Two children: how to get up? Like you run into two small children.
“Children are the happiness of life”, “children are our city, the sense of life and happiness” ... These are more garni phrases, but really, at the same time, from the great kohanny that the resemblance of a skin day, children bring us even more trouble. Having succeeded in giving birth to a child, you have already changed your life in the best way. What will you become for the people of another? How to get behind your underwhelming ambitions, get rid of it with a healthy mind, and even more so - become a happy two-mother, who will take more satisfaction from the sight of your little ones? In these articles, we will talk about those how to prepare for the birth of another child and what you can do in the form of motherhood “at the square”.
Preparing for the next baby
Even though you seriously and obviously went to the planning of another vacancy, thought about what kind of difference would be optimal for your motherland in the country between children - it’s wonderful. Aje nothing can be compared, that with the weather, that close babies can cope with it smoothly. What a grown up and self-sufficient primer, then it will be simpler for you. In case of planning, the next care should also be given to the psychological characteristics of mothers, which should lead to the rehabilitation of two children (stability to stress, scaling to depression), and the presence / presence of helpers. However, the fathers, as if they were looking at the appearance of another little one with a small price, do not mourn the grandmother “on the side” without panicking. You have everything!
Your eldest child is a full-fledged member of this family, so there is no right to know about the young lady and, together with the fathers, take part in the preparation until the appearance of a brother or sister. Do not say: "Soon you will have a friend for igor," otherwise, the first spіtkaє spravzhnє rozcharuvannya, if you succumb to the joyless little one, that you have less to eat and cry. Do not focus the respect of the child on the fact that it is not difficult for him to happen to share with his brother or sister with toys and malt; so you risk viklikati tsіlkom zrozumіle vіdtorgnennya new member sim'ї. To tell the truth: a crying, hopeless little man will appear in your homeland, who will only eat mother's milk and sleep for most of the hour. Reinforce that if you are older - it’s even more serious and it’s true. Rejoice with the child on the topic of choosing clothes, bedding and a toy for the little one. If you are planning to win speeches that you have lost after the first child, ask for permission at the price. Be a plan at once from a child, vikoristovuyuchi borrower "mi". Ask, how you can help you after the appearance of the newly born (and wine, sing-song, you want to take part in looking after the little one - a smut, so that it was good-natured). Give the child a thought of himself as a meaningful, mature and grown-up one!
Together with the older baby, choose a gift for the young one, and prepare yourself a “gift at the grandparents”, which you will hand over upon arrival from the canopy booth. Dosvid rich enough to talk about those who help to smooth out the difficulties of the first days and inevitably jealousy from the side of the first. Try to choose as a gift, especially the flower and the original, and not a honeycomb or a typewriter.
Will you be comfortable with two children?
Even richer mothers sing - it’s easier from two children, it’s easier than from one. First, one child is more powerful, she called out that her mother was in full order. That mother, of the new, scorched, there is no more to go for a walk and sip at home. If there are two small flocks, the older one speaks quickly to such a state of speeches, and the younger one grows up in a "zhvavish" situation. Mami is most likely to become simpler, and even now she doesn’t change, as if she were stronger, alone in silence. Obviously, there would be two or three years to go about the children from the retail at the vіtsі.
The last moment is important. With another child, you will feel richer in a flurry of moods. You already know how to change your boots, don’t panic through crying and learn the same strategy of behavior in this situation.
How do mothers of two children cope with homework alone, without helpers?
Rіdkіsna mom really has absolutely no helpers. If you have two children, then the stench, better for everything, sighs like a tata, which you can and must get to help in the state. Do not take on yourself the FRY work around the house - your children need a physically healthy mother! Tato can take a walk with one or both children, giving you a small rebar. And the grandmother will singly be glad to spend the day with the beloved elder onuk.
There are also extreme situations, if the father is not able to, or the wines from the morning until the evening on the robot, and the grandmothers and the children live even farther away. Help from the side of a person, mother and mother-in-law, at first glance seems catastrophic. Often a large number of people at the booth can cause chaos to the right, and this is how help is called to start simply to envy. So do not be embarrassed and go out of what you can.
Fallen in the eyes of an older child, let's give her a second hand. If you see your handy ganchirochka for a saw, a sponge for washing dishes, put a mop - you want to help you. And vzhe zavantazhuvaty chi rozvantazhuvati prna car, rozvіshuvati on sushartsі clean speech love navit least children. And don't let your senior see everything in a row - it's not so important! You learn the child's viability and give importance to your eyes. Praise the little one and cheer up, what kind of wine is already grown up and self-sufficient. Say: “Brother (sister) marvel and marvel, it’s great to go inside you! Pedroste and brother with you butt. Axis shake, as you will please the elder child and stimulus її to further "feats".
Do not allow the government to help the children sleep. Let your sleep be the hour of your recovery. Inoculate the little ones before the mother is another person, it is necessary to rush in, go to the toilet, brush your teeth. The eldest, as if he was already changing into a bigger-lesser svidomo, you can look after the little sprat of hvilin as much as possible, or take care of the trochs without you, while you dress up the little one or you are good for yoga. As if you are busy on the right around the house, occupy the first place with mosaics, paintings, moldings. Seek your self-sufficiency group and reveal the development - it is not only visible to you, but it is beautiful for the development of a child.
Do not try to be a mother-heroine, preparing an offense for the day, an offense from the three of them, and bringing the apartment to an ideal order. Vivchit principles "fly lady". Do a little work at home, it will be more efficient, try to change the logs at once at the whole apartment, or stroke all the whiteness.
Remember, the childishness of your children will not be repeated, and the skin wheezing, carried out at once, is valuable. Read a book to the elder, holding the young one in your arms, marvel at the cartoon, listen to the audio show.
Irreplaceable helper at home on the right for mothers of two children. Win your hands, but with two children it’s more important than one. The little one is not crying, if the mother is big in the stove, now to the new, then to the older child, even if the wine is fast-witted - the mother is in order.
Corinthian helpers of a young mother of two children - a multicooker, a double boiler, a dishwasher, that, obviously, a clean machine. Vikoristovuyuchi these units, you will save your hour.
Two little children: how to turn around and not be godless?
We offer to your respect a sprinkling of joys, like, we are able to make life easier for the mother of two children:
- Accept be-yak help, do not try to be a super-woman.
- Write down the plans for the coming day in a notebook.
- Harvest in the freezer the products for crusting in small portions. Keep a supply of snacks for the older child: fruits, muesli, dried fruits, peas. You can inspire them at once to drink bananas, juice and bake on a child's maidan, if the little ones sleep by the stroller.
- Chi do not make your life easier. Buy clothes for children, which can be easily dressed - so change the hour of gathering for a walk. And let him out of the vikonana z material, which is easy to clean chi viprati. Koristaytes utensils, scho not to fight. Pick up the filed dribnі and tenditnі speech. It is less necessary to work around the house than it is more necessary, to accept, in the first month of a young child's life.
- Vykoristovyte accept the natural fatherland, inspire you to respect it with fanaticism. give you the opportunity to hang normally. Breast-feeding and pedagogical complementary foods will be richly simple, lower years will sum up and introduce complementary foods for traditional schemes. Cheer with your breasts lying down - so you will give your back, and at the same hour you can make the older child read books that tell verses or simple sleep games.
- The sling and ergo backpack are not suitable for everyone, but for rich two-mothers, the stench is now easier for life.
- Want pragnennya eldest child to destroy the child. Let me show you my little books, cars and the designer (but don’t be afraid of those who rightfully respect their own). If a young child learns to call and sit, the stench of the elders can already “grow”. Consider the first place as the head of the gr - a teacher, a doctor, a salesman. And we will teach the little one, a patient and a buyer. After the victory of the youngest second rock, the children already miraculously grow together.
- Remember that the older baby is a child himself and is not guilty of helping you with the new people. You can only ask Yogo for a little help, but don’t piss off and don’t bark more for the mother.
- Set priorities. The youngest is not guilty of being important, and only to the one who is small. As if the elder had hit it, or even more embarrassment, you should calm your mind down, putting the little one in the bed, and not vimagati, so that the first person would solve the problem himself.
The problem of jealousy of an older child to a younger one
Jealousy from the side of the older child to the newborn - a moment that lakay rich mothers. The stench mayut fear incorrectly divide your respect, "throw" the first paper. Ale chi is it necessary to pragnate but the same for both children? Aje tse is really impossible. Your behavior is stale in the eyes of the older baby.
Up to three years, a child feels with her mother as one single child, and if a brother or sister appears in this period, it will be easy for a child to accept this fact. Therefore, in such a time, it is necessary for mothers to show especially patience that tenderness by growing to an older child. It is more common to take yoga in your arms, move it, stroke it and kiss it. Marvel at the photographs at once, at some of the images of the same person, who is a young child.
The deyakі little ones with the appearance of immobility so swear and respect themselves so much that they look shy, they turned “back to the childishness” - they want to wet the nipple and lie in their mother’s arms, shouting for the sake of speaking. To shine a mind to a child, it’s important to bring it up at once. Shvidshe for everything, yogo bazhannya buti little trivatime is not long. Psychologists sing - the appearance of a young child stimulates the development of an older one. Ask Yogo to show the little ones, as if to eat it yourself with a spoon, or go to the miner. Proud of her self-confidence and stature, the elder child, completely imovirno, quickly mastering the skills of butt, as if they were a problem for him.
As a difference between children, 3 rocks and more, jealous of those able, moreover, the stench will be more "svіdomimi". The child will need an hour to accept change from the sim's - to endure. It's best to say that you love yoga. Same yoga, not "both of you." Would you like to help me from the side of the elder, skin yogo showing turboti to the young brother or sister. Explain why you are doing these other manipulations with the baby, ask for the first time to give you a diaper, a baby cream or a pelushka. Do not cook for the lack of hands, or the noise of the sleep of crying. Praise the elder and reassure him, who is already great, and how rich he is, commensurate with the new people.
If the little ones sleep and every hour of the year, add the maximum of your respect to the first. Yomu needs not so much and rich - just be instructed by you to take the fate of your right, bachiti interest to yogo igor and a little caressing words. I, obviously, look after my mother's lover. Discuss with a child, as if grown up, the main food; talk to him about the new people. Speak on the fact that we smile at you, laugh and stick your finger. Tell me why you should love your elder brother and sister.
If the children grow up and inevitably begin to quarrel, cook, and, possibly, start fighting, mothers will show delicacy and wisdom. Do not wart to stand on the side of the one who is young and weak, but punish both. It’s easy to think about a skin incident, but you can teach the little ones to catch the baby yourself. Teach children to listen to one and only one and to make claims in the form “I don’t fit, what are you ...”, and not “You are filthy” or “You are wrong.”
How to plan a day with two children?
One of the biggest folds of life with two children, especially for different daily routines. Spravzhnіy stress vіdchuvayut moms, yakі zvikli rob everything right, shogodini zі eldest child. The presence of two little ones at the principle of respect, before that, the sleep schedules of children of a different age, whether or not once in a while, will wake up at the first river of life of the youngest of them. Do not be turbulent, as if from the beginning, the mode will be a little “walking”. Pіvgodini-godina - it's not the same and it's scary v_dhilennya, everything is step by step.
With the regime of the new people, naimovіrnіshe, it will be simpler. To put Yogo to sleep, enough of my mother's breasts. And the axis of the laying of the elder at that hour, if the brother and sister do not sleep, is stale for the first time and the primary rituals for the new one. Bazhano, for an hour, another child would appear to accustom the older one to hoarseness independently. In a different way, you can put Yogo, trimming small in your arms, sleeping at the same time as a colossus, or reading a fairy tale - so calm and calm both children.
Walking with two children is an okremy privіd for worrying mothers, like checking a child for another. Since the retail price is small, it’s better to bring a special wheelchair for the weather. The eldest child is impressed by the great vistas? Miraculous! And all the same, take care that you can take a trip - it’s not enough for two children to set records for the distance of walks. Going to the shops of the mother of two children to grow up the significantly lighter sling; with him you have more mobile and “maneuvering”, lower from the bus.
Mothers of two children need a repair
All of us want to be wonderful mothers, for some children they don’t cry and don’t hooligan, in the house, keep the harmony, and the person is not deprived of respect. Ale, an ideal mother, a team and a master - only an illusion.
Trying to give respect to both children, people, and try to do it under the control of the mustache, do not forget about yourself! If you want to know 10-15 quills a day, you can only dedicate it to yourself: go to the shower, take a bath, put on a face mask.
Do not forget about your hoarding, but if you don’t know them, it’s time to know those who are right for you. Knitting, sewing and other handwriting, reading books or looking at favorite films - for everything you can know the hour to wind with two little ones. Golovnya, I wanted to do something in a right way. A small breath, just for yourself, will give you strength and optimism, which you never get.
If a young child is going to be drunk (and, perhaps, earlier), periodically allow yourself to go for a walk, flooding a person with children. I want to go to the grocery store, I want it every day. Mom is guilty of repenting and let her see, but mothers can be alone with their thoughts.
As if you suddenly became the mother of another child, because you have a lot to lay on, just you! The people of another little one are majestic happiness. All the accompanying turbos and the folds of the past, and you invariably come into contact with them. Suddenly, everything will be much simpler, to the fact that you already have the knowledge, knowledge of that vmіnnya, you need to look after the new people. That nayavnіst of the elder child to churn with rich fun for weekdays with nemolyam. Do not boast that you do not run into children's home rights. You are already a mother, which means you can do more richly. Good luck to you and happy “motherhood squared”!
Often, the crime of the main work is rich, someone from us calls ourselves on the shoulders of the additional vantage - the other, and sometimes the third. Somebody patches up the financial dirks in such a rank, some one realizes the creative potential, and one gets closer to the sacred dream of the power business. The reason for this vipadka is not so important. It is important for those who, having called the vіn vantage kіlkoh robit, mirizikuєmo replicate the alignment of their lives, not zumіvshi correctly rozpodіlit the hour of work and vodpochinku. For the sake of information, propagate the Lifehack portal.
How to cope
1. Conduct a reading between two robots. The stench in any case is not guilty of overlapping one on one. Start as one of your own robots - boss, not varto, having started at the office of a design company, draw up a plan for the sale of used equipment. Focus on the flow, don't cut.
2. Start a workbook, distribute yoga navpіl and scrupulously write down in the new everything that is connected with us by your projects on both robots: telephone numbers, email addresses, contact information, current tasks, a list of references. Recording records will help you better orient yourself to the right and not stray from them.
Why work, how one work conquers the viconnanny
One day the day will come, if on the Robot Number one time it will become the same term, if on the Robot Number Two there will be an emergency. As soon as you don’t acquire at that hour an all-forgiving boss, or all reasonable clients, you will have a clear and clear choice: what kind of robot do you win? For this reason, I understand, I think that on a robot, as if you are fighting, there is a great hostility, after all you will be fired (otherwise, fail the project, as if you go to your right). Be internally prepared for such a situation. Best of all, what you can do is work until it comes - calmly and calmly, it’s important to faint, as your work is a priority. The priority of the time can be as a salary increase, and interest.
Somebody will have the will to take the robot "to the booth", only the axis of the booth at this particular place is the office of the native company. The very people here are spivrobitniki, like they’ve done, the crime of the main work, they’ll do something else, bring their freelance projects and work on them right there. To put it bluntly, the best way to plan your own time is right. Even though you don’t have much previous domesticity with uninterrupted bosses, it’s unacceptable to win a working hour in the interests of power. Since you already took some papers to the office that your other work is busy with, try to take care of your rights after the end of the working day and the completion of all the in-line tasks of the first work.
What to tell the boss
Often, robots are not satisfied with the fact that their employees are busy with their main job, and a number of companies directly defend similar clauses in the employment contract. It is important for such robots that the worker has been working since the spring or nine years, come home, after evening, having a good sleep and with new strength taking up his uninterrupted shoes. Others, now, all the time, they will want "rich-tasking" spivrobitnikiv, give them a free schedule, clean up their jobs, a stable salary, loyally put themselves up to zatrymok chi zapiznen. These robots give priority to the development of a specialist as a trader, which, in my opinion, can take one-hour employment in a number of positions in different companies. It’s a pity, it’s important to learn along the way, to which of these two types your robots can be seen, it’s practically impossible, that’s why the main “multi-tasking” spy worker is smut, until you feed, what is called, “on the forehead”.
For the sake of justice, let’s say that it’s not so richly furnished, that you can be a substitute for a direct fence from the side of the robot on your work position behind the walls of the office. As for your employment contract, there is a clause about the day of competition, otherwise your presence is required at the same time for both the main and the additional robots - as a whole, for the robotic worker, you can take care of any other work, the crisis without observance. In other cases, the robotic supplier can not be used for fences.
How to know the balance between a robot and a repair
The presence of two or three workers doesn’t mean that you don’t have a good life, crim worker. First of all: the stronger you are busy, the more you learn to report in order to know the right hour and enjoy the goodness. It’s not necessary to “burn” for one’s work: the more time you have to pay, the more time you spend to spend all your work in one hour.
One of my acquaintances is constantly crying, that you don’t learn anything, tk. she has two children (5 years and 1 year). If only I remember, the first hour has not yet come after the people of the first child ... like a pelyushka, years old.
Tsya topic to finish is relevant, because. more often than not, you stick with it, you really don’t get it to grow ... But the axis I have is viniclo nutrition - but now people, as if you know in advance that you won’t pull? At the same time, your friend seems like you don’t go to work - like at a senior school, at a young kindergarten ... likarny, lessons are boring. ... But if it’s in the cage in the middle (as if it’s already idle), then why not take the older child into the cage? Tim is more than autumn before school, and the preparation itself does not fall into a thought ...
I’ll soon check for myself vrahuvati - two children with a difference of three years ... But I don’t plan to stay for a long time and in the second half of the year I’ll dahu dahu in a manger (Sasha pishov herself in the third century, and I’m not sorry about that).
Thinking about food - and how to catch everything, I again went through the expanses of the Internet and knew what I knew:
How to be found in arithmetic routines, it’s almost “given”: I have two children, the oldest son may be three years old, the youngest is two months old at the same time. I have a father-in-law, so you can walk with one of the children practically at any hour, if you don’t ask, thank you very much, but in principle you could do without it. I have fathers, they can take the elder son home, for example, on weekends, thank you very much, but I’m squat cym (we most often break away on a visit to the holidays with the whole family, one Grisha went to grandma’s with the grandfather only once) inclusive for In addition, for the urgency of life and the life of the son, I myself have no need for living in the presence of my children.
Now let's move on to the setting of the task itself - let's look at the food, which I myself understand, then I'll become a trifle wiser, as it is possible. Later, I take care of both my sons, cook, tidy up the apartments, do a lot of work (mostly on the phone and type texts) and talk to my friends, try to learn to read and see at the free hour of the skin evening at weekdays, to marvel at "Doctor House ". Like bachite, it’s not a hopeless adventure, so it’s real to “catch up” more lower.
Well, now it’s clear on the current nutrition “yak”.
In the first place, I already value that hour, which my elder son can spend on his own, without worrying about the hand, respect for help. From the earliest vіku vіn mav takі busy, yakі vіn mіg workindependently with a minimum of my additional help and control, or without them. At the very least, take your toys out of the boxes and play in them. The entire inventory for borrowing, which will require additional help, spіvpratsі or control of grown-ups, is not in direct access. Try to take arkush paperta make a list of quiet and easy to occupy, as your child is created absolutely without your participation, that list is quiet, for your additional help, control is required minimally. Tse give you a notice about those, how much time you can spend as much and more on those that are necessary for a young child, especially for you or other members of the family. The axis is my list of what falls first on the thought.
My senior son can independently spend an hour like this:
- play games
- marvel at books
- watch cartoons
- play on the keyboard
-play at the bathroom
Before taking up this list, you can go into it if you have blame the grave need, it is necessary to grow the term, and the child is definitely worthy of you- Your self-reliant child sees your little wand. If a child is busy with something from this list for your own initiative, and not for your shit, then your chance to be busy with something else is important to you. Our other tasks will be folding the list quietly dіy iz self-service, like your child can do it yourself(because I’ll do it again for the minimum of your help), so for example, my senior son is all by himself:
- dress up, if you lie down and loosen up, if you invest in sleep
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- to calm down
- take it easy if you don’t have it in the refrigerator (juices and milk, plastic, muesli, peas and dried fruits should always be available for free)
- be a mountaineer
-distavati and clean up your toys
Then you can think about those who have a right handed turboti about not having a low entry, your older child can, as a minimum of ease, as a maximum of satisfaction, help you. Take a brother’s or sister’s baby, bring a new one, help kidnap a baby in transference, make a brazkaltsya, cover it with a carpet - on all sides of the house, wind up a second baby. Don’t be afraid to help me if you want what else sleeping hour for you together with your children, and considering the importance and importance of your own (needs for you, and your little brother and sister) for an older child, and still necessary little respect for that turbota.
The appearance of a new member of this family is not instantaneous, already being vacant, you can evaluate your prospects and spend an hour on training your older child for different newcomers, so that the lists of the lists have increased, the ability to show your self-reliance has expanded, and in the case of free time in the future.
Nareshti, do more differently, you can easily win together with one of the children. You can get to the preparation of food, tidying up the booth or mittya the dishes of the elder child. Abo, put Yogo behind one of our first list (for example, your child is built to work independently, or for your presence without active respect from your side) transferred to a sling.
Well, before you buy a whole lot, you can do it and from both children in the same time. Golovna not be afraid of such a prospect, which lies at first glance, like going to the store with both children (my elder son, like we are going to the store all at once, sound more calm, you just go all the hour, trying for the baby’s stroller, then samotі yogo often scrounging around to get the air of the refrigerators, or pohovatsya in my robe for clothes, which hang on hangers) or z'їzditi to friends at the guest, having taken with him the whole of his childish garden we spent an hour miraculously together, sitting next to me in a sling and sleeping at the bedside, and my friend and I caught up to drink tea and get enough of it).
Now you yourself are singsongly singing that most of our everyday rights fit into those lists, that we have piled up more with you so it’s rich, so you can’t run into these turbots at that happy hour, if you can afford to put all the children to sleep at once :)
Let's talk about our deeds tricks, to help me cope with my tasks and not to get involved, regardless of the constant presence in the field of view of my two spinogris:
Trick number one "richly functional mother": I learned to read books quickly, pick up mosaics and sort out the details of the designer, in parallel with my breasts (try it, it’s not easy for me).
Trick number two - "let's sleep!": I try to put both children to sleep at once (we lie all at once on a bed, the youngest is, I read a book to the eldest, so everyone sings together).
Trick number three - “so, so, ALL sleep!”: I often sleep at the same time with my children (so, I’m young, I’m reading a book to my elder) - turn and see into the truth, already repeated thoughts about those who hung and was satisfied with my mother in an untidy apartment and nervous mother in the rooms, which vibrate with cleanliness. And so - nothing like that sips children, be-such a century, like a grown-up, that zasin instruct from them.
Cunning number chotiri - "Zvorotniy vidlik": if I think about those that I need to grow up, then I’m thinking about how I’ll look in front of both my sons, that I’ll be in charge, as it’s impossible, Oh well, but this has never happened before in two months of our sleepy life.
Cunning number five - "things-dryuchki": out of satisfaction (ale with reason) cherish the numerical benefits of civilization, whether it be a stroller or a sling, a toy or a disk with cartoons, clothes, which does not get wet, it is easily dressed and utensils that do not fight. All the bells and whistles will help us guess that the children are not the next mountain of turbot, but the sea is happy.
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How can you catch everything, if there are two of them?
You have already tasted the happiness of motherhood and you have tried to guess it again. Sim'ya checks on another child...
Ideal option, if the first one is already 18 and vіn vіdbulasya specialty, not vmagaє richly respect that help in їzhі, dressed for a walk, go to the miner and help in bathing procedures.
And how can the situation be aggravated with a path - the weather with a difference in 2-3 years and there is no one to help? Ale mi - women are not fooled by easy paths, so a folding option is considered.
How can you catch everyone, like this has two children?
For the cob, prepare a man, It is understandable that you were not the only one who took part in the process of pregnancy, and that you are not Przhevalsky’s horseman, to endure everything and call on your tenditnі zhіnochі shoulders, to that all the difficulties that problems are overcome by.
Let's try to prepare the elder child, scho vin, won to become a brother or sister. Well, I’m especially mad at myself for those who don’t have delusions on the topic: I’m not nervous, I’ll be a calm, jealous mother and squad, I’ll be visipatimus, eat properly, and work on my make-up and brushing.
Wanting to look at the first glance, not everything is so easy and easy, but it’s all right for you, even more so - organize your day and your loved ones, which will make you feel lost.
How do you catch everything, how do you have a replenishment?
Let's start from the first days when we arrive home. All for the sake of and happiness until your arrival, everything is ready for the new people, have you lost your mind about what to start and what to finish? Obviously, the little breast looks like a richer hour, lower the members of this family, but not to forget about the elder child, but the brand about the man!
Don't be a chick over speechlessness, let the older child chop yoga, snuggle up and give a pacifier.
Only under your supervision. Do not bark for those who, having shouted loudly, having missed a toy, have already been brought to the point that in the first month of their life they do not react only to loud sounds.
Allow the older child to play like the younger one, so that the distant “mine” disappears.
Chi is not a tyrant of a person, who does not trim his wines like that, does not bathe like that, does not dress the diaper in such a way, and does not cover it with the cream.
As if you were busy with dumbness, ask a person to give respect to an older child and now, so that you don’t see the infringement of the infringement of the inappropriateness, otherwise you can grow a little jealous.
As if with the appearance of another child, the schedule of the first is shifted, in the absence of anything critical and vi, and vino to whom you call, but follow the golden rule: nothing, and no one is guilty of disturbing the sleep of my children, because a child’s dream is your free hour.
Obviously, the priority of the young child in everything, that is, it’s out of the blue for the layout, but behind the stage of hunger, already understanding that at the first cry everyone runs to her, but there are moments of sleep that calm lying, at the bed looking at the mobile, you can weather the elder and don’t forget that you are still alive and you need that kind of repair.
So, as the first months are the most foldable, then snuggle up with the first opportunity to sleep yourself, read a book, sit on the Internet, and not go to the stove, boards for praying, or more often climb, you can transfer to the weekend if the person will be at home and can help you .
How can you catch everything, if there are two of them? About eating
shodo cooking food, everything will be simple by itself, it is great to read the “spirit wardrobe”, in which you can cook without pretentiousness, the folding of the wine in the preparation of soup and porridge, for that it is necessary to take care of it.
How can you catch everything, if there are two of them? About games
You won't be a health guard until you're an older child, so you'll be vigaduvati igri, zahoplennya for two, if you want to read, read both, if you want to drink, let's not lick, and you sit as a guide to the young, if you want to rule the mess at the sight of throwing toys, speeches and kitchen stuffing, be kind, clean it up if both of you go to bed, but before that, you don't need to work.
How can you catch everything, if there are two of them? About clothes
How to go for a walk, see the doctor and buy it in the store, dress up step by step And it’s better to repair it yourself from the elder, so it’s easier to dress like a young one, you don’t run around the apartment shouting “health”, you don’t need to shuffle tights, a hat, mittens, children are ready, but you already had the right to wear clothes.
On walks, you need to stay still only for one child, for the other to sleep peacefully, at the clinic you don’t have to wait to take the elder in one place, checking your chergs, for that one, take the toys for yourself, stock up on the child, because more space and calm down, to that, coming to the checkout, always look at the guts of the elder and the carriage of the young, you can know the richly cіkavy.
How can you catch everything, if there are two of them? Mom's order
At the weekend, get home from a person about the schedule "hanging out" so that one of the fathers gets up at once with the children, takes care of them and not under any kind of drive there will be no other father.
Allow yourself to go to the store, let's go for bread and the one who is on the first version of your booth, depriving children of tatom, shards of twenty villinous walk, bring you a surge of strength.
Today, you blame the banter at home, even for a year, don’t think about anyone, what to infuriate, to cherish, and like a brother clean up an unskinned mess.
Once every two months, you can allow yourself a year or two free time and it doesn’t matter what you do when you’re busy, maybe you’ll chat with your friends, go to the salon, or just a book walk around the area, a change in the situation - that’s a great change!
The first river of the life of the young, fly mittevo, the days are dragging on, but, having thrown the worm's wound, you will understand, and yet the river has passed. The river boundary has been passed and now you feel better when you see that the elder and the younger can already play at once, they have their own shared interests, apparently you have more than your special, free and expensive hour, in which you can pass the thought, “Why don’t you tell us about the third child!”?
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І, at the end of the tієї topics:
How to catch everything with a child in your arms
It's an hour when mother is left at home for the night with a new people's bed, or not in the world with a bellow, richly who knows how to be more comfortable in life. And rightly so, even if the little ones look at the sight - ale, how can you turn back to the house on the right? Chi really catch everything? It appears, it’s not enough to look at the deacies, come on!
We set priorities
A heady thought, like varto inspire yourself and make yourself feel more comfortable for another hour of pregnancy, - life with a child is not for those who live without a child, and there will be no more. For example, the future mother is smitten in cleanliness, if she simply does not lose her ability and to look after the little one, and work well to clean up, and add an hour to herself and people. Navit try to continue after a gradual lapse of all those who were up to a fold, they can lead to a psychopathological depression, a neurosis of the very mothers of that little one, and that’s how much to kill a little girl after a person’s day. Also, it is obov'yazkovo to happen to sacrifice. If you want to call it creative: the reorganization of your free time.
It is best to try to take care of the household about those, so that the entire period of birth is gentle, so that, at least, in the first month of the life of the little one, the mother could basically take care of and take care of the little one. It is objectively necessary for the mother's body to become toned, for lactation to be restored and the bonds with the child to be seen. Such is the "feast of the birth", if the whole family was talking about the year, present in the traditions of most of the peoples of the world, including in Russia.
At one time, some relatives pronounce "smother the child," while the mother is busy with her rights according to the state. Wealthy and this proposition is to be merciful, but there is a crisis of insecurity: it’s defiantly necessary for the little ones to make us look forward to our mother, and not to our grandmother! Most mothers and themselves are instinctively turbulent, if the newborn child is in the wrong hands, then this person is absolutely hopeful... vіn start to get nervous - take yogo back, check it right. During this period, you can increase it, even to a reasonable distance. In practice, consultants from natural growth experience fluctuations, if the little ones are moved in the mother's breasts to the very one who spends more than an hour in the arms of the grandmother and the nanny, less with the mothers - in such a time, the little ones simply begin to rogue, who is the yoga mother herself.
To that, obviously, it’s better to take care of yourself about help in the reign, but if you help in helping to nurse the little one - it’s your hour. It dawned on me that on a foreign land that superficial podtrimka can be prosperous, unfortunately, not all. And then it’s necessary to overshadow the singing nuances, otherwise the rapt transformation of the “princess”, like all dbali for the hour of vagity, on the “servant”, on the rapt, the impersonal new clothes are called, maybe too shocking.
Nasampered, it is necessary to swear, what is more important especially for you. Hello baby? Your health? House cleanliness? Garni stosunki with a new tatom? Fallow in vіdpovіdі, yak you will let yourselves, varto spread your strength between the right.
Let's try to be able to divide the next into groups. Those without whom you basically you can manage, varto just turn it off (for example, prasuvannya bagatioh speeches, Balakanin on the phone just fine) or try to get along with the baby. So, many mothers miraculously feel, having covered themselves with pillows for a hand-me-down, at the hour of some kind of stink, they can not only talk to the little one, but read, and marvel at the TV, and talk by phone. Walking as a whole goes with a trip to the store, talking with friends and relatives. And at any time, do not forget to give an opportunity to everyone who gets to you with a guest: the first months of life, mothers see a child with a child, but not help, but help. For a guest, it’s easy to make it easy for you to make purchases at once, or take part in organizing a meal, but for mom, it’s a serious help.
- those who can work with a child in their arms: for example, throw speeches at the pick-up machine, put on a hedgehog;
- tі, yakі you can work, if the child is in charge (in a stroller, a couch, a child's armchair): mitt utensils, rozvіshuvannya vipranoї whiteness, easy tidying up;
- tі, yakі it is possible to grow less if the child sleeps.
If you want the best, please, in the first month, try to do it yourself at the same time from the child. Such a pleasure is often given to books and articles for fathers, but what does it mean in practice? Axis two most important rules. First: for the thriving years, better lie down, and if you want to take a nap, do not encourage yourself. The weakening of that renewal of forces, taken away by such a rank, cannot be compared with anything. Another: during the day, build up a reception for yourself (take a book from your hand or knit it, brew and drink tea slowly, make a mask for disguise - our skin is our own option).
And the axis of which does not work for the mother of the new people, then it is worth trying to plan your day ahead of time. In a child who is fit for help and develops according to the natural laws of nature, whether or not a regime is established in the country for about two or three months. In fact, for only a short period of time, a mother can be more or less encouraged to plan seriously to sleep a baby - take a break at the parlor, relax at the bathroom, prepare a great family resentment ... skin changes for two or three months.
Turn on the baby at your own
It’s too early for mother to work the whiskers all the same, so it’s necessary to get over your life, so that it goes right along with the child, - and not grow up among the needs of the child, decide with your own needs the members of your family. In traditional cultures, having become familiar with the slopes, the mother continues to wear her family's clothes, which are more important, less important, in the automatic machine, or the preparation of drinks in the micro-furnace.
When you have a child, you can spend the whole hour, or most of the time, to change order with your mother. Perevyaz, or sling, which is gaining popularity in Russia, is maximally attached to help with the baby in your arms. It's a pity, so many mothers try to help the child as much as possible, so that they "didn't respect it", or they throw themselves at home for the hour of the child's sleep, sacrificing their health. Isn't it better to secure a child's ability from early childhood to take a feasible part in the life of their own? Tse already exactly korisnіshe, nizh lie in a lizhechku, spying mobile, scho to spin.
The mothers themselves are the most tired, as they diligently try to grow up and “grow up” the baby, until they sleep, and take care of their rights, if they fall asleep. As a result, it turns out that a small child is signified by mother’s self-respect, and at one time the little one does not work independently for a long time, the shards sound that they are rozvazhayut. Ale zavdannya mami polagaє zovsіm not in the fact that you should be for your child an eternal toy. Mom's role is a loving and trustworthy guide to the world. For the little one, and tsikavo, and korisno, to guard for the activity of a grown-up person, in the world of growing up, taking a feasible fate in it. At the same time, the roblyachi do it all at once, the mother does not deprive the little one of respect, as if they respect the deeds, - now, the stench is constantly colliding; Like a mother between the little ones there, de vin still can’t get in through the century, and you want your independence at the accessible borders - you won’t grow up a sensible and smart helper.
So, as if a child of a sprig of people from the people would be watching for the process of cooking, then closer to the rock, you can help in the simplest deeds (to remember - throw in a saucepan - salt). Pіvtorarіchnі іti vzhe sіlkom can lay down their speeches on the spot (as, obviously, it's more accessible for children), vitirati drank every hour of picking, help mum sort out cereals and berries thinly. Let me help you for a long time to be purely nominal, but the child will be "at work", and proud of his function as a mother's helper, "like a grown-up one."
The main mother’s task is to virishuvati, for which the little one can already turn around, not overly zіpsuvashi, but why else. So, like a little one, pouring out, virushay behind the ganchirka - it’s better not to harrow the whole yoma, but to see the master’s “cleaning tool”. Like a pіvіchna child gravitate to a sharp knife, you need to either just put it in, or to prop it up with a toy knife and clean the potato (like wine along the way, better for everything, closer). And yet, set up with my mother's help for an hour on the timer of the micro-furnace oven - one of the favorites of the children of the three elders.
With a little one, who can’t sleep at the sling, you can and propyl suck, and clean the vegetables, and wash the stove. A mittya pіdlog that rozvіshuvannya bіzni (on pіdlogіy sushartsі) easily transforms into a group "at the hovanka" without words, as if it reached the 4-month-old century. With a sound wiguk "Ku-ku, de mama?" sometimes you know, sometimes you show up through the pieces of furniture (because you want to fetch a pelushka, as if you are at once frightening and spreading it).
Perevіrenі cunning
And, nareshti, methods of rational government, tested by mothers already, can come to the rescue.
Prestosuvannya, which is good for situations, if you need to take care of the right with a child on your own or charge: slang; carry-on wheelchair, car seat and chaise longue; pillow for anniversaries at the sight of the pidkov; kilimok with toys. Moreover, it is not necessary to buy an expensive kilimok - for the advice of mothers, it also proves a tourist kilimok, which is easy to wear and warm and accepting on a dotik, lower is a simple glueon. It is enough to put on a new child all at once with your favorite toys, and even if there is a baby in the range of visibility - 10-20 quills for your references are safe for you.
If it’s okay, then in the first few months it’s best to switch to eating, as it will take at least an hour to make a drink. Yakscho є koshti, їх it is possible to buy - m'yasnі, ribnі, ovochevі, vibіr at once majestic. Yakshchko є H HOUR, ї ї ї Zozhno Narotivati: Freezerous T_ z Narzanі Ohochani, Vlasnoruch quoted dumplings, dumplings, dumplings ... Raude Gotuati in front of the canopies of a b_loshi ї і і ї ї ї ї ї ї щ щ щ щ щ щ ї Zruzhniy L_teurі, fatty so far not tested on myself. Meat stewed with small pieces, baked chicken stegna, pilaf - all the same, thawed in a micro-furnace oven, anіtrohi did not lose its relish.
Home appliances come to help. Microhvilov's pіch allows for some brown powers, but it's easy and fast to cook in it. The food processor allows you to shake the vegetables, cut the cheese with a child in your arms. M'yaso or riba can be baked completely, and not lubricated, tiringly stirring and being afraid that it will burn; vegetable steamer; and porridges in portioned sachets are less than able to get them out of the pan at the hour.
Ironing a lot of speeches, for reasonable understanding, does not seem to be necessary - so, bedding whiteness (and may be all else) can simply be neatly folded for drying, and then neatly folded. Also, in the interests of all the motherland, Timchasovo switch to a smaller robe (thanks to the current materials, they allow). Mama varto think over your wardrobe and in the next hour, in a new minimum of speeches - richly functional and do not require special attention. And the axis of the baby pelushki can’t be ironed anymore: if necessary, they erase it with the function of boiling, and for the softness of the vicorist, special children of the opal_skuvachi (like the baby are not weak to allergies). Even the pelushki may not wrinkle, and when folded in a hundred, they look no less neatly, they stroked them lower. (It is necessary to respect that in some kind of laces of expensive hotels they took care of the bedding, replacing the dust with polish, to that, having poured in high temperatures, as if gluing the fibers of the fabric, the streaks of them are less penetrating.)
Cleaning up? A lot of mothers come to the visnovka, if only two times a day - which is enough, if the house is small. At the extreme, you can hire a helper to come: it’s not so expensive a couple of times a day, but for rich women it was a great relief. First of all, remember: the children will grow up soon, and my mother's turbos will again become ours!
bambalero 07/12/2008 about 15:15:37
we have 2 rocks
it’s important, if you’re sick, then we’ll ask a nanny for the weather, take a walk with you, that you’re healthy.
Grandma is far away, we can handle it ourselves.
and in order to lay down the order, in order, how old are the children of the rocks themselves. like a new people and a courtyard - then there is only one order, like a buttonhole and tririshka - then we already know another.
if a young woman was born, it was like this - I got up at once with fears, about 8 years old, they fell asleep (I slept younger). Poki poili changed clothes - the little one was throwing herself. a year - two people poked at home, along the way zavantazhivshi morning and robivshi minimally preparing before dinner (for example, they peeled potatoes and rubbed carrots). Let's go for a walk. It felt good, if the young woman slept three more times a day. at one o'clock in the morning, my elders went to the store to the bazaar and to the childish Maidan. (In it there was a prefix to a large carriage, you can stand and walk, as if the legs were tired). We turned back home, prepared insults, ate. I put to sleep both. as if it’s more important than anything, I’m falling at once with them, if it’s tolerable, you can pick it up or turn it into the computer :)))
after the day I sleep at the older noon, the younger one at the hands of my mother. they warmed/spilled, made preparations for the evening. about 5-6 a.m. I’m going to go for a walk again. (younger I am sleeping on the street again).
I was more respectful, so that the young woman slept on the street, but she didn’t just lie by the side of the hutch - she cried.
check on tata - at once let's go home. I am giving birth to the children of tatov, I myself will have finished the evening. їmo. about 9 we put the elder, read it. laid - bathe and invest young.At the same time, the youngest rіk that three, older 3.4. - It’s too bad to sleep, that person gives me the opportunity to sleep in the morning. at the same time, the elder’s salt rises, prepares porridge (Nordic, at the mikrus). stink. about 8-8:30 I get up, dress and dress the elder and go to the stench of the gardens. we hang out with dribnoy, about the 4th we are taken away, I’m afraid of the garden and let’s go for a walk ...
Zagalom - it's okay. it’s even more important, if you’re sick, lick your teeth. then already tat's watch :)
to the nanny’s servants, they go into it, if you want to guess what we’re not only tato and mom, and then another person from the retinue - and I want to go together at the movie theater \ theater .. :))Tiger 07/12/2008 at 21:11:55
Supersky so all rose, such a :)
We have a difference of 2.3 rocky. Axis tezh I think, how to make a graph, so as not to be afraid))) Tim is bigger, we haven’t gone to the garden yet ... I think the elder of the vesnі vіddat ... I just don’t know the axis, morally, how up to it? Will you be ready?
And to drive to sleep - are you trying to put them at once a day? .. Abo in a different way?bambalero 08/12/2008 about 12:02:34
I am older than
I didn’t see the cage at 2. First of all, I stink a little bit in the cage to go to the cage, in a different way, I was afraid that she would have an injury - like me, they saw me, but they would worry about the little one.
Every day I try to put it down at once. it’s not a fact that the older woman is sleeping - well, hi, just lie in a bed. I need life for a year or two for a calm stretch of the day:)))))))))
and if you don’t put up a schedule for a long time, don’t bother yourself. stale in addition, as if we were the youngest to sleep, lie down, grow up ... the first pivroku is not the most comfortable, the smut is more than an hour for the elder, while the little one sleeps or hangs down. slaughter more for prasuvannya / tidying up .. I’ve lost all the man’s shirts, all the rest :))
aksinya 03/12/2008 about 13:43:05
How do you cope with two small children with a small difference in the capital?
For example, 2-2.5 rocks. Do you all get what you need help from your side (grandmothers, aunts, nannies, hutny worker)? It doesn’t matter, write, be kind, your daily routine. How to organize your day better? Great thanks!
Slovak 03/12/2008 at 21:13:32
2-2.5 rocks really get in the way.
You can catch everything, smut 1 time per day to wind up with children :)
Change the modes of the youngest and the oldest, so that you can buy a radiotelephone. Phone with a baby monitor, duzhe ryatuє, yakscho 1 sleep at home, and with the other you walk a booth.
Help, you can not work, not work.
For example, I didn’t iron, I started. At the weekend, we saw 30 quills for slicing alcoholic beverages on soup and meat. Tsibulya is put into portions, carrots on a grater, minced meat on meatballs, meat on vines, and everything in the freezer.
It is important to be the first 6 months, as the youngest will be restless, then we will rise one by one ourselves.
The order of the day is written smoothly, the shards of the wines change over the hour the children grow up.
I honestly don’t know any mami, I didn’t fit in with the weather :)
Shiro respect your thought, but I'll stay with my own!
I have two of them. The lad is... the lad. Sergius is 3 years old and 4 months old, and Malyukov Andryushon is 1.5. Retail between children - rіk and 11 months. So it has already happened in my life, that, having perched the baby to the rock with my breasts, after a couple of months I started suddenly. Vagіtnіst was unplanned, but the decision on the family's sake was accepted at once - it's good for one, it's good for two.
To be honest, my soul was in a storm of sumniviv - I don’t have an apartment, I’m not so hot (yet I haven’t dressed after the first curtains), car’era - the dog is running dry. The man had no doubts: “We haven’t had a single abortion! Sleep is relevant. I want to sleep peacefully and not be tormented by zhahs, they are so vista in my life. I didn’t have a chance to think for a long time - I went to get up on the face at the clinic.
Other vagіtnіst was given to me not so easily. In the first place, the weakening of the body, in a different way, in the remaining months of pregnancy, she still lifted Seryozhka in her arms: either help her from a bed, then move her across the road, then cry the little ones, blow them. If she came to the doctor with a scar, that she lives unkindly, singsongly, through those who often raise a child, she showed her eyes on me: "You are the axis of the child's bachish, but you don't think about those in the stomach!"
Bark, don't bark, but I got nowhere. Obviously, they foresaw everything they could: they sawed a sprat of slats of a lizhechka, so that Seryozhik could easily climb himself, asked people outside the child across the road to move it too thin. Vryatuvav us garden. I went to the nursery Seriously on the 1st day and 7 months Pishov from satisfaction. There are children, toys. It didn’t happen without snot, but not my first, not my rest, they began to harmonize, also a singing plus.
The story was repeated: I am pregnant, with a jar of salted ogirkiv I am zestriching the New 2003 rec. Mom was crying on her own in happiness, the person having given the tickets, only my moods could not be described in words, what was used in Russian language.
Having gone through the torment of a bezplodny hell, I gave birth to 2002 roci Serozha. That buv gift share! Zavagіtnіvshi suddenly, for a long time I could not show how I can share my love among children.
Lіkar small raciu - I cherished and loved the child, and still could not call to the unplanned "life in me". Seemingly happy, it seemed to be invisible, invisible. And then the days passed, months ... The axis of the little ones shoved me for the first time: mom, everything is fine with me! The person from the examination looked at the photographs made after ultrasonic cooling. Sergius got in charge, laying his head on his life, checking, if the little one says to you, if the stench can immediately play in the car. Under such an onslaught, I stepped in. My dear, my little man, having become so necessary, so necessary.
I gave birth to 12 limes. My sister Ganna donated her permit and asked for Sergius to go to the Krasnodar Territory for a week until the end of his journey. In front of my eyes all the way to the airport, there was a lot of engine pictures: mom can’t put yoga in sleep, even my son is so nasty zasina, it’s wrong to be yoga, and in the new one it’s a weak slut, yoga tastes like a sucid dog I'm sick...
I felt like a stepmother to myself, that I’m still managing my only child for thousands of kilometers only to the one that I can’t, vagitna, completely see. I was crying, standing there for a long time, and I was crying, and Sergiy, taking Hanna under the hand, calmly krokuva to the litak, not wrapping around, antrohi not mischievous about those who are out of the house.
And if I hung on a telephone dart yesterday: "Well, how wine?", "How wine is?", "How wine sleep?" Hello, I'm siv (pishov) walking." Vіn miraculously ate, having walked up for a whole day on a fresh wind, sleeping all night with a sound sleep and feeling like a miracle (on the vіdmіnu vіd mene).
І axis of mi at home. Mustache. For the first few months, putting the children to bed, I cried in the kitchen about my hard time. If I came to work after a half-hearted time and roused the boss, that one more son was born in me, I asked in a shrill voice: "It's hard, singsongly, with two little ones?" She answered my firm opinion: “Nothing, it’s important that the first 18 years, then we’ll call.”
I sat in the kitchen, cheered, I’ll be back in 18 years. It turned out that I would “call” me to 47 (rounded up to 50, looking at those who, maybe, the boss had mercy). Well, I have only two of them, but what about those who have three or four? But how can you, who can have children-weather? I calmed down on the fact that everything will "settle down" for the year.
And for sure, life slowly took its toll. She gave birth to the young one and at once told the elder one, cooked porridge while the younger one slept, and the older one sips buckwheat from one bottle into another, set records for picking the swede, picking up the same cooking. I got used to patience, swiftness of reaction, virobyla hospitable ear and 100% zir, and I also get to practice "at home" (I need new fashionable speeches for my cavaliers!). In short, don't be afraid, everything is better, and 18 years - not so rich already.
Why is it important to me now? І so і ні. So - if the children are sick. Viruses in our sim are expanding due to the swish sound (chiha). Sergiy came from the garden in the evening with snot - check the vrantsі, the youngest contagion is 100%. I don’t need to go to the gate, I know everything in advance. Aflubin was on the spur of the moment - but my Shvidka helped. Yakshcho didn’t catch it - that’s all, vartu.
The conjunctivitis of the past fierce mi rejoiced long and fast. They only vibrated only once, when they brought the children. The father-in-law took the elder, and the budinki cuckooed with the younger ones, they dripped in their eyes. More on aphids as adenovirus infection and new in both.
So, important - if we did not sleep at night. Having thrown one, another is thrown. We drag children around the rooms, kill one, calmly another. Grandmother joins - to whom you lead, whom to be a mountaineer, and then get up about 6.30. If one weeps, then the other is guaranteed to roar. Until the fate of Andryushon, we slept three times, and then two for a day.
It's hard when the children have a different regimen. Sergiy strived to marvel, to sleep the little one, and wake him up. Sleep at once for 2-2.5 years. It became easier.
So - we know there is no special hour. It's all occupied by children. If one child can still be taken to relatives for a birthday or a friend, then two is already a problem. Ale, whether it be time for a month or two, we choose "to people". Radiating skin whims of freedom and, bored, we turn to our belligerent, nongamous little boy. At the same time, the relatives disperse in the houses, and we proceed until the last hour of doby - evening. We pick up toys, bathe, drink milk, read fairy tales and go to bed.
No, it doesn't matter - if children can already double the amount at once. The axis of you is at the presence. I give Sergius a camera, and Andryushon's wine to the photographer - insults squeak, retort. Abo Seryozha reads books to Andriy, and she ticks with her fingers at the pictures, and it’s more like her gibberish.
Cheerful children's voices are pouring out of the kitchen: "Mom, I'm ready for Andryushka with porridge, give me more!" In the kitchen - fun: resentment in porridge, one with a spoon is trying to tell someone else, the other is, as you can, or perhaps more importantly with your hands. I'll add myself. I wipe, my style is that style. Children of the city, mother is satisfied.
Sergiy chooses a constructor - Andriy next chooses. Weld - reconcile. F'yutsya? Hi! Tse Suvoro fenced. Sergiy is vindicated for his young brother. Children begin to quarrel, solve problems and regulate conflicts, know compromises: "Mom, I gave Andryushka a little car, and took a little red for myself ..." .
Welding through toys on the edge of the country, only we, grown up, dorimuyemosya nefarious rule: bathe the children of the same car and have a dependent copy. With a new car, I want to be offended and while I’m lying, who needs a yak, I can cook.
Collectivization from its own positive perspective. The older one blows gas in the kitchen, and the younger one twists the rams from the stove. Have fun again. That's why we have barricades into the kitchen. Children are allowed to use the kitchen only with grown-ups.
Bulo in our sіm'ї on the order of the day food about. Yak bov, so i drain. They single-handedly spent money on the protection of "nanny" money to buy a small sports center.
Batko, following a new program, was lured to vihovannya little cholovіkіv. In the afternoon - virtually on the phone, I can only smell: "Tatu, mom, clean up my toys!" P'yatikhvilinna Rozmova, and Sergiy, shoving, picking up a constructor, placing cars around the police.
Vecheri, ringing at the door - tato come! The little mother-buds are choking on their trousers: "Tatu, I made a garage for KamAZ, and I ate mushrooms with my mother, and Andryushka alone is not enough!" Andryushka at the same time spreads yogurt on new tatoo pants.
Obviously, my grandmother is in me. You can take it to the store or go to the library. If there is no helper, then walking with two small children in large places - here the rightness is needed. I take care of an older child, but it’s not enough that I can behave well, but also follow the young one. Brought "to be drunk" with marmalades and gingerbread. Natomist at the store is like an idil. The sellers are surprised at my children, who scurry after me and calmly check at the devil.
It’s a lot of people who plan a small difference in the capital - for everyone, no doubt, a lot of pluses: the economic factor (you spend less pennies on clothes, the younger one informs the older one, especially as children of the same status), psychological (children develop well, even if they are small still collectives). And just like "so it happened", know that your own burden is not heavy, and all problems are overcome, it would be a blessing that positively set to life. Aje doesn’t have anything good to say that starts from a cheerful childish chirp:
- Good morning, mom!
- Good morning, my love!
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I have already received the article. You're a good guy! Everything is felt, experienced, so close to me, so familiar. May 4 children. Usikh mi themselves planned. Help, okrim man, practically dumb. The newest moon was born. Well, it's complicated. Sometimes it's complicated. She experienced a lot of things, both physically and morally. I was a little depressed. Nini starts to get better. I am already happy, glory to the Almighty. So I also want to engage in self-development, for me it’s even more important, but for now I don’t have an hour. For the help of Allah, everything will be rewarded, just a little bit of patience is needed.
07/24/2018 05:33:57 PM, Lu_Muchydesnaya stat "ya, prosto kom v gorle i slezi on glazah. Tol'ko vot kak podymala what can you do menya zhdat" - i srazy rashotelos" on the second rebenka idti. moemy pervomy 1 god i mesyaz. in samom nachale hotelos" eshe odnogo . a seichas yzhe i ne hochetsya. mozhet, popozhe, kogda etot posamostoyatel "nei da posoznatel" nee stanet ... A za stat "u spasibo.
02/01/2007 02:46:44 PM, nataliaGreat! You Mom from the Great Letters! I still have one child, don, I’m only 6 months old, and I really want her to have a brother or a sister, and so they have no more than two or three years of birth ... Ale shkoda, what do I want for now only I, And the axis of a man and father to navit and not know what I think about you ... for my health (sensi has a 42-kilogram vaga ... everyone is amazed that I gave birth to the first one!) to think about a child for a friend through such a short term is self-destructive, moreover, less graduate from the university, that mind is deprived of life Bazhati the best ... Ale, everything is in front of me! And I wish you to be left with such a tolerant, squishy and smart mother! Good luck to you!
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