Punishing badges for bad things. I know two! Why bark a child for bad grades? Causes of broken behavior
Is your child the most intelligent, intelligent, talented, gifted? From the last overexposure to adequate, it’s more than hard, like your child. Reshta - dreams, fantasies of fathers, like the stench of what I take for granted, reality, and the beloved child of the goiter yazane vouches for the ochіkuvannyam of loving mothers that tat. Chi so and quiet, who to love? I who stink to love? Chi tsia is a real child, how is it not so and ingenious? Chi all the same, your dream and that ochіkuvannya?
Mіzh іnhim, the child can also be likened to his fathers and, for their butt, compare them with the successful, erudite, creative fathers of other one-year-olds. How do you feel in such a time, ambitious fathers? Try it, become such, like fathers like other children, like your sons love to be in the booth. Why can't your child be matched? Mami ta tata, without prejudice, allow themselves such freedom. And more precisely - zhorstokіst.
Otzhe, having won again "two"? What work? How to react?
Say: You don’t get the hang of it? Chi vzagali do not give up respect - raptom at the new one through dokori, it’s a little guilty to show up, for whom then will we break up a whole bouquet of complexes? But is it possible to still respect the successes of other lads?
It’s impossible to look at the twins - you can’t go out if you take such a setting to the beginning (to do this work) as the norm, by the same token disorientate yoga in what is so good and what is so bad.
Will you? Such humiliation is like a payment for a couple, it’s quiet and far away, you can’t do anything.
Domagatisya in the form of children of good grades is required step by step. For tyzhden dvієchnik nіyak not pretend to be kind. Set such a bar - you can start walking to school.
Success at the yakіys dіyalnostі pomozhe pomozhu vіdpovіdnіshe stavіtsya before navchannya. Love little ones? Let's learn dodatkovo from the art school. Chi is not checked in winter, to stand on the lick? Pick up the next section. Peremogi in the right way inspire, sigh on new feats, cheer up a person who is more conspicuous in everything, and in the future it’s positively signified and on success.
Try more to talk to the child. Talk to him, talk and talk. About everything, not only navchannya.
It is necessary to know yourself that the fear of the future of your child, that did not develop through the trash of training, having already brought the nerves to the edge. Nervousness is increased, and it is necessary to adjust the normal posture, you know the correct solution to the problems. And for that, it is necessary to accept such an action, such as it is: a child is a twin. What now? Why is it impossible for you or you to live far away? You can live that requirement!
Try to reconcile yourself with this, that the child does not particularly want to read and please mothers and tat with their achievements. Guess your classmates. Singingly, there were vіdminniki and majzhe vіdminniki - vykonavchі, zapobіzhnі, zavzhdi so correct. For your peace of mind, find out how your share was formed. And also, how successful are your classmates - threesomes, who always had impersonal ideas spinning around their heads and the stench inhaled them in life, and that didn’t get to the head of the hour. Possibly, as a result, the weakest students turned out to be successful and happy.
It is necessary to calmly talk to your beloved child about school. Why can't wine be taken from objects? Listen to the yoga version. Dali to discuss the leather subject okremo. It’s impossible not to understand, let’s say, not only mathematics, but also literature, history.
Is the reason still in an unreasonable subject? Running the material? To help, to know the courses, to inform the teachers, to help you clear the gaps in knowledge.
It seems that you don’t hang out for an hour? Sit down at the table, paint the day of the day for the wool. Axis pobachite, z'yasuetsya, scho th free hour of the year, two by two, every day.
So it’s hard to ask, why after six or seven lessons at school, you simply don’t think to yourself to take up the homework? Believe me, it's really important for children. Especially as the stinks are not workaholics and not overly ambitious. Ale, look for a pleasant weekend. The number of lessons is not less, the homework is not quick. Otzhe, shukaєmo іnshi varianty. It’s possible, try to win a part of the day, then let us take care of our beloved right (let’s just lie down on the sofa), then let’s come to the serving. It is possible that the child's flooring is emotionally and physically swayed by the schoolchildren, after the lessons are needed after the lessons, that boon can already be taken up for training in tomorrow's subjects.
You yourself will understand: as the reasons for the withdrawal of doubles were explained, then the possibility of helping to get out of the closed stake of low grades, nervousness, rejection, anger is real.
It’s possible for a child to respect that the strength of your love will lie down to the new level due to success at school. And to that one, you will change the wine, that you will, like wine, give a bad assessment more often. Well, if you blame it, that it’s true to love for success, then you can stop reading it - it’s your place for such a setting to a new one, I’m sorry for dislike.
It is necessary to distinguish between what a child can be nasty to read, to what can be richly right, she is constantly known for a joke, experimenting, doing it. Or defiantly, out of spite, moreover, I bravoir tsim, for example: “But I don’t get ready for the control (and even worse - until I sleep thinly). What do you want? Don't piss me off.” І truth is not prepared, you will be baidikuvati. Even though the situation is more complicated, for some help, there is only a good psychologist.
Discuss with the child the importance and necessity of successful mastering the school program. Mark the positive damage to someone directly. Having taken three with a minus for the control, and before that there were two doubles? Well done! Self-reliantly climbed out of the heads of mathematics, without writing off? Miraculous!
Love your child such as she is, respect her, appreciate success, encourage positive initiative.
Puberty. We will always lakayut fathers of good boys and girls - but they didn’t relax. Rozumіnnі suspіlstva pіdlіtkovі vіk - tsepі period, if yangolіyutyutsya іnіsnіh іїїstіchnykh monstrіvіv, іn batkіv іn nervovy primі і pochuyuyutsya fates zhittya.
And yet, people have grown up with you. At the same time, it’s bright in this terrible dark room and it’s good to see why children behave badly, what stench they should look at, how to win a trust and serve as an early warning to the government.
What do you need to karat pidlіtkіv?
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Candidate of Psychological Sciences, Associate Professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Belarusian State Pedagogical University
Vikoristovuyuchi wrong punishment, the fathers threaten to strangle the individuality of the litter, to reduce a little bit of the wetness. Fear of teaching yoga to stick. Come out of the closed ring: stalking from the shortest of times, at the righteous wrath, but thoughtlessly, you yourself will send your daughter to the new, even worse provinces.
Perhaps, do not rizikuvati that vzagali do not punish? Abo to know the balance between the early and zahochennyam, learn to understand, for what you can praise, but for what you hate, and like yourself?
The investigation, held in the senior classes of one of the schoolchildren of the Pervomaisky district of Minsk, confirmed: the early warning is really needed. When spіvvіdnoshnja batoga and gingerbread like a child, so і grown up zdebіlshgo zіyshlis on the Duma: 50:50. Ale deyakі pіdlіtki vvazhayut, scho zahochen may be more, and the group of fathers sounded thought, scho may prevail early.
The teachers did well in the fact that spіvvіdshennya lie down in the event that you want more.
What are the vchinkas of good lamentation, and what are the convicts?
(At the opinion of the respondents)
Respondenti | Why do you need to punish | What do you need to crave |
Learn | For filthy behavior (alcohol, immoral vchinki, images of be-whom) | For successes in training, moral upbringing, for the care of home shoes, for correct behavior |
Batki | For non-compliance with obov'yazkіv, filthy behavior, filthy training | For good, do that vchinki, self-reliance, good training |
teachers | For the behavior that is observed in the norm (fouling, alcohol, rudeness, immoral vchinki) | For moral support, training to knowledge, activity towards attainable goals and the formation of a special position |
Why do vecheni-psychologists cheer for karati:
- at times threaten the physical (psychological) well-being of the very same person of other people
- when swinging to save material, cultural and spiritual values
- in times of violation of social norms of behavior
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Sob the system punished and greedily brought melancholy (at the extreme time - not naughty), it is impossible to work with the head of a vihovannі pіdlіtka. Interested in the guilt of repaying the punishment. First of all: the child is guilty of making himself a kohana. Always pragnetize the mind of a growing person, show readiness to uplift morally.
Unfair punishment - tse ...
The most unfair participants in the investigation respect such an early warning.
The main reasons, through yaki punish pidlіtkіv
Sims don't have a fixed rule of conduct
Deyakі fathers and vchitelі vpevnіnі, scho pіdlіtki guilty themselves razumіti, as it is possible and as it is not possible to repair in this other situation. For whom, obviously, there is a piece of truth, but to read the thoughts of the child is not mine and is not guilty.
Declare for kshtalt "It's elementary" and "I realized that it was necessary to work like this" as at least funny. Tse FOR YOU is elementary and YOU MAV on your way.
If you only clearly outlined the rules of that inter-relationship, having changed your mind, that all of them understood one thing, you will have the moral right to punish the child for violating these rules.
For example, the performances were chosen after the turn to the robot, but it turned out that the child was sir. Straighten out your foolishness of ruined plans on yourself: the stars of you were to know that sire brothers are not possible? Zvіdki youmu nobility, scho need to blame smіtya? What should be done today after the purchase of milk by fathers? SPECIFY ahead of time your plans and plans, at once you will establish the correct rules of conduct, and there will be fewer conflicts with them.
Pidlіtok try to try the love of the fathers on the mіtsnіst, pervіrity interі їхної vlady
Rob wine, feeling yourself already grown up, through your age-old features. Grown up in such moods, begin to hesitate, why do you have to make hard between the walls, why, perhaps, you need to be soft?
In case of a child of a childish age, sometimes they try to cross the line between what is permitted, and if you give in, then I call you. Porushuvatime and suvori, and endow loyal fences. How to react?
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Candidate of Psychological Sciences, Associate Professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Belarusian State Pedagogical University.
It will be wise to put the rules together, and in the future, if you change your mind, which sons (or daughters) can be trusted at this stage, step by step give more and more privileges, easing control. The limit of what is allowed for a lieutenant is to lie in the way that you can trust him.
Psychological problems of adults - fathers and teachers, their inner camp
For example, you have a big day. The vranci wrote a fine for violating the rules of the road traffic, the chief zmusiv reworked the robot, holding on to the rubbish, drank the board without a parasol, and in the forgotten booth the phone appeared in the evening 37 reminders about the missed calls, the call for an important client ... Well, chi is just disgusting.
And come like this all on the knot, and at home, son, let's say, you can hear the music loudly. Abo lizhko is not covered. Abo the dishes are not vimity ... It is not important whether you have grown wine or not. Vіn repairing so zavzhd. And this year, the rest of the dripping has changed the cup of your patience, and the unfortunate teenager is touched by the Suvor punishment.
Do you know what you see? What are you unfair. So that you don’t embitter the child, don’t hurt me between you, be consistent: if you weren’t punished for it before, then do it right now.
Another common cause of nasty behavior is family negligence. If there are conflicts between the fathers (and especially, if they are between their families), then the children can behave badly, so that the mother and father wake up in their weldings and at once solve the problem of the child.
But little respect is given to the pidlet: the fathers are always busy with work, at home on the right, and the readers can’t do anything up to it - aby, after finishing the task and not spinning. That wine is ready to stand on its head, so that they spent more than an hour with it, roamed to the soul! Navіt yakshcho tsі rozmovi nastimut negative vіdtinok.
Svitlana Mesnikovich
Candidate of Psychological Sciences, Associate Professor at the Institute of Psychology of the Belarusian State Pedagogical University.
You can get away from situations that are similar to them, as if you have grown up to recognize your internal problems and learn to overcome them, and also begin to learn to control your filthy moods, not to look at the child. Analyze your mutual understanding - it’s possible, it’s possible to change it to a better one.
The punishment for the early may be proportionately guilty, the logical link is guilty of clearly prostzhuvatisya.
How clearer you can see the logic between the fault and the punishment, the more valuable it is for the young violator.
For example, a schoolboy scribbled a desk with a bag-handle. Logical punishment: punish the desk cleanly. It is illogical: sing out all the parties in the class, as well as under the log of that door.
It is logical to let the child of the computer go for one day, as if, without regard to the fence, she spent some extra time behind her. It is illogical - let go of your computer, TV and phone calls.
Grown up is the responsibility of understanding, like punishment in the early days, leading to a bad result, and yak, on the other hand, they try to be disobedient. Proportionately with the fault of the sanction to serve as a lesson, not belittling the usefulness of the litter and not embittering yoga.
How to want a pidlet that does not give a guard service
On the questioning of the questionnaire, as if you were interested in the best, the senior students responded as follows (in order of falling):
- praise
- pennies
- gifts
- dovira
- malt
The fathers and the readers said:
- recognition of merit
- praise
- support of relatives
- reach meti
The need for the outsider is one of the most important for a person in any case. If the need is constantly dissatisfied, then self-esteem falls, one's self-esteem and one's own potential. To that, let's grow up to evaluate the result of a diy pіdlіtka, and y susillya, reports from the process. Praise Yogo for his efforts, and we trust you more. Respect, bachimete in a new specialty (navite as a fault does not match your points), respect in the beginnings - win over a little watery goodness, not being afraid of the strength and self-sufficiency.
Mold in a new world in success, and do not be afraid to take up the folding on the right.
Ale: “Well done, having done it yourself, like I ochіkuvala”; "You listened to me, and for this reason I will allow you to take a walk this year before the great" - similar phrases to tell about the manipulation of a child, and tse surround it with a sense of wetness.
You want to want for specific actions, and not for the character of power.
With whom, do not give inappropriate speeches to a child, do not buy tickets to go where you don’t want to go. Formalism, like public praise, when you see a child on aphids, through which you feel like a stranger in front of friends, become a guardian servant.
Think about it in the right sense phrases: “Well, you can, if you want!” In the words of the grown-ups - the right setting to the point, and I subtly capture.
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An article about the methods of punishment for children and psychology of punishment.
Vikhovny process can not do without punishment. This is one of the methods of vihovannya, which helps to straighten the behavior of the little one in the right direction and show a thorough pardon. Vіdsutnіst pokaránі brіvіd until uncontrollії іtіnі.
And, as the youngest vіtsі yogo vchinki priymayutsya otochyuchimi, like innocent vytіvki, even in the senior vіtsі may cause problems of socialization. All of us live in the suspense and, the fathers want to be better, the child is guilty of growing up to the arbitrarily accepted norms. However, often the fathers go between the vihovanni.
Early warning is not summed up with zhorstokistyu. Likewise, the warning does not allow for anything sinful with humiliation and underestimation of human rights. A child is such a person herself, as she maintains her own life position. The role of the father is less to send the little one to the right direction and to show pardon.
Causes of broken behavior
First, for whom the fathers may rise, - cause the destruction of the behavior. Aja for an hour to endure the cause of the scandal.
- Bazhannya to win the respect of the father. Buvay, scho in sim'ї, de both batkіv pratsyuyut little ones underestimating their respect. The only way to return the father to the right is the filthy behavior. Only the same fathers begin to fight with the little one, high and at the form of punishment. If a child commemorates such a trend in the behavior of fathers, then you will behave badly, you will often finish it. The only way out of this situation is to choose to be brothers with your own schedule, often spend an hour with your child.
- Often a child of a preschool age does not behave badly on purpose. The fathers are guilty of vivchit and razozumіti vіkovі specialities, vrakhovuvat їh when vihovannі
- Nervous overexcitation. Such children suffer from hyperactivity, it is difficult for them to get angry and calm down. One of the reasons is the destruction of the nervous system through the use of piece toys. Let's understand, we'll be on the lookout for a television, a computer, a tablet, and a phone. The preschool child has no need for contact of children with these outbuildings
- Manifestation of ailment. Poor self-feeling, that impossibility to speak, often becomes the cause of squeamishness and nasty behavior in children
Why can you punish a child?
As it was meant to be, children of a young age often do not break discipline on purpose. In such a time, it is the duty of the father to take the little child to the camp and patiently teach the necessary skills. Situations, in some kind of punishment, the little one is still warto:
- For an unreasonable hysteria. Often the hysterics of children catch grown-up znenatska. The child already realized that having made a scandal at the store or in the park, she easily took off the baganas. If you don’t adopt such a behavior, then the hysterics of the little ones will be more frequent
- For the destruction of the fence. The skin vet has its own norms of behavior and rules. The stench may be far behind the discussion with the child.
- For navmisno bad behavior. Sometimes, they start manipulating grown-ups in school age. At such a time, it is necessary to explain and demonstrate to the children that the whirlwind process is your binding, and not rozva
- Until the early hours of the next, come more carefully. A great plus, as the father learns to accept the child's behavior without emotions. This same process is easier for all members of the family
How to punish a child for a filthy behavior?
The pedagogue has a lot of methods for early childhood care:
- Vikhovna conversation with the analysis of a thorough filling. The Danish method is found to be the most effective for the early age of children of different age. Only types of roses can be shaken. For example, speak in a non-verbal way with a child, as if with preschool children. At this time, Rozmov will not give a result
- Ignoring the little one. This way of early warning miraculously copes with childish tantrums.
- For example, revisiting the TV or walking with friends
- Allowance for material goods (for example, allowance for intestinal cats and gifts)
- Physical punishment
- Isolation of a child (for example, put it at the kut)
How to punish a child for bad grades
Pogniy assessments are like a stone stumbling between fathers and children. From one side, the stench can point to the child's lack of laziness. From the other side, they can tell you about the development of a baby in a different direction. The fathers are guilty of being put to the point of being a little kid and not vimagati in the sight of the impossibly.
- Razberіtsya after the appearance of filthy estimates. Possibly, I think it's not your child's fault. Perhaps, the new one had uneasy problems with the teacher
- Learn the strengths of the little one. Buvay, scho child takes bad grades in mathematics. Prote, the best among the class of English movies and other humanitarian subjects. To give respect to oneself when choosing a future profession
- Like a child, it’s nasty to get into the mind of the subject, to conduct a rozmov out of it. Singing, є factors, yakі zavazhayut yoma vchitisya
- It’s impossible to punish a child for a bad grade, otherwise you’ll be able to read it again
- Combine early warnings with anxious ones. Let's encourage the kids to start learning (for example, why don't you go to the sea, so you can finish the river without triplets)
Rules for the punishment of children
Sob the early punishment was not a stupid zhorstokist, the stench may be directing itself to the adoption of pardons of the behavior. Punishment in any case is not to blame for the peculiarities of the child herself. In case of punishment, the fathers of the goiter are tying up the existing rules:
- Do not punish the child at the stage of aggression. Might as well make the conflict worse
- The best vihovannya is a special butt. It is unreasonable to punish a child for those that you yourself rob
- Do not go to individuals
- Do not compare the child with others, you lower the self-esteem and the native child against the opponent
- All sim'ya can dorimuvatisya one line vihovannya. It is unacceptable that the mother allowed those who were protecting the father
- Take care of the good obіtsyanok and rules
- Before him, like punishing a child, discuss his behavior. Find out why you’re guilty by doing it yourself
- Skin punishment may end in reconciliation. Not a trace of drawing up the early warning for the trival hour
Vihovannya child without punishment
It’s impossible to get away as a whole. Tim chi use another method of killing the fathers to punish their children. And do not punish those who are absolutely baited up to the life of a little one. Prote, in the mind of the skin it is possible to sing to a minimum of punishment.
- Show patience and understanding. A child is such a specialty itself, like you. Skin yoga has a sensory filling. Try to understand the motives of the behavior of the little one. Todі pіdhіd up to the sky will know much easier
- Follow the rules of the law. For example, the rule is not to marvel at the TV until the completion of lessons and homework. Naturally, the child was again and again allowed to take it, so that they gave in to you. І having given up once, you can forget about the rule
- The whimsical process can be based on a special application. For example, it’s easy to pinch a child’s love before reading, so you can’t get your father out of a book in your hands
- Do not press on a child. Lay down the rules of conduct together
- Treat the child as special. Instill in a small child, there is a special character and temperament. It is especially necessary to vouch for the hour of vihovannya pidlіtkіv. Do not stand up to a child, like a baby
- Wish the child for good behavior and dotrimannya rules. However, the rest of the world can be. The child is not guilty of behaving well only for the sake of desire
- Share the interests of the little one, spend most of the time together. Like a child bachitime, what you need, she herself wants to make contact
Physical punishment
Psychology of physical punishment
Teachers of all countries have already brought the inefficiency of physical punishment. More than that, the stench is harmful to inject into the development of specialty and life habits.
- The physical punishment of the father is most often zastosovuyut for self-denial. Filthy moods, carelessness to give children respect - the main causes of physical punishment
- The child will not gain new skills for such early punishment
- Physical punishment leads to the fear of a child, the innocence of oneself. Malyuk stop trusting fathers
- Such reprimands carry the "post" of the child. With the physical pain of a child, it is not possible to respond in the same way, he should take revenge in other ways
- Physical punishment is already negatively injected into the family's blues
- The punishment for the physical plan is to bring up the problems of children on the stosunki with one-year-olds. Malya might become squeamish, not able to stand up for yourself. The second option is the zhorstok_st of children by maturity to one-year-olds, young children and creatures
How to unify the physical warning?
- Fathers and other members of this family are guilty of clearly understanding the inadmissibility of such punishments
- Sob not to go into physical punishment, fathers may learn other methods of punishment
- Buvay, scho fathers bring a physical influx on a child to the impossibility of "reaching out" to her. However, it is only a show of the intolerance of the fathers themselves.
- To know before the child pidhіd, it is necessary to understand yoga motives and goals. Just a little bit more you can make a baby with a baby
Naygolovnіshe - tse love for children and show your respect. Todi, the skin sim's will be healthy and harmonious in mutual.
Video: How to punish a child correctly?
Zishtovhuyuchis s tim, that the beloved child begins to properly pull the “dvіyki” and “triyki”, few who are mature enough to do it right, how can you correct the situation. The only correct solution, as you respect the greater fathers, is to lie on the surface: bark, that mustache is here! Marvel, otherwise you will try harder. It’s a pity that such a pidkhid is often brought up to a directly opposite result: a child, like a bark at what the world stands for the vipadkovo “dvіyka”, does not begin to read better, but on the other hand, it still starts the training, and for an hour you can become aggressive. The fathers, wondering widely, often begin to squeeze harder on the blue - what can you say, what is the best way to make the situation better?
From the other side, we must not give respect to the filth of the assessment of the child, it’s not possible - the child, who has become relaxed, mittevo zbagne, that the fathers have given up slack. Over the course of a year, it’s even more difficult to “re-read” such a child: even if you were born, you didn’t pay respect to your schoolboy’s student, but after an hour, you began to make a good badge from her, send out the signs of “hammering” on the child’s education. We did a little research and found out why it is impossible to bark at a child for bad grades at any time. You can find out about the reasons by reading our article.
The reason for the persha: estimates do not characterize a person
Estimates, like otrimu your child, can tell a lot about what, but not about those, what kind of person is right. To characterize the people, brutally respecting only on її assessments, more stupidly, but, unfortunately, the most sim "suffering" more fathers: in trying to remind the children of the stink in the air, start to win over your success with the achievements of such a leader. So porivnyannya zmushu child considers herself filthy (since she can’t reach the well that the hypothetical Vasya Ivanov has reached), you know the power of success. Laying your child only to the one that she took away inappropriately, to your thought, assessment, at any other time it is not possible for these reasons, that the assessment may not reflect the real knowledge: there are frequent falls, for example, if you really underestimate the grades of the boys, they didn’t immediately build (otherwise they didn’t build it, even though it’s not obov’yazkovo) pennies for class needs. Unfortunately, before the objective assessment of the health of the skin child, the greater scale is still farther and farther away, and to that, it is not varto to get hung up on the assessments: the good stench, however, does not show the effectiveness.
Reason for a friend: a child might think that you are less appreciated
Just thank the child for those who brought not even a good mark, otherwise, now, praise your child for the high result, the appointments of the child, є risk, what the child thinks, nіbi you no more school success. Be-like a child, you want to be a kohanoy independently, in order to make progress at school. Laying your child for the bad grades, you, obviously, can achieve what you can understand better. Tim is not less, you risk provoking the development of the so-called childish perfectionism in the child, or the boss's syndrome: if you take it easy, you will do it smoothly.
Reason three: barking a child for bad grades, you drive in motivation to study better
Chomus richly batkіv think that fear, like a child, being afraid to take a filthy assessment, a miraculous motivation, like a zmushuє read better. Possibly, in such situations, such a “motivation” and work, and every hour you will be able to watch low fives and fours from your student’s student. For good luck, or it’s a pity, for the most vipadkiv, threaten the fathers, they don’t do anything good: get better at reading the child, don’t get into trouble. It’s a pity, nayіmovіrnіshe, you happen to be able to predict the result, which is obvious from what you have seen: the child will simply destroy the excesses of motivation, as if you could have sponkati yogo better. In the early morning, we become stupid, mournful and navit shkіdlivim: we didn’t achieve what we wanted, but we still lost the already deplorable situation.
A child can be punished in the early days of the fathers for a filthy assessment, as we know, how to behave. Indeed, literate fathers should never show aggression at the age of their child, let them instill an unsuccessful one at school. That respectful grown-ups know: having stumbled upon aggression, child, and there are more children, you will immediately cry out in the callous world, and everyday you won’t fall on the new one.
Cover, but not all fathers are virulent to deep wisdom. Bagato mami go along the way reading notations, condemning those threats. The deyakі tata can beat their child for a filthy assessment, say unacceptable words and punish. Well, that's a wrong pidkhid. In this situation, a child with a butt can show the fathers the way out of the situation.
Explanation of reasons for failure
First, it’s necessary to work, if the bad grade is already showing off in the student, you should try to explain to the fathers the reason for the failure. Possibly, the topic was supposed to be foldable for a sprinyattya. Explain what they would have corrected for the sake of it, just to help them understand the subject.
Shirіst to create a diva, navit not with the wisest fathers.
If there may be a conflict between vikladachs, it is necessary to remind the fathers about it. If you are a mature person, you know how to bring your promptness smoothly, as if they cling to you or call them to ignore it. It is necessary to spread everything, like є. Imovirno, the reader is right to behave incorrectly, and it does not contribute to success. Let the fathers roam with the vikladach.
Damn self-consciously lowering respect and concentration. Yakshcho filthy assessment of vinyl in the wake of ailments, the fathers told about the nobility. The school program is getting stronger, and the health of today's children is getting better. In any case, a child is not guilty of a check for a bad assessment, as if she was sick, or she felt bad for herself.
Contact from fathers
In order to better understand and take away the satisfaction of the process, it is necessary to stop being afraid of litigation and punishment at times of failure. For whom it is necessary to establish contact with your fathers. It is necessary to introduce them to the course, tell them about their problems at school, share their feelings in the lessons.
Fear is not the best helper for progressing success.
One time to tell once a story about one's experience with the drive of a filthy badge, so that the fathers began to beat their children, stopped punishing and helped to finish school properly at the school. Only mutual contact from mother and that people to dovir. And dovira numbs the fear of retribution for the filthy assessment.