Punishing badges for bad things. Chi varto punish children for bad grades at school? Sims don't have a fixed rule of conduct
Puberty. We will always lakayut fathers of good boys and girls - but they didn’t relax. Rozumіnnі suspіlstva pіdlіtkovі vіk - tsepі period, if yangolіyutyutsya іnіsnіh іїїstіchnykh monstrіvіv, іn batkіv іn nervovy primі і pochuyuyutsya fates zhittya.
And yet, people have grown up with you. At the same time, it’s bright in this terrible dark room, and we’re wondering why children should behave badly, what stench they should look at, how to win a trust and serve as an early warning to the government.
What do you need to karat pidlіtkіv?
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Candidate of Psychological Sciences, Associate Professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Belarusian State Pedagogical University
Vikoristovuyuchi wrong punishment, the fathers threaten to strangle the individuality of the litter, to reduce a little bit of the wetness. Fear of teaching yoga to stick. Come out of the closed ring: stalking from the shortest of times, at the righteous wrath, but thoughtlessly, you yourself will send your daughter to the new, even worse provinces.
Perhaps, do not rizikuvati that vzagali do not punish? Abo to know the balance between the early and zahochennyam, learn to understand, for what you can praise, but for what you hate, and like yourself?
The investigation, held in the senior classes of one of the schoolchildren of the Pervomaisky district of Minsk, confirmed: the early warning is really needed. When spіvvіdnoshnja batoga and gingerbread like a child, so і grown up zdebіlshgo zіyshlis on the Duma: 50:50. Ale deyakі pіdlіtki vvazhayut, scho zahochen may be more, and the group of fathers sounded thought, scho may prevail early.
The teachers did well in the fact that spіvvіdshennya lie down in the event that you want more.
What are the vchinkas of good lamentation, and what are the convicts?
(At the opinion of the respondents)
Respondenti | Why do you need to punish | What do you need to crave |
Learn | For filthy behavior (alcohol, immoral vchinki, images of be-whom) | For successes in training, moral upbringing, for the care of home shoes, for correct behavior |
Batki | For non-compliance with obov'yazkіv, filthy behavior, filthy training | For good, do that vchinki, self-reliance, good training |
teachers | For the behavior that is observed in the norm (fouling, alcohol, rudeness, immoral vchinki) | For moral support, training to knowledge, activity towards attainable goals and the formation of a special position |
Why do vecheni-psychologists cheer for karati:
- at times threaten the physical (psychological) well-being of the very same person of other people
- when swinging to save material, cultural and spiritual values
- in times of violation of social norms of behavior
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Sob the system punished and greedily brought melancholy (at the extreme time - not naughty), it is impossible to work with the head of a vihovannі pіdlіtka. Interested in the guilt of repaying the punishment. First of all: the child is guilty of making himself a kohana. Always pragnetize the mind of a growing person, show readiness to uplift morally.
Unfair punishment - tse ...
The most unfair participants in the investigation respect such an early warning.
The main reasons, through yaki punish pidlіtkіv
Sims don't have a fixed rule of conduct
Deyakі fathers and vchitelі vpevnіnі, scho pіdlіtki guilty themselves razumіti, as it is possible and as it is not possible to repair in this other situation. For whom, obviously, there is a piece of truth, but to read the thoughts of the child is not mine and is not guilty.
Declare for kshtalt "It's elementary" and "I realized that it was necessary to work like this" as at least funny. Tse FOR YOU is elementary and YOU MAV on your way.
If you only clearly outlined the rules of that inter-relationship, having changed your mind, that all of them understood one thing, you will have the moral right to punish the child for violating these rules.
For example, the performances were chosen after the turn to the robot, but it turned out that the child was sir. Straighten out your foolishness of ruined plans on yourself: the stars of you were to know that sire brothers are not possible? Zvіdki youmu nobility, scho need to blame smіtya? What should be done today after the purchase of milk by fathers? SPECIFY ahead of time your plans and plans, at once you will establish the correct rules of conduct, and there will be fewer conflicts with them.
Pidlіtok try to try the love of the fathers on the mіtsnіst, pervіrity interі їхної vlady
Rob wine, feeling yourself already grown up, through your age-old features. Grown up in such moods, begin to hesitate, why do you have to make hard between the walls, why, perhaps, you need to be soft?
In case of a child of a childish age, sometimes they try to cross the line between what is permitted, and if you give in, then I call you. Porushuvatime and suvori, and endow loyal fences. How to react?
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Candidate of Psychological Sciences, Associate Professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Belarusian State Pedagogical University.
It will be wise to put the rules together, and in the future, if you change your mind, which sons (or daughters) can be trusted at this stage, step by step give more and more privileges, easing control. The limit of what is allowed for a lieutenant is to lie in the way that you can trust him.
Psychological problems of adults - fathers and teachers, their inner camp
For example, you have a big day. The vranci wrote a fine for violating the rules of the road traffic, the chief, having rebuffed the robot, buckled up to the dribnitsa, drank a lot of boards without a parasol, and in the forgotten booth the telephone appeared in the evening 37 notifications about missed calls, including an important client ... Well, chi just filthy mood .
And come like this all on the knot, and at home, son, let's say, you can hear the music loudly. Abo lizhko is not covered. Abo the dishes are not vimity ... It is not important whether you have grown wine or not. Vіn repairing so zavzhd. And this year, the rest of the dripping has changed the cup of your patience, and the unfortunate teenager is touched by the Suvor punishment.
Do you know what you see? What are you unfair. So that you don’t embitter the child, don’t hurt me between you, be consistent: if you weren’t punished for it before, then do it right now.
Another common cause of nasty behavior is family negligence. If there are conflicts between fathers (and especially if they are between families), then children can behave badly, so that mother and father wake up in their weldings and at once solve the problem of a child.
But little respect is given to the pidlet: the fathers are always busy with work, at home on the right, and the readers can’t do anything up to it - aby, after finishing the task and not spinning. That wine is ready to stand on its head, so that they spent more than an hour with it, roamed to the soul! Navіt yakshcho tsі rozmovi nastimut negative vіdtinok.
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Candidate of Psychological Sciences, Associate Professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Belarusian State Pedagogical University.
You can get away from situations that are similar to them, as if you have grown up to recognize your internal problems and learn to overcome them, and also begin to learn to control your filthy moods, not to look at the child. Analyze your mutual understanding - it’s possible, it’s possible to change it to a better one.
The punishment for the early may be proportionately guilty, the logical link is guilty of clearly prostzhuvatisya.
How clearer you can see the logic between the fault and the punishment, the more valuable it is for the young violator.
For example, a schoolboy scribbled a desk with a bag-handle. Logical punishment: punish the desk cleanly. It is illogical: sing out all the parties in the class, as well as under the log of that door.
It is logical to let the child of the computer go for one day, as if, without regard to the fence, she spent some extra time behind her. It is illogical - let go of your computer, TV and phone calls.
Grown up is the responsibility of understanding, like punishment in the early days, leading to a bad result, and yak, on the other hand, they try to be disobedient. Proportionately with the fault of the sanction to serve as a lesson, not belittling the usefulness of the litter and not embittering yoga.
How to want a pidlet that does not give a guard service
On the questioning of the questionnaire, as if you were interested in the best, the senior students responded as follows (in order of falling):
- praise
- pennies
- gifts
- dovira
- malt
The fathers and the readers said:
- recognition of merit
- praise
- support of relatives
- reach meti
The need for the outsider is one of the most important for a person in any case. If the need is constantly dissatisfied, then self-esteem falls, one's self-esteem and one's own potential. To that, let's grow up to evaluate the result of a diy pіdlіtka, and y susillya, reports from the process. Praise Yogo for his efforts, and we trust you more. Respect, bachimete in a new specialty (navite as a fault does not match your points), pidtremuvatim in the beginnings - in the growth of the spirit of goodness, not being afraid of the strength and self-sufficiency.
Mold in a new world in success, and do not be afraid to take up the folding on the right.
Ale: “Well done, having done it yourself, like I ochіkuvala”; "You listened to me, and for this reason I will allow you to take a walk this year before the great" - similar phrases to tell about the manipulation of a child, and tse surround it with a sense of wetness.
You want to want for specific actions, and not for the character of power.
With whom, do not give inappropriate speeches to a child, do not buy tickets to go where you don’t want to go. Formalism, like a public praise, when you see a child on aphids, through which you feel like a stranger in front of friends, become a guardian servant.
Think about it in the right sense phrases: “Well, you can, if you want!” In the words of the grown-ups - the right setting to the point, and I subtly capture.
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Good day, shanovni fathers! Know, who among you at school did not have a filthy badge for a schoolboy? Navit yakshcho xtos i, singly, two boules at the skin.
And now guess what was the reaction of your fathers? More for everything, you drew on the suvorian glance of the father or the voice of the mother, ready at the same time to take care of you, sweep the yard, or namivat the flies with the ganchirka. Even so, such a prospect to inspire this year, rich fathers prophesy to their “successful” children.
And it’s really right: to bark a child for the bad grades, to praise for those who still want to somehow manage to “transform” from class to class, or to calm the judge, who, having taken away “bad”, scho “have all the best”?
Lesson plan:
How often do you
Statistics: having found out about the child’s twin, we involuntarily “turned on” a negative reaction. Is it true? Awesome! We begin to get angry, we try to read the notation that it is necessary to read everything every hour, accompanied by the raised intonation and non-verbal fingers of my hands, we are displeasedly overwhelmed.
What can we do? Having stumbled a couple of times with such an aggressive reaction, if they call, they don’t understand, and why “I know the two”, the schoolboy enters his place, freezes and simply does not bring his “success” to the point of his “success”, condemning the procedure far away, until you become "taєmne" obvious."
It flew by one, two, three, and don’t say that you shouldn’t go out, go in at the tired call, which will accompany you to the right speeches. And we start to get overwhelmed already from another drive: “That vin (there) is another breach!” If, in the opinion of psychologists, such nonsense is nothing else, it’s just a test of a child to defend himself against the aggressive attacks of the father.
What will it end with? As a rule, a classic of the genre - until the age of the child, we cannot speak with her alone. Our children, as we begin to say, are becoming non-ceremonial: they do not smell the fathers, they ignore the claims. And yet we don’t take it in the depths of memory and we don’t joke about the reasons for such a behavior, but we continue to read the notation for improvement, so that everything will change. Sorry, don't change.
The first axis is a paradox: it would have been possible, zvichayna dvіyka, with kim not buvaє, but skіlki naslіdkіv! I’ll give a thought to psychologists, so as to give an unambiguous answer to our question: barking schoolchildren of 7-12 years old for a bad badge at school simply doesn’t make sense. For whom the children are not able to wisely assess the situation and develop the correct vysnovki from your criticism. Visnovok will be less than one: "I'm filthy!" What is needed?
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In our schools, according to the system of assessments, only first-graders are the best, like in the first generation of teachers, teachers paint laughter and frowns. For all the others - it was peace, if the label "dvієchnik" and "vіdminnik" is not sticky to the child.
At the same time, the classical Russian school called out to impose the stereotype of infamous assessment and hand out stamps publicly: ask, how that other child is trained, and more students, without seeming about readers, tell you about farbakh about your success. І tse staє either as a complex or put on the p'edestal, grafting to the fallowness in the form of an assessment of otochuyuchih for all life.
So, for us, fathers, school ratings can often be important. We vvazhaemo, that it is a sign of the future success of the child, the “green light” for entering the best VNZ of the country and the car'er, that it is fast to fly uphill. Ale is embarrassed to confuse you: not a 100% happy ticket that opens all the doors. Hi! It's less than half of the future success.
Ale no ratings n_yak. It’s necessary to explain why it’s “five” in school, and why to put “two”, and why we won’t take it well, but with all the bad signs - don’t start a show of ignorance, but bring it on.
And what do we call not to the one to say with a miraculous assessment that “you are kind today”, but to show with a “two” that “you are filthy”. Tse nasampered assessment prats and privіd improve over the gaps. Psychologists have taken the trouble not to pay respect for taking away “2” and “3”, if they appear only once. Ale for the regular appearance of "red swans" varto to ask for reasons.
- Tse mozhe buti too foldable, yak not under the strength of a child without urahuvannya її natural ї schisnostі to quiet chi іnshih sciences.
- The reason for failure is often the loss of motivation to start, or depression, which is zatrimalasya, if it simply becomes unacceptably good.
- "Dviyki" the student often takes away the blame of the teacher, for example, through or through the teacher's low qualification, which inaccurately explains the initial material to the children.
And yak bi little buti?
Otzhe, now it is obvious to us how you can blame your schoolboy for bad grades. No, you can't! Batkivska laika is not a helper for the navchanni, but rather a reason to settle in innocence and vibrate the guard to the whole initial process in principle.
What about us, we will seize the fathers of robiti? The Vedas here are "a club with two points." If you don’t give respect to your brothers, then you can start all the training, it’ll be more comfortable to put it on the right line.
Well, yak, did you overdo it with the one who practices the method of gingerbread without a batog in nutrition with estimates? And how are you fighting against filthy success? Tell me in the comments) Don't forget to prepay the news to the blog, so you don't miss anything important and funny!
More fives to you!
In the majority of moods, the fathers, having found out about the filthy assessment, begin in all ways to bring their negative attitude to the situation. Dissatisfaction can be expressed with words, gestures, uninterrupted notations, and someone else is grabbing for a belt. Bachachi is like a father’s reaction, children often falter at their own, stop trusting their fathers, start fooling around in order to escape the repetition of an unacceptable situation. Grown up children are even more distant from their fathers, ignoring their help and witting.
What is the job of fathers in such a situation? Irrespective of those that the situation with the two is not well received, try to keep it in your hands, do not call names and do not bark at the child, do not talk badly about її rozumovі zdіbnostі and so on. Like criticism, schoolchildren take it not as an assessment of their knowledge, but as a gluzuvannya of their specialty.
It’s not necessary to ignore the fact of rejecting an unsatisfactory assessment with humor, such a reaction of the father can provoke a child and throw a call to him. In times of consumption, you can help children with vicons of household chores, explain not sensible material, but it’s not necessary to work the lessons for a schoolboy, you won’t bring such a servant to the bare.
Like a child didn’t learn lessons without a good reason, for example, she got drunk or walked on the streets, played with friends and so on, it’s not necessary to scoff at the teacher. The child is to blame for all her faults herself.
How to react to a bad assessment? In first line, take it into your hands, sit down with a child and try to explain what caused the removal of an unsatisfactory sign. Obov'yazkovo say that you are embarrassed, that if you can, try to help. Poor assessment - don’t forget the result of the totality of knowledge required, sometimes you can be recognized by the filthy self-esteem, the conflict in the class or with the teacher, the filthy intelligence material is too thin.
At the link with them, that in the rest of the hour at home they are given a great obsession of lessons, and the teacher gives the necessary minimum, then, as much as possible, the child simply did not understand the material. Try to get involved in this topic at the same time as a schoolboy, if necessary, call the teacher, as if financially possible, you can hire a tutor.
As nasty as it is, success is due to the impossibility of speaking in front of an audience, work out at once from a child to repeat an additional report and an essay out loud, in the presence of other members of this family. If a schoolboy submits unreasonable material, ask him to go to the teacher and correct the bad mark. And, most of all, be your child's friend in any situation, so that she knows what she understands and understands in this.
Is your child the most intelligent, intelligent, talented, gifted? From the last overexposure to adequate, it’s more than hard, like your child. Reshta - dreams, fantasies of fathers, like the stench of what I take for granted, reality, and the beloved child of the goiter yazane to ochіkuvannyam loving mothers that tat. Chi so and quiet, who to love? I who stink to love? Chi tsієї realї children, yak zovsі not so and brilliant? Chi all the same, your dream and that ochіkuvannya?
Mіzh іnhim, the child can also be likened to his fathers and, for their butt, compare them with the successful, erudite, creative fathers of other one-year-olds. How do you feel in such a time, ambitious fathers? Try it, become such, like fathers like other children, like your sons love to be in the booth. Why can't your child be reproached? Mami ta tata, without prejudice, allow themselves such freedom. And more precisely - zhorstokіst.
Otzhe, having won again "two"? What work? How to react?
Say: You don’t get the hang of it? Chi vzagali do not give respect - raptom at the new one, through the doctor, it’s a little guilty to show up, for whom will we then break up a whole bouquet of complexes? But is it possible to still respect the successes of other lads?
It’s impossible to look at the twins - to go out, if you take such a setting to the beginning (to do this work) as the norm, by the same token disorientate yoga in what is so good and what is so bad.
Will you? To humiliate him like a payment for a couple, to him it’s calm and far away, you can’t do anything.
Domagatisya in the form of children of good grades is required step by step. For tyzhden dvієchnik nіyak not pretend to be good. Set such a bar - you can start walking to school.
Success in yakіys dіyalnostі additionally often vіdpovіdnіshe is put up to start. Love little ones? Let's learn dodatkovo from the art school. Chi is not checked in winter, to stand on the lick? Pick up the next section. Peremogi in the right way inspire, sigh on new feats, cheer on a person who is more conspicuous in everything, and in the future it’s positively signified and on success.
Try more to talk to the child. Talk to him, talk and talk. About everything, not only navchannya.
It is necessary to know yourself that the fear of the future of your child, that did not develop through the trash of training, having already brought the nerves to the edge. Nervousness is increased, and it is necessary to adjust the normal posture, you know the correct solution to the problems. And for that, it is necessary to accept such an action, such as it is: a child is a twin. What now? Why is it impossible for you or you to live far away? You can live that requirement!
Try to reconcile yourself with this, that the child does not particularly want to read and please mothers and tat with their achievements. Guess your classmates. Singingly, there were vіdminniki and majzhe vіdminniki - vykonavchі, zapobіzhnі, zavzhdi so correct. For your peace of mind, find out how your share was formed. And also, how successful are your classmates - the trio students, who always had impersonal ideas spinning around their heads and the stench sucked them in life, and that didn’t get to the head of the hour. Possibly, as a result, the weakest students turned out to be successful and happy.
It is necessary to calmly talk to your beloved child about school. Why can't wine be taken from subjects? Listen to the yoga version. Dali to discuss the leather subject okremo. It’s impossible not to understand, let’s say, not only mathematics, but also literature, history.
Is the reason still in an unreasonable subject? Running the material? To help, to know the courses, to inform the teachers, to help you clear the gaps in knowledge.
It seems that you don’t hang out for an hour? Sit down at the table, paint the day of the day for the wool. Axis pobachite, z'yasuetsya, scho th free hour of the year, two by two, every day.
So it’s hard to ask, why after six or seven lessons at school, you simply don’t dare to take up the homework? Believe me, it's really important for children. Especially as the stinks are not workaholics and not overly ambitious. Ale, look for a pleasant weekend. The number of lessons is not less, the homework is not quick. Otzhe, shukaєmo іnshi varianty. It’s possible, try to win a part of the day, then let us take care of our beloved right (let’s just lie down on the sofa), then I’ll come to the serving. It is possible for a child to be emotionally and physically swayed by schoolchildren, after lessons are needed after school, that boon can already be taken up for training in tomorrow's subjects.
You yourself will understand: as the reasons for the withdrawal of two were explained, then there is a real possibility of helping to get out of the closed stake of low grades, nervousness, rejection, anger.
It’s possible for a child to respect that the strength of your love will lie down to the new level due to success at school. And to that one, you will change the wine, that you will, like wine, give a bad assessment more often. Well, if you blame it, that it’s true to love for success, then you can stop reading it - it’s your place for such a setting to a new one, I’m sorry for dislike.
It is necessary to distinguish between what a child can be nasty to read, to what can be richly right, she is constantly known for a joke, experimenting, doing it. Or defiantly, out of spite, moreover, I bravoir tsim, for example: “But I don’t get ready for the control (and even worse - until I sleep thinly). What do you want? Don't piss me off.” І truth is not prepared, you will be baidikuvati. Even though the situation is more complicated, for some help, there is only a good psychologist.
Discuss with the child the importance and necessity of successful mastering the school program. Mark the positive damage to someone directly. Having taken three with a minus for the control, and before that there were two doubles? Well done! Self-reliantly climbed out of the heads of mathematics, without writing off? Miraculous!
Love your child such as she is, respect her, appreciate success, encourage positive initiative.
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Subject " Why is it necessary to punish a child for bad grades? »
For skin care, yoga baby is the best. Ale wants so much to win the best and decide among children. Who is worthy of listening to the notation of a classy cerebrate at the address of his child? On the other hand, failure at school does not mean that in the future your child will not reach success in life.
Crib for fathers
1. Often, if the fathers are ripped off by a filthy assessment, like a child, they brought 3 schools, in the end they will go to the courts, arraignment and slander. You will take your negative reaction solely as an assessment of your specialty, and not try your best. Therefore, remember the rule first:praise vikonavtsya, but criticize vikonannya.
2. Another rule to sound like this: “not more than one nedolіku for khvilina". In order to spare the child from misfortune, mark no more than one per whilin. Otherwise, your child will simply stop reacting to your tirades. Choose one, the most insignificant one, which one you want to win, and talk only about it.
3. It is important to learn to save the calm
4. It is necessary to correct pardons
5. It is necessary to set real numbers, such a child can and wants to reach. You don’t need to put unrealistic tasks before him, so that you don’t provoke Yogo into nonsense. For example, as if a child had started in the dictation of 6 pardons, without needing any kind of vimagati, so that she wouldn’t let them know at a distance, let her just try to get a couple of pardons less. To all attainable and successful results, it is necessary to please the sake of your child at once.
6. For knowledge? Sob the child did not go to school for school hours - not a trace of the tragedy of the "dvіyki", not the need for the sake of the "fives". Your child goes to school not for balls, but for knowledge. Tse i є head method of training. The badges are not a payment for the work, they only point to those that the period went smoothly, but it is necessary to improve. Deyakі batki are superciliously chomping with high school notes, in children for the whole time “remembrance of psychology” is declared, the motto of which has gone out: “Five” - for every price!”. Children start cheating, cramming, cheating, and even get embarrassed if they take “twos” and “threes”. “Two” and “three”, how can you behave? Stand up calmly, figure out why on the right. Possibly, the child could have zabula robiti chi dorobiti. Needed to be asked: You didn’t miss the viscount’s office, because you didn’t know, yak? What did you think? Now it’s more respectful to follow him, what seems to be a reader, right? Wholeheartedly rely on the child's svidome not varto. Stezhte a few days, how to go to the right place, so that all the lessons are broken. It is not included that the child has badly mastered the material. To di varto independently take care of him, but you need to work for protection. Not all fathers are good teachers. If the daughter got lost at the object, the father, what a nerve, the camp is less likely to become worse. As if the “dviyka” was set up for the neohaynost of the zoshity, the fathers have enough to hang their baptism that hope, so that the child is encouraged to write more accurately. Before speech, there is a large number of blots in zoshit, you can testify about the singing of the primary difficulties of the child, a specialist – a psychologist and a speech therapist – can help you. Fakhіvtsі will help you to know the shortest and painless way of the underlay of imaginative blots. As soon as you learn the child, rewrite the text ten times, or you can build up interest until the beginning (especially among young schoolchildren). Be careful!7. Be a singing owl!Buvay, scho child otrimu low marks for sleep performance, even if you know the task material. If you shout out to Yomu, you should praise him, as if he blames him for a shoraza, if you call Yogo to the dot. Such a child is not to be barked for the filthy badges, it is necessary to pidbadiorite. And under the hour of home training of the children, you can “train” the child, for example, by taking him to the theater. Try to try to reveal to me that you are not at home, but white doves, and speak in the voice not of a ruined rabbit, but of a singed owl with a beloved fairy tale about Winn the fluff. Vidpovidno and try to be calm and impressed. Discussed by the teacher under the fence Buva, that the children will hang the image at the address of the teacher. Old men, of course, always try to accept a child, to protect them. Ale brand, scho zavzhd remembrance matured, the teacher is not guilty of discussing with the presence of a child. A child can be quickened by your thought, and it’s more cunning, not to beat the vimoga. Sumnіvi in the diyah of the teacher will help to know the shvidka is not true, and not more than the diligent teachings of your own vlaïdnogo povіdalnogo stavlennja to navchannya. And dovira and mutual understanding between the fathers and the teacher spriyat priyatnennu vіdpovіdalnostі for vlasnі vchinki. Golovne vminnya, as it can be molded by a schoolboy at a school of buds - vminnya vchitis. Vono conveys and diligence, and accuracy, and perseverance, and vminnya vindicate for one’s actions. Krіm tsgogo, the schoolboy is guilty of singling out the first grades, to know the ways, for the help of such wines, you can remember better, acquire the necessary material, concentrate your respect at the right time, see the smut in the read and richly іnshoy.
9 honors of a school psychologist:
1. Give yourself that child. Everything that the fathers had, cannot be repeated in a child. He may have other interests and other interests.
2.Children of today - іnshі. Previously, the value of education was clearly expressed, the children had to read it, and I wanted to work no more for others. Today's pіznavalny motive is going to another plane. For today's children, sit on the Internet, walk around shopping centers.
3. Batkam is easy to talk about the real camp of the right. Possibly, the child did not have your zdіbnostі, on the yakі the stench was protected. Or maybe, Vіn is simply not ready for school physiologically and psychologically.
4. Often, fathers accept child badges, as an assessment of their work from the birth of a child.
5. What system bad icons? Vipadkovі buvayut be-whom. If you blame the stench forever, understand the reason - here you can be impersonal. It is possible, children feel uncomfortable to say that the class is afraid of a great audience.
6. If the cause is revealed, the robot can be opened. The child needs to be trained and focused on the result. It is necessary to understand that the badge of a student is secondary, and the primary knowledge. It is permissible to replace the recognition motive with others. For example, the fathers proponuyut children robiti neatly and correctly at home, and then you will take the opportunity to take a walk with friends or play on the computer.
7. Praise the child for the achievement. So you get into a situation of success. The child herself is drawn into the initial process. Pragnennya reach success can become a good motive.
8. Do not compare a child with other children for the principle: others can - and ti less zumiti. With a bag of such fights, I can, as a matter of fact, rozvinene vіdchutya rozpach, as it’s not possible to lead to anything good.
9. Do not punish badges for bad things. The child and so steadily perebuva in the situation of failure. With the help of the father's layanka, they will help the situation. So a schoolboy can get excited and spend enough interest before learning.