”, lower your movchannya that in the distance of a new one.
Women, unfortunately, do not start talking to people. It’s okay, what’s up to what. Ale itself is unreasonable at splkuvanni zdatne zruynuvat sim'yu.
Try to learn to live like this at once.
The most important rules for dealing with a person
1.
If everything is bad, don't cry. Pay better.
Shout - tse showing aggression. The whole human energy, the human way of reacting. Todіyak tse zhіnochy way of reaction. If a woman is rehearsing, it is unlikely that she will be honored. Better for everything, won't arouse the aggression of the people in the spirit. І farther to continue superechka with the transition to individuals.
There is absolutely nothing constructive in this. Todіyak slozi - tse zhіnіcha zdatnіst vyyavlyaet their feelings. Tse OK way to give a person's vision and show a person's strength.
At the same time - what a marvelous thing - the woman is so rich, like zovsim they can’t cry. They have a cob of cobs of crushing, which in no way can you see tears in your daily surroundings.
Come cry. Even more often at the moment, when tears are ready to pour, we are blocked. I release the tears of anger. Aja wants to be strong and self-sufficient. We are afraid to reveal our vulnerability and sensitivity, our weakness and softness. I'm afraid that we'll hurry up and make more sick people.
But only so we can truly convey to a person that it hurts more hard for us. It’s only possible to assign welding to no one. Slozi is a signal for a person who is far from zaishov. І tse stop-cock for the steam locomotive of welding, which is carried on all pairs.
In addition, women's tears burn family karma. That is worth navit korisno - cry, if it matters.
2. When you cry, bark to yourself.
On cholovіkіv tears dіyut more. I would say it would be strong, so that they would be evil. Zlovzhivannya - if we cry, then it sounds.
There is nothing important for the human heart; I’ll immediately begin to recognize the great fault - you won’t show it like a call.
I todі - so as not to feel guilty - you can often turn to the truth, or shout, or just go.
But if a woman cries, she calls to herself, then the most natural blow of any person is to vryatuvat її. Take guilt. So you give the opportunity to become a face.
"I'm such a fool, you try so hard, but everything is not enough for me" - you cry
"That's it, I'll buy you cloth!" - calm down
Just like that, you cry like this: “You can’t buy me a dress!”
Greater for everything, blame you:
“Forever you are not enough! I'm not going to goiter your zabaganki!”
Do not varto tsim manipulate, not varto tsim іnstrument zlovzhivat. No one deserves it if they manipulate him. Let's take care of one.
3. Schoden foot massage
It is important that such a ritual is the shortest way to a human heart. Zhіnka, like a day after the robot, I would like to take five hvilin rozminaє feet of your kohan, you can check on the vikonannya of all your bazhan.
More than that, it is important that in such a time all the energy of a person is only focused on him. І tse best prevention of diseases.
Foot massage also helps to virіvnyat ієrіvnіja ієrarkhіyu ії іm'ії – chіlovіkovі vіdchut іtself a captain, and ііnії - yogo's assistant.
In addition, mayzhe kozhen cholovik love massage. So you can see what you love. And if wine is loved and consumed, wine will once again want to work for those who love.
Such a small ritual - and the insoles are attached to the new one!
4. Come on with yoga thought.
One of the most wonderful phrases: "So, dear." And a friend - "How do you say, kokhany."
Cholovik is a thought. The new leader has his own position, his own idea of skin nutrition. It is important for you to bachiti, as a woman will be fine with him. If you accept yoga thought, it means that you accept yoga itself.
Aje tse is not so neat - listen to this idea and talk about the hoax. Not so foldable difficult situation. Find out how you know otherwise. Ask for yoga and give thanks for wisdom.
In the most important spheres, the work is as good as it seems. If you want to know how important it is to go to Novy Rik to mami - wait a minute.
Allow me to take a decision and then in the new way to germinate viability. And otherwise, how outrageous, why don’t you call for solutions for yoga, and don’t succumb to the fruits of these decisions?
If you want to buy a new TV set - just wait. It seems that the decision was strategically wrong - the fault of the mind itself. І winding on the nose. It is called a natural legacy. Here the brand does not bring its bold boundary: "Well, the axis is bachish, I told you!"
In addition, this is how a person plays the role of the head of the family. See that you trust you. I will be grateful for those who shake your mind. Povazhaєsh yoga thought - otzhe, povazhaєsh i її itself.
5. Shift from person to woman
You can zmushuvati yogo vibachatisya. For all the rules. How to swear women:
"Be kind to me. I didn't want to show you. I'm worse than Skoda."
And can you understand that yogo "Well, why are you puffing?" - you yourself. Simply put in other words.
So, for example, "I love you" from yogo wust can sound like "Well ... you figured it out"
And the suffocation of your new rank may start to appear silent - you just need to shake your eyes.
Not leather man building for long and deep compliments. It’s a pity, they don’t start and don’t explain them, it’s important for a woman. You can learn yogo m'yako tsyoma in the future. Ale on the back - start shifting from a man to a woman.
So that you don’t feel unloved and unloved. Shchob do not saw yoga from the skin drive. Sob not vimagati in the sight of the new one, which is still not possible.
6. Ask for yoga directly
Humans are not telepathic. And the stench won't guess what is ours: You don't want to eat? really means we're hungry. Even if the person is hungry, I'll tell you straight.
Mi, women, lovingly cunningly form the expression of a thought. So for example:
“Oh, it’s spring on the street. I broke the snow, and the grass already gave up. Navit nirki already swollen. Surely, the tulips are already blooming ... "
For a person, it's just a description of weather phenomena. So, the woman wanted to put on a bouquet of tulips.
Well, you can say directly: “I really wanted to have tulips ...”
But I wonder if I can guess that the wines of the language can be guessed by myself. Yakshcho kohaє. And if you don’t guess, then don’t love.
Maybe just accept the varto, what are the powers that be? I have nothing and nothing to guess. Natomist vіn іz radіstyu vіdreguє on straight prohannya.
Instead, to say: "The dishes are a mountain, but I got tired ...."
You can just ask: “Pomy, be kind, dishes”
The result will be different. Aja man is ready to help us. Yakshcho mi yogo pro tse ask.
7. Open your heart
For a woman, closeness is very important. I most often see the closeness of mi vіdchuvaєmo under the hour of spiritual conversations. Іz girlfriends for weaving mandalas. Abo s mother pіd hour lіlennya dumplings. Abo with a kohanoy people for an hour of walking in the garden.
It is important to learn how to be open and wide with your man. In this rank, we can sing in the light of our worries, we can see the proximity and protection. And krіm tsyogo - give yoma vodchutya yogo consume that respectfulness.
It is important for a man to understand a woman. Soothsaying puzzles and charades of wines may not be long. And the thriving hundreds of youmu want breadth. Truthfulness. Sometimes we are deceived by dribnitsy. Sometimes, it’s easy to think that it’s not a hoax.
I remember one woman, a man who seemed to be stingy. Moreover, tsya sknarіst appeared at a new age and grew up with a skin day. It was marvelous for me, I did not recognize the docks, that there was a variety of speeches coming from a person.
Buying the blue garni of jeans, she said to the people that the stench is from second-hand. Buying shoes donts - stench deceived yoga, underestimating the price of vtrichi. From whom the deceit took the fate of children.
So we become stingy when we become the Daedals. And then we started to take care of her family budget and saw a lot of pennies for our children. And at the same time, wondering why it’s impossible to buy a child’s jeans for two karbovantsiv at the same time, like the past time.
Whether it be a deception - to instill an insignificant one - erases trust. Navіt like a person does not know what a deception, її soul tse vіdchuvaє.
Zgіdno with Vedic dzherels, tse one of the obov'yazkіv squads - open the heart of your man. The only person who cares is the person to whom the woman opens her heart. And to whom do you open your heart?
8. About problems - no emotions, about emotions - no problems
Individuals often bark their squads through those who "puff their heads". Actually, it's practical. It is easy for people to take in thoughts and feelings at the same time. Vin chuє chi those, chi others.
"Our son otrimav two" - like a squad
"I'm going to figure it out" - I'm telling a person
“You are not sensible! I'm worried about how to finish school"
"At once I'll figure it out, and win її finish"
"Well, you don't know what's wrong with me!"
And I don’t smell wine. Vin senses a problem. І ide її virishuvati. And then we see what needs to be done.
Sob buti feel and solve the problem - water the Kremlin. And more shortly deafen:
"At once I want your speech" - and talk about the experience. No problem description.
“And now I need your help with the worst problem” - and they gave it without emotion, only facts.
Learn how to make it easy - everything is so mixed up! Ale, improve the result. And the problem will be eliminated, and the speech will be taken away.
9. Those who suit you, desire negainoly
I have studied situations a lot, as if to help to understand why people do not give women jobs.
So once I hit a couple who were going through a flower shop. Win wanted to go in there and buy miles of tickets - to which “sweetheart” said in a bass voice: “Why didn’t I, didn’t get these tickets?”
Abo, for example, my know. A man brought a piece of red trojand on the 8th day of the month. And she chimed in Yogo with the phrase: “What are you, pennies go a little where? You can buy a bulo korisne!
Everything would be fine, but then the woman would swear, that for ten years of a happy life of an annual bouquet. Well, like bouquets, like no one needs the stink?
If a person grants a ticket, if you want to bachiti, then you are happy. You rejoice, you shake a vase, you dbaily lift up the tips and proudly set them up at the center of the booth. Vіn want bachiti, how do you brag about them to your friends. If you want to be astonished at them, you said to you: “Stink so long. In a sing-song, you have chosen them with great love.”
Those same and with gifts. Do not let a person give to himself those that he wanted to. Ale, always put your whole soul into it. Come on, don't wear such colors. Let you know the priority of white gold, not yellow. Let thee be like white trojans, not red carnations. Tse is not important. Important є yogo vchinok, the fact itself. Vin zrobiv tse for you. Be greedy!
Vіn want to pamper joy, vdyachnіst that zahoplennya. For the coming time to bring you a bouquet and a gift - and I will renew your gleam in your eyes.
Thus, you will allow you to be filled with a romantic prince, to continue the tsukerkovo-bouquet period of your dreams.
- "Not a moment for you…." if we say so, we think what we ask. The man can smell everything right. "Can't you take a walk with the dog?" Option two - I can or I can't. I need food? The squad hesitates at my abilities? Obviously I can. Ale does not mean that I am safe.
« Now" and "Why"- Three phrases start welding. You're really important, now you've got your white shirt right with your black scarves? Why is it really necessary to understand why you don’t clean up after yourself? Qi two words in a row and lash both in a warlike way.
"I told you!" - a phrase, get-purely drive in a human cob and vidpovidalnist. There is nothing to comment on.
« You don't need me!" or "I'll know myself a normal person" - like and be-yakі іnshі image, qі phrases deeply sink into the heart of a person. I drive in a kohanny.
Theoretically, everything is easy to enter. It becomes less often zastosovuvati. I'll spit you out, what did you do wrong. Potim - you will remember that you are afraid that it’s not so, you can’t be fooled. The next step will be to change the behavior of the middle of the situation. I’ll help you later, you can save yourself.
The path is not close, uneasy, but we can lead to happiness.
I wish the skin woman to learn to understand the minds of people. And learn how to behave in such a way that the blue ones develop, they make you happy.
Women, as you can see, are richly burned for people. The stench is quick to go to conflict, but it’s also quick to enter. For the other side, the one who, having once formed a representative of an excellent state, for the last time, enter to the black list. As soon as you have made a man, then you will win, even though it is not long, but still you will become a enemy. Forget about images importantly. Because we most often know the image of our loved ones, we know all the pluses that are not enough, like the ailments of the city. I don't want to talk to my man- This is the result of a nerve strain and an image. Sob again become closer one to one, varto step over pride and drink for reconciliation.
Lyudmila, 43 rocky: “I don’t want to quarrel with my man - as if I can’t trust that tenderness to a new one. In the rest of the hour, we’ll boil the three, sometimes we’ll get to scandals. Without a doubt, the reason for this is yoga with friends. I’m wondering what wine to put on the first place.
If the problems bring their corrections to the plans, varto think over them, what do the data in the blue mean, what varto save them. Some people just write down everything positive and everything negative in two columns and note the positions. If there are more pluses, then a few hundred bucks in order to save them. If the column with minuses is bigger, then, better for everything, the school will break up early. The idea “I don’t want to talk to my person” is blamed simply on the influx of emotions, or on the basis of a deliberate sounding of all the details of a sleepy life. A woman can be formed into a lot of speeches. Golovne correctly assign priorities and understand that for the sake of a kohano people, you can work seriously. If a woman does not have a sense of humor, sometimes she is brought to admit her guilt. Loving person of understanding, everything and after the roaming become so, like before. Well, the problem is with the systematic wrong behavior of the other half, it’s not a pleasure. The person is guilty of the retinue of us in front of love and respect, if you want to allow yourself to lower your image, then you can’t think of the future.
A lot of people do not want to talk - how can you survive?
We call it another word, because the woman does not want to deal with her big man. The reasons for separation are impersonal. Only a few hundred couples separate peacefully and without any pretensions. Others are forever filled with enemies. At such a time, there is no sense. The only reason for zustriches is for children. Otherwise, if the two of you talk to such close people, you won’t bring the desired satisfaction. If a woman doesn’t want to talk to a lot of people - it’s even better. Do not break the past and be tormented by misfortunes. It’s better to start your life sooner and add respect to yourself, your development, children, dearer, everything, to help you forget about the unfortunate end of the school.
Elmara, 28 years: “We parted ways with a man, but we don’t want to talk anymore. It’s important for me to survive, because I can’t take yoga out of my head like that. That th cover, scho vin so raptly, she easily pinned everything.
Another option is that a lot of people do not want to talk. At this time, everything is richly folded. Zhіntsі smoothly razluchachitsya z minulim. If a person, after separation, is interested in his own large homeland, it is best to repair it in this order:
- calm down and just change yourself in the fact that everything is fighting for the best;
- do not blow hysterics, do not call and do not come to the big man, with respect;
- take care of yourself with your own good looks;
- to know new hobi chi busy to the soul;
- give maximum respect to your children;
- to make contact with a large number of people and to know new friends for interests.
Yakscho too many people if you don’t want to talk - there are no real problems, it’s necessary to follow the same example and not impose your own conflict. In the world, there are a lot of other rights, tsіkavіshe that korisnіshe, nizhni empty suffering for the one who has already lost his past.
I love, I want, I like a friend of a person . I want wine. What work?
I've been friends for nearly five years now. We lived simply miraculously, they did not know dashing. Pavlo is a miracle man. Our children are already kind. We have two boys and two girls. Pavel has one friend, Yogo's name is also Pasha. I've been chula about the new one for a long time, but I haven't had a chance to succumb. I axis, one miraculous day, my man seems to me that before us came for a few days of that same namesake, about which wines he so richly spoke. I was all impatient, I wanted to quickly look at that same, intangible friend of my Pavel. The man is forever praising yoga. Such a world that I didn’t believe that such people have. Friend Pasha arrived early on the train. Vіn taking a ticket at the coupe, to those who do not like the reserved seat. Win just love the comfort of everything. Wash my dear guest at our apartment, obviously, they gave everything. Vіn nachebto not skarzhivsya. And I, like a little girl, succumbed to my friend's friend!
What a hell of a man! I didn’t god-will a little, if I babbled yogo. I even fooled around, that my man knows someone else. Tse, obviously, sin - so to speak, but I want to be honest. A friend of a man is richly sympathetic and impressed, lower my Pasha. Then I was so foolish that I couldn’t remember them one on one. And I, through my weakness, slept with Pasha, my man's friend. So, I zrobila. I... zavagіtnіla vіd nygo. Ale, I don't tell you about vaginess. I want my man to think that this is a child. Adzhe vin so mriyav about sina. But I really wanted a child. I already love my child, you can’t show it like that! Born my son, yakuvati God, a healthy and handsome little one. I know what I did wrong, so I often ask God for help. I spodіvayus, vіn me vybachit.
The person does not know anything about what and will not guess. I think that you won’t guess, that one will be called inappropriately. Vin already love Styopka the tit very much, I won’t embarrass him. I'm a big lie. Ale, I lie for the good. Pasha is a miracle tato. Behind him, my son feels like a man, strong and reasonable. Friend Pasha, who, having become the father of my child, went far away at the other trivale of work. Until the new, I feel a little, like I don’t match with anything, I’m like a girl podlitkovy vіku, divinity according to the new. I'm really glad that the child is seen. Number of thoughts strike me at those moments, if it matters less. If Stepan is viroste, I will swear to you, who is the right one. But it’s already in advance, you still don’t understand. Vіn malyuk zovsіm, yomu is not up to grown-up problems, yogo is still only chirping toys. And sometimes, if a person is not at home, I speak with a son, explaining how it is in the life of grown-up people. And the blame for my words is only tormented by my own, you can smile. How good to be a little child! The stinks don't make everyday problems.
I often think about Pasha, sometimes I praise myself for more, less for my man. I’m shy, obviously, wrong, but I won’t take all my life as I see it. I will not throw Paul away, but in my soul I will live with my namesake friend. To be more precise, I already live, but less in my dreams. Sometimes the sky takes me even farther away. It's so important to turn back to reality.
Love that motherfucker is very important. I want to scream about my kohannya. I would like to tell Pasha that this child looks like a new one. Sometimes I will create a dream, stealing us from the blue, secretly taking us away. I want a lot of something, but I don’t take anything away, I live in such hopes and dreams and I don’t go out. I would like to know what is with him, like a wine, and if you do not have a fault, if our place is. I want to look at the new one with one eye. Ask and understand why I fell in love with this person so much, why I can’t live a day without thinking about her.
Ale vin don't be stunned. And I'm afraid of sleeping with a man. Raptom wine guess. It is practically impossible to tell about Pasha with a person. I don’t want to think about what you can find out, as if you know. Now it is important for me that the wines do not suspect me and we are not scandalous about this drive. I think that Xing is not guilty of a bit, we will weld together. It’s better to instill better, that my person should be called by the very same name, that the kohanogo person. And then rapt inadvertently jump out the “wrong” name. And it’s scary to think, how can everything end, zreshtoy. My man is already jealous. Win and so much with your jealousy. I want to get in the way of yoga jealousy. Ale, nowhere to go, I’m sitting here.
I think that I killed my friend, because I know that the father is a child. I don't want this to happen. I am more aware of the moment of truth. So long as you come out. I'm staying at home, and I'm still jealous. Go away, don't go anywhere! What jealous? More precisely, to whom? To the passers-by on the streets? The most funny. But sometimes, if you reach the point of absurdity, it’s not funny anymore.
When I went abroad, I knew that Pasha was jealous. Ale, until I hit my friend, I’m guilty of the world of my whole life. Axis navit my father it seems that everything in life is known equally. And now I'll be fine with him! I realized that I realized that I don’t love my own person, but I love my friend.
Life! What is life? Just a word, ale yak to a new rich sense. And how little we can change in it. That is not the hour to philosophize. And so you want to see what is so unimaginable and reasonable. To enroll in graduate school, what... For now, I'll just die. Maybe, maybe ... There is only one skepticism. But now I have other troubles. I qi turboti take away from me the whole free hour. I already sleep little. Zovsіm didn’t start to hang out, they reminded me so much in me that I showed up in a lack of sleep, I was staring. I’m getting food again: where can I take a penny for plastic surgery so that I can become more beautiful again? It is necessary for Pasha to sleep, maybe you can give me your protection.
I often sit on the Internet, I spend the whole hour joking around with my titmouse, I think, maybe I’ll know there. Ale does not dare to know yoga. Maybe, don’t want to, so you know Yogo. And I don’t deprive everything. For what? That for the sake of Styopka wants to b. Garazd, I’m not lying, obviously, more for myself. I'm so crazy about him. Tilki vin posіdaє all my thoughts.
How is everything screwed up! I zovsіm did not follow myself. Like a misha sira became, zovsіm is no longer similar to a woman. It is necessary to start chasing after yourself! Why did I drop my hands? I already hate myself. And how can I blame my person less? I didn’t have a word of the filthy I at all. I marvel at youmu. So I’ll take a cosmetic bag right away, vіdkriya. Damn, I can’t know anything obedient in it, I’ll close it, then I’ll open it up again and so on. I'm starting to get nervous. I want to know my image, but not to leave. Lost wine here. And the mirror does not help me. Oh, like a mustache zanedbano. It was necessary to follow oneself steadily, and not more than if one climbed somewhere. It's amazing that I didn't think about it earlier.
A person who has recently bought me a whole mountain of cosmetics. I was so happy that I wanted to make Pasha happy. Eyes flared up in the variety of shadows and lipsticks. Ale, I took it into my hands, then my eyes vibrated to the point of incompatibility. I began to point the marafet at my own guise. If Pasha turned his back on robots, he didn’t recognize me and shocked me. Having said that it is already written that such a beauty lives with him. And you know the axis, I myself figured it out and believed it! Yakshcho viriti, everything will be so! I knew earlier that I was addicted to milking. The figurine only troch to bring, I dressed after the slopes. Ale tse tezh everything can be corrected. Soon I will be a baby, you don’t know.
I love one, but I live with the other. I don't want to live right. I want to spend the whole hour in the dark. I didn’t lose anything, as if to resign myself to my current days. That blue helps to develop. Majestic joy for me, that in me there are my loves of little blues. And wine is radium, that I have such a mother, how to love yoga the most in the world. We don’t know much about anything else, but the hour will come, and we will know the whole truth about mother that tata.
Nutrition for a psychologist:
Kіlka dnіv that cholovіka bv National Day. May a small firm, and we celebrated Christmas in the team. I didn’t even think about all the alcoholic drinks, I asked the man to take me out of the house, but to take a walk for the whole cat, but I said that the barefoot squad was the presence of obov’yazkov. Among the guests, I was a friend, I was not a friend of a person, I just lost my privacy and left. In the middle of the evening, my friend said that I should shut up ... Honestly, I don’t know why ... I didn’t talk to him, and I didn’t talk about anything ... They thought everything ... I froze, I couldn’t say anything. .. I feel stingy humiliation, and I’m sorry for myself, that I couldn’t stand up for myself, and I’m sorry for a person, that I didn’t stand up for wine ... Vranci fed a person, why I didn’t react to my friend’s guilt, man having said that I didn’t feel anything like that ... Axis, seriously? For 20 centimeters in front of me, I sat, mustache, at the table, deathly silence came ... but it seems like I don’t feel ... hvilin after fifteen years a friend phoned me and said that they told you about your yesterday’s behavior, he himself doesn’t remember anything, but he sighs, on kshtalt wine he’s a drunken fool I'm sorry... Then the two comrades started arguing as if nothing happened, I understand, everything is cool with them, they both don't remember anything, but I remember that, it hurts me more, I can't forget all the humiliation , I can’t work on the people that I thought of myself at that moment, even with my own self and indulgence ... I just don’t know what to work for me ... I don’t know how to fight with negative emotions, I don’t know how to work on the person, I don’t know how now to talk to your friend ... If everything was normal, everyone would vibrate, but if I didn’t, I didn’t know what I needed to work, how to dress up, to really work ... and you need Chi out of the blue forgivable?
The psychologist Rodionova Daria Igorivna is on the supply.
Hello Caterino.
Let's put your situation in stock facts.
In the middle of the evening with alcoholic wiggles, your man’s friend, for reasons you don’t know, you seem to shut up. In view of which you see a stingy humiliation. You are ashamed of yourself, to those who could not stand up for themselves. You are ashamed for the man, for you did not intercede.
Lies you feed a person, why you don’t react to your friend’s innocence. The man said that he didn't feel anything like that. You didn’t understand, because you were sitting at 20 centimeters.
At the same time, everything is in order, everyone succumbed, but you can’t help it. You don't know how to deal with negative emotions, how to work (and you need to forgive) a person, how to talk to your friend.
Let's try to get to know each other.
Not in a way that is not true p'yanikh vchinkiv, ale! For some unknown internal reasons, an untrustworthy friend told you to shut up (should not sound rude, so. Ale no more). What is the problem? This problem and "targani" are not yours, yogo. Ale same wi chose to openly rebuke and accept as humiliation.
I lost my respect that you didn’t write about those who supported you, the people at the table stood up for you. I can let go, no. And here I have food. Katerino, how do you work so hard yourself, why do people get it, why do you care, that you are worthy and do not require support, help, zahist? You can see clearly how you felt that experience at the leaf. Ale chi rob you so and in life, at the moment of an unacceptable situation?
You write that you are ashamed of yourself, to the one that you could not stand up for yourself. Caterino, how often do you allow yourself to break your borders and not react to those that are unacceptable to you? Yak bi bov your zahist and what got you so excited at that moment?
Zvichayno, you checked the zakhist yourself in the face of a person. And on yoga, the idleness of you saw yourself as self-indulgent. Tobto your ochikuvannya did not cope. I don't want to get angry! But the reality is such that it is far from possible if you can and want to help us. And the axis we ourselves can help ourselves with a significantly greater self-imovirnistyu. Including
Knowing and appropriating one's feelings/emotions;
To voice my feelings/emotions about behavior that signifies between the unacceptable.
If you see that you have VI, then you allow yourself a heavy sense of selfishness and strife. And in fact - you know yourself in the face of emotional stagnation in the face of the behavior of any other person.
You feed, how to get into negative emotions, how to vibachiti a person, how to talk to your friend, without regard for your vibachennya. Marvel. If we take it easy on the image - tse give us an idea that now we can cherubate those who are guilty before us. Karati yoga. And we also take into account the new “compensation”. I guess that it is important for you to take into account the recognition of your emotions. Sob ti - vinni - understood, how much more painful for you, summarily, cover. I shared a little with you. If so, you can simply tell the “guilty” about your feelings. Take away the pidtrim from the vіdpovіd, accept it - and let the image go (and at the same time from it і zlіst). Otherwise, do not take away - and then live your powerlessness and self-sufficiency.
Good day,
I have a big problem. I have been friends for 5.5 years. From a person I know 8 years. I wouldn’t say what the hell was going on at first glance. Ale step by step called to the new one and thought that I still love yoga. For 8 years, we got richly cooked, it came to separation, but now it hurt me more than let go, if I was left alone in the distance, I was bored, I felt bad for myself. All of mine changed a little, as I got excited. More precisely, following the yogo stosunkiv before me. I spent the first three months of pregnancy pretty badly. I could not eat and slept fast. The mother-in-law began to swear at me by the people, and the deputy of that, to support me, win scandals over me. For 5 months I went to the fathers, and a man to the army. I stayed with my father for 2.5 months. She moved, de serving my person, blamed the apartment, that one and the same wine before me was put like a house worker. Movlyav why he drank that shit brudnі thinly. Well, I wondered what I was worried about the child, I don’t want the microbes to be consumed in the body, etc. Still, it’s worth it. My man has a close friend, with whom to be friends over 4 years. Let's put it this way, sleepy friend of this family, to the fact that with him I could share our problems with a person, and help us to help correct the situation. After the semesters, I still had all the stosunki through my yogo relatives. Until the 8th month of my boy, I began to wonder about separation. Alemen was embarrassed by those who would be deprived of a child without a father. For me, it’s not a problem to live alone, to the one I work on, I’m going to work on me, and on a child without a person for alimony. At that hour, yoga, a friend reconciled us. Ale, I didn’t have enough feelings for a man. Lively and dosi, ale postiyno scandalous.
Look at my problems. If my lad turned 1.5 years old, evenings with a man and friends went to the club. There buv and our close friend. For example, in the evening, I saw the glance of a friend. I marveled, and marveled at me in my eyes with such, as if to say, lower (at that moment, the song “there is no prettier for you”) was playing. I got goosebumps, and after that I started thinking about something else. On the third day (I am a man and a friend of yoga) we often go to nights to the clubs too often. 6 months have passed. Stay 4 evenings in the club, de duzhe it’s true, yoga friend shook my hand, if I went to the toilet, pishov with me, hugging me by the waist. They checked on the card in the toilet, having also doubled the check, until I went out. Recovered (I can feel that I can’t go wild without it) after leaving the club, they drove home. A man driving a car, I sat in order, and a friend was lying on the back seat. Raptimly tying my hand and beginning to pester... we clenched our hands and went home like this... I felt like a leftover pig at a man's age... but I can't think of anything. Everything else seems to be after that, as we already see it. On the next day mi yak nі in what did not happen strength for steel. I just energized a person, how we got there, moving, I don’t remember, how yesterday I got away, with another person ... From that moment, close to 2 days passed, but I don’t know my own place. Axis recently went all at once a man, me, a child and a friend at the entrance. We swam together, walked and so on. and it didn’t happen in anything. Just if you speak with me, you speak affectionately, if you try to help me with a person. Ale, I know the same, I’m just a good friend. After returning home, the same as for a return. Disconnected, said the person about my decision, but don’t let me in ... Even if I wake up all the work to get rid of me, try to do it so that they turned to me almost a little ... But I don’t stop thinking about my friend ... Meni it hurts and at once it seems to lift my spirits, bestow warmth ... The only one I think about at this moment is my child ... Help, be kind, please, like me instill.