Family stosunki tse. Hits of Friendship Yaki vzaєmini in sim
Hello dear readers! Remember Tolstoy: everything happy family similar one to one, and the skin is unhappy - unhappy in its own way? The axis is alive, enjoying happy mites, trying to see the problems that have piled up, but not necessarily about the ideal house, don’t worry about it, yakі vzaєmini mayut buti have a normal sіm'ї.
And what to think about it, tell me? I understood everything - the characteristics of an illustrious sympathy to all goodness. Ale chi tse so true? I pronounce the misunderstanding that the harmonies are panting at your homeland.
Do not copy
There are no two absolutely identical families - and this is an axiom. I will become a great pardon to try to make a bachelor earlier at your family stoks. For example, repeat harmony stosunki at sim'ї Batkiv (read about those how to reach harmony ).
It’s quite possible that you chose a person, relying on the image and likeness of a father, and yet your person is not your tato, for that reason, exactly such a behavior is not varto. The principle of practice and in return bik- the squad will not be exactly like the mother of a man, if the woman is wise and will try to take the best kind of mother-in-law.
You are unique, and also, your family is not repeated, and therefore the stosunki in them cannot be typical. And all the same, it is based on the same criteria, established and supplemented rules and regulations , like a happy homeland
Dots dochiku
As a whole, for sure, look at the yakіs, speeches will not run. Navіt akshcho zadaetsya, scho mi marveling at the world is absolutely the same, the year of ob'yazkovo vyyavlyaetsya razbіzhnostі. But in a normal family, people are obligatory to know compromises and not to impose their partner on their partner.
Admittedly, you will love to spend your vacation in a sun lounger on an exotic beach, and wines - rafting on the mountain lakes and spending the night in the sky under the stars. Let's not weld together obov'yazkovo and spend the entrance okay, even if you can find an option that will fit the soul on both sides. For example, rent a chalet at a spa resort, de-lich relaxation program, and in parallel organize extreme tourist trips for restless guests.
Lineup of forces
How many times have you ever read, what is in an ideal family friend - equal in rights? And in how many pairs can you find something similar? I didn’t dare to guess the desired butt - for everyone, the role of the head of the family is either a man or a woman. And with whom the stench lives in absolute harmony.
It is important to talk about happiness in a specific way, even if people can say that they are all in power. But if the stench lived at once for more than a decade, then maybe, if one dominates the other, what is not the best option? І neobov'yazkovo namagatsya schodnya bring, hto in the hut lord. It’s better to work in such a way that your value is small for your sake, and the other half listened unanimously to them.
About Kokhannya
The assistants in psychology invariably hear the phrase: families are mutually based on the kohanna. Ale, it’s almost as if the floorings are bagatolike and minlive, and therefore, it’s not a fact that it will become the ultimate foundation of a normal family. And from dovira to the person and squads, in my opinion, richly arrogant, lower ephemeral comprehension kohannya, but I won’t swear on the trust here, but earlier I would have spoken even more familiarly with that report .
I’m uplifted, that your sharpened bet, like loving one to one “to Godville”, and you can see between them they are equal with a boiling saucepan - give the troch to the fire, it’s more like to squish over the edge, to scald quietly, to stand. I would not talk about the normality of their stosunkivs, if you want to marvel at them - to live for a while, nachebto, and not be cloudy.
Significantly, everything is manifested by us, yakі buvayut vіdnosini on the cob itself. Feeling stunted, that okrilyuє, literally vibivaє soil z-pіd nіg. It’s clear that heaven is dear and in smoking, but if you burn with kohanoy, it’s easy to burn. I miss the warnings of the grown-ups about those that reality is not as beautiful as the creations of ideals.
It’s a pity, it’s less possible for the loners to carry that thrill of youth, clouded mind and fever in the heart to deep old age. Sound the first suffocation, with diligent observation, it transforms into And I’ll buy other feelings, as they help to enjoy family life.
Tse i:
- mutually reasonable readiness to accept a person such as she is (about those how to turn around , duzhe honor the rajah );
- dovira, if there is absolute innocence in the other half, and there is no month;
- vіddanіst;
- The message is not only about children, but about a person (team).
In the rest of the day, it’s not just about spending money on shopping squads (that, in my opinion, having shown itself to be a turbot in a smaller world), but about butovі drіbnitsі. Robiti їх, it seems awkward: cover the legs of the squad with a blanket, prepare it to bring hot chocolate to the kitchen, without a scandal, wash the dishes. I for drіbnits do not need great earnings and superfluousness. It’s only a chance to bring satisfaction to the kohanіy people.
Falls - tse good chi nasty?
Who and whom can be deposited in a normal family? How to go about health spіvzalezhnosti , then it’s completely natural, if a person and a team lie down alone in one (read more about the fallowing of friends ). I zalezhnist tsya not only material. To talk about spiritual, physical closeness, if far away from native people you start to feel naughty, you literally don’t know your own place and you’ll see better order.
Іsnuє y іnsha staleness - if the bajannya of one is surrounded by the impossibility of their implementation. Often you read on forums and in social networks: “I can’t drink through financial scruples”, “I can’t move anywhere - I can’t live”, “I don’t let children in”. Through fallow land, people are brought to save their hats and drive in a little bit of wetness - it’s greedy. In the minds of such a stalemate, better for everything, there is no longer any talk of normal blues, but only of a way of survival. I virvatisya from such a full of even more smoothly.
I in the mountains, and in joy
A pair of skins on the cob of a friend's way promises to support one alone. So-so, that very oath "about grief and joy." Ale chi vdaєtsya її streamuvati? And it's important to add one more thing to the global food for the kshtalt choice of environment for the zamіskogo boudinka chi principіv vyhovannya dіtei, аіѕ dіbnitsі. Plich-o-plych is richly easier to podolat be-yak_ viprobuvannya.
Ideally, it would be good to discuss the decision on the family’s behalf, so that we could choose the right strategy and know the best option. And yet, as one of the sides of the world, for whatever reason, take a decision on one, varto raise courageous vchinok, even if a person automatically takes on himself the evidence, and the work can be far from leathery.
That important moment - help with my family zavzhd may act as a "united front" in the eyes of otochyuyuchih. So superchicks, so that what color will be a new car, or if you put it on a sawed-off old apple tree, so that you can talk to outsiders, then you are not guilty of turning into a “battle of the titans”.
What do normal Sims not have?
Among people who respect one another, there are especially blue ones, and there is no space in them:
- hard reconciliation: in peace - later, do not correct anything;
- phrases: otherwise, as I said (a), abo - n_yak;
- blackmail that mutual documents;
- self-denying one for a rahunok, imagine that humiliation of another;
- family scandals, more so in the presence of children than outsiders;
- shifting all butt shoes on the shoulders of one.
Skin family is a small social and psychological group, which is formed on the basis of deeply intimate and trusting relationships between friends, fathers and children. Її social activity, structure, moral-psychological atmosphere lie not only in deep minds and laws, but also in specific environments, in which sims are formed, live and function. The middle of these environments is the riven of enlightenment of the culture of the members of the family, the material setting, traditions and values, which stinks are built upon and are guided by in their life plans, that aspirations, place of living, social affiliation in those changes, morality why lay the building of this before the consolidation of that consolidation. All the surroundings inevitably overlay the character of the family's family, signify the specifics of the family's family.
The structure and functions of the sіm'ї. Sims are great and small. Today is my family in the largest country to lie down to the smallest. Great Sims Today, only the forms of their own federations of small people were saved. When is small friend of my family, as a rule, mіtsno pov'yazana z sіm'ami batkіv squads of that person, wanting young sіm'ї pіdtremuyut stosunki і z sіm'ami other relatives of skin s friends.
The average family includes 3-4 people, and the difference between the Russian and the rural families is insignificant.
The core of the skin sim'ї become a person, a team of those children. Often, fathers and friends live with them. A skin member of this family, peresbuvayuchi in the intercourse with the other members, playing a leading role in it, dbaє satisfac The peculiarities of the friendliness, the nature of the mutual relations between them determine the appearance of the same and the specifics of the implementation of the authorities' functions.
Collaboration in family safety and purposefulness should be made friends to achieve other goals that are important for family, as well as satisfaction of individual needs, special needs in spiritual closeness with a kohana person. In the course of such a conversation, the friends exchange hidden and meaningless information for them, they are more worried, more likely to understand one alone, they become richer intellectually and morally. Spiritual intercourse with friends is inextricably linked with intimacy.
Сім'я is a social and economic center, at the borders of which there is a home government and a budget of sim'ї, it is necessary to make money and organize the provision of various goods and services, to be satisfied with the needs of the zhі, odyazі, living lean. bud. Zdіysnennya tsієї gospodarskoї ї ї lyagaє lyagaє peredosіm on podruzhzhya. Let's take a deep volodinnya with professions all over the world guarantees a friend's salary, and for the sim'yam - prosperity.
The organization of cultural doswell is one of the most important functions of the family. The characteristic rice of family dosville is the atmosphere of special emotion, warmth, as it allows people to open up, be wide. Here the people in the middle are quiet, who knows well, understands and accepts such a way out (want and bazha, so that the way out has become a beauty).
Great is the significance of the divine function of this. At the same time, children are waving and waving. These functions, which are symbolized by the same, are superbly important and irreplaceable. This is not more about my younger members, but about older, older people. In this case, old people are guilty of being in the most comfortable minds. Batkam, what they demand, in old age and in times of disability, to have the right to take care of the dead children. Fathers are the natural guardians of their children. On them lie obov'yazok dbati about the physical development of children, as well as protect their rights and interests.
Under the representative function, one should understand the behavior “in the name and interests” of one’s contacts with the courts, the known, the school, the various community institutions.
The gateway “functions” is more beautiful than the shirsha of mutual friendship. Ale, the warehouse of functions for a particular school can be different depending on the stages of development of the mind and the specific minds of the mind. Nevikonannya with quiet chi іnshih funktsіy mоzhe і not be recognized on mіtsnostі shlyub, yakshcho to the singing form of activity they have spent іnterest of friends. Well, the interest was spent by only one and the next thing to spivpratsi, whether you don’t know the necessary advice, to show up as a dissatisfied partner, as a conflict.
Buvaє and so, that one or the other friend after the registration of the ship helps to save the hostility of the way of life. That is, most of the functions are overlaid with "not included". Shlyub u razі іsnuє less nominally.
The social nature of the functions of the sіm'ї. Sim'ya is one of the quiet social forces, which may have a significant impact on the life support practically in all spheres: from the economy to spiritual culture. The core of the social recognition of this is to create people, to develop strength and sustained activity, to introduce yoga in the community as a productive force, as an organic part of the people, class. The very same, according to the Program of the CPSS, "the foundations of the character of a person are being formed, її setting up to practice, the most important moral, ideological and cultural values."
Evidently, the skin of the skin of the family can take a part in the satisfaction of the needs of the suspresium only to the best of its ability. But all the same, at the same time, I am more than satisfied with them. In the person of their children, the fathers want to be mothers and make blue daughters, like the good bulkers of their land, the future practitioners and defenders. Vikonuyuchi functions of the people and the morning of children, sіm'ya take care of the kіlkіsne dvorennia of the population. With the proper rank of their blue daughters, the fathers take the fate of the splendid development of the population of the region. Through this activity, as F. Engels described it as "the vigor of the human being herself," he passes on to new generations the baton of sustained progress, zvіysnyuє zv'yazok chasіv.
Unfortunately, we are far from being aware of those that are truly colossal, as we can always implement the primary family functions for the future. More than that, sometimes it happens a little that I have lived for myself, that I can pray to get along without her. You can't get along with the cym. The signing of this meant the signing of a mortal to the ruler of that human susprestvu. Anti-science and immoral theorizing about the possibility of replacing this so-called "free" kohanny. Spravzhnya love(just love without a mark is “free”), being indistinctly connected with statements about special happiness, by itself it cannot be free, it is suvoro oriented towards the school, created by it. Zustrichi zakohanih, scho to live well, quickly give rise to a feeling of deep dissatisfaction and inexhaustible bazhanya zavzhd. Otzhe, skasuvannya sіm'ї, yak i, yak і replacement її, yak is necessary, but th is not possible. How to improve this and relieve її nedolіkіv - the axis is only acceptable and good food setting. The solution of this transfer to the full extent of family activities - in the process of implementation of family functions.
The significance of the special qualities of friendship, the establishment of that organization of family vineyards. Stan sіm'ї і, zokrema, її zurtovanist chi disintegration we are going to lie down in the form of special qualities of friendship, following them life principles, svetoglaznyh and moral attitudes. Do you blame the linkage for food, what is the specialty of the zokrem? Not everyone can speak to someone with sufficient clarity. The scientific intelligence has its own specialty - the totality of the stable socially significant authorities of a person. The values of power can be both positive and negative. Heads of them - svetoglyad, reconciliation, life plan and goal, vminnya accept that vikonuvat decision. These characteristics of specialness signify the primal straightness, and instill in the mind the cursing of oneself, with one’s own chives, spivvіdnosti їх іz zvnіshnіm svіtom. The necessary intellectual blame for the truth of the socialist sim'ї є naukov, Marxist-Leninist thought is both friendly, to the socialist character of their special features. For the sake of justice, it should be said that among the radyansky hromadas people are gathering, as if they are following the principles of morality alien to us. Even though they can appear stable, but with their main function - to be an absolute center of the socialist society - they cannot vikonati. Here, zokrema, they toil on uvazi sіm'ї, orientated on materialism, "beautiful life" rahunok unearned dzherel income, such, let's say, as a victorian of a service camp with a method of making money, speculation, drіbnі and great embezzlement in the enterprises of the swamps, kolgospakh . Representatives of Tsich Simey Nervikko praise his “practical”, “vminni lives”, ale of the namesake of Svit, yak ї їkhnіkh siemayyn, bidniy, I in Kintsevo Tony Zzhzhdi for “beautiful people” in the same way. 'ї, special tragedies and tragedies of children. In quiet moods, if you are light-eyed, ideologically look at your friends (otherwise, if you want to make friends), you are not crazy, like a stalk of the middle of the Suspіlstva not vinikne. Vіdmіnіst іdeologii zumovlyuє raznitsiyu prіznіtsyu, tsіley, іdеаlіv, аnd, і rіznіtsiu vchinkіv, povedіnki, scho vede to absurdity і navit vorozhostі. The right approach between a man and a woman, if different light-seeing installations are supported, it is possible only with one of them, or both of their cob positions.
An important meaning for family friends may be morally friendly. Remember to understand something else, (tolerance, respect, kindness, tact, spontaneity, and so on. ї, building buildings
Making friends with the same or, accepting, similar positions are brought to moral norms and values - such as jealousy between a man and a woman, mutual support, justice, obov'yazok, good faith in front of them and suspіlstvo just. Be-yaké standing by someone alone, only raising the foundation of their stosunkiv.
The high special features of the members of the family, the organization of the meetings of the Radian family, convey that high political culture. There is a thing, which makes them interested in political podia, active participation in the sustainable life of their labor collectives, schools, districts, which is irreconcilable to the bourgeois ideology. Bazhano, the reading of newspapers, magazines, suspense-political literature ended with a discussion of what was read at the native country, an exchange of thoughts. The grown-up members of this family are responsible for giving the correct assessment of the change of radio or television programs on a political topic. Such a world is built to resist the worldly strengths, to calm psychology, to give a bulky straightening to the family saints.
Even more important oriental power of specialness and building to take that decision. Like a day, a thought, a reconciliation, life becomes declarative and cunning, and specialness becomes undesirable, infantile. The reasons for such peculiarity are impulsive and untranslatable, and it is impossible to try to cope with it. Acceptance of gratitude, pov'yazuvati z thoughtkoy іnshoy ї і і vykonuvati obґruntovanі і shenya і dlya vyroblennya, svіroblenny tsіleі і planіv іn'tіvnі і mother's boє. Even if one of them does not show his strength, these harmless things become unscrupulous and unsafe for those who do this with him.
Great significance for a person can also be acquired by legal and moral norms that govern in family, the role of a man and a squad, a father and a mother. Assimilation of these norms is the development of a slightly obov'yazku. At the same time, out of will, that love befriends, fathers, and other members of this family, exactly and unskillfully win their shoes.
The moral basis of high culture is the interplay between friends of ours and we are put in front of them as a partner, as before an equal partner. More precisely, it is necessary to recognize a partner in the club, on the one hand, to see to yourself that you can use your own interests and interests, and on the other hand, to equal yourself, to merit for such a decision, such assessments, you yourself respect that person in your own house).
Skin friendships want to be mother like this, beyond the borders of which all inacceptability is lost, so, you can calmly repent, gain strength, take care of children’s self-illumination, thinly self-illumined. Ale, such a family needs to be remembered, vrakhovuuchi with whom all the features make friends with those other members of the family.
Speaking about the improvement of the family, the fullness of life among friends, one cannot underestimate the physical sight of a friend's life. It’s a smut here for the fact that physical closeness gave outside satisfaction like people and squads.
In order to ensure the safety of the sіm'ї, it is also important є vminnya її її mem- bers to improve the state's activity. Friendship is not guilty to be afraid of pobutu. Pіdpriєmstva pobutovuvannya service and pobutova tekhnіka not skasovuyut home pratsyu, but only easier її. Making friends, you can serve yourself: cook food, keep cleanliness in your life and victorious work. So that the mother has prosperity for the family, to successfully lead the home state, making friends, and wanting to be able to work together. Without prosperity, that satisfaction with reasonable needs is important to show a happy family. However, material security is not the head, the only mental family happiness, but spiritual values are in the foreground.
Sim'ya becomes more and more, henceforth, more and more after the appearance of children. Having become a father and mother, to be the closest relatives of a child born to them, the fathers never argue and be with themselves. For this sensei, the people of the child have a special mark of their own. Mіtsnu sіm'yu children are right to shy away more mіtsnіshim. Prote sproba zmіtsniti sіm'yu, scho fell apart, for the people of the children - an experiment of risking.
In order to ensure successful functioning, the skin needs to be deeply acquired by the skin friends of its functions and obov'yazkіv - the friends of that mother, the man and the father. The skin of friends is to blame for the mother of the necessary knowledge, to turn it into a partner, to gain that will, to acquire the roles of norms (moral and legal) and, nareshti, learn to win over their creativity beautifully. With this, the will, as a special kind, ensures the transition from knowledge to the establishment to the activity, which has become the implementation of functions. The helpless squad, man, fathers, it’s not enough to work for the good of one alone, children and that’s all. At the shortest time, they will stink for impersonal rights, not being able to complete their life.
Kokhannya - not only words. This is why we are in front of the vchinki, which show respect, lowness, turbota, spivperezhivannya. And such skins bring a little satisfaction.
The most important areas of stosuvanya aesthetics and creativity in the world. lived that yoga environment, clothes, individuals of that position, members of this family, their language and thoughts. Here it is verbatim to guess the words of A. A. Chekhov to the one who can do everything perfectly with people. Vihіd rіven mіstetstva vimagає the transition from simple vminnya to majsternosti. And maistri revitalizes the building of children beautifully (aesthetically) and creatively. It was reasonable, in front of young friends, to stand on the back of the head to get on the rivulet of a sufficient amount of money, as if to look like a starting point for further development forward to wealth, perfection and beauty of the mind. Postiyne vdoskonalennya vіdnosin mizh podruzhyam є є single way to prevent їhnоgo mіhіrshennya. And the more perfected the blues, the more likely it is to have the last traces of the special qualities of friendship. Family vіdnosini - tse links between the members of the family, yakі vyyavlyayutsya through the nature of the ways of mutually exclusive vzaєmodії, through the infusion of the members of the family one on one for joint activities and that splkuvannya. The basis of family vіdnosin є іdeynі ambush friends, їх zhittєvі tsіli, moral norms and values, almost, what they say to make friends, as well as their moral values.
In a small family of blues, it’s easier on one side (less thoughts and interests), and on the other side, it’s more important, because with insufficient depth, the development of special features of friends and blues tends to be more confused, confused, psychologically not intensified.
Look at those thoughts, bazhannya and interests of a person and squads to come to each other with mutual cooperation in the process of fostering children, conducting home government, conducting dosville, in an intimate life, with economical security of family. And here the stench is either supplemented or counteracted. That is, if in the process, whether it’s work around the house, if you see something, look at those thoughts that make friends, it’s necessary to calmly calm down that call of insulting thoughts and know the right decision. For important people, the year can be reached for additional help. If nutrition is not important, then housekeeping can have such a character: today it’s your way, and tomorrow it’s mine.
Fully in the middle family blue spriyat universal development of special, її moral, spiritual and physical perfection. It’s important to that, as if the work will be organized in the family, the training, to which the permit is dedicated, on how to make friends with those and who are friends in them, how to set up a person and squad to material and spiritual values, how to stink and choose to vihovate their activity.
The correct organization of family activities comes from the fact that the family is a collective, not just a “bag”, a warehouse like a person, a squad, a child, but a whole, non-robust system. For such an organization, it is important that the formation is felt, which reflects the understanding of "mi". For the obviousness of such formation, making friends or children, representing themselves, do not seem “I”, but seem “mi” (we say, we want). The family collective is distinguished by the emotional closeness of all its members, by mutual distance one for one, by the independent autonomy, by the independence of the outer swell, by the mutual understanding and by the mutual support. The whole team, in which the centuries and the state of the peculiarities of the skin member are protected, de shows the maximum turboti one about one, deciphering that understanding one one. AT modern sim'ї we are valued by us in front of її dovircha, calm atmosphere, good-naturedness, warmth, feeling, understanding. It is smart as a change of recognition of the blue sky (from the economic middle of the wines it transforms into friendship-friendship), so at the pace of modern life, that they will sooner. And yet, this will not be a right team, as the members of the group will not unite progressive goals, so, for example, like the teaching of children by the right radyansky hulks, the full members of this team in their professional right, spiritually that ї.
Vidpovіdalnіst for the organization and morning of family life are both. Life shows that the optimal model of family life is that de power is fairly divided between both friends: one panuє in one sphere of family life, the other - in the other. There are few such families, de povnistyu panuє cholovik chi team. As such, the camp does not provoke conflicts between friends, but it is rightful.
One of the progressive trends in the development of modern family life is the democratization of family life, so such a principle of organizing family activities, for which security is active, is established that the equal share of the other members of the family is
Spiritual intercourse with Sims. One of the main functions of the modern day radian's family is the satisfaction of the emotional and spiritual needs of a person. In the given hour, the vimogi to the union, the companion of life, significantly moved up. In the midst of showing a happy friend, one of the first places is occupied by the spiritual harmony of a person and a team.
Forms of spiritual intercourse among them. The Take of Spikavannya is in the normal, with a lifesaver of the member of the post, the post -person stars, put on the naked lives of the principles of the radical problems of Life, the mutuality of the merciful, read the captivity of .
The moral basis of the culture of spiritual intercourse between friends is the reason for that equality. Only friendship, based on mutual respect and equality, can bring satisfaction to those close to them. In the course of such an intercourse, one should begin to think of one alone, forgive the rubbish, stick to the individual features of the skin, improve oneself, one’s own interplay with other people.
Decisions, how to accept a person and a team after a calm and universal discussion of the most important food of the life of the family, as a rule, are rational. At the sight of the splintering of the “above”, you always carry in your own mind the unreasonable one of the one, generate conflicts, deform the moral world of the world. It is impossible to bring a little satisfaction like this, it’s impossible to bring a little satisfaction, to build up love, to grow your own.
A friend of a man has a form of a wife (dislike) of a woman, and a woman of a friend (dislike) of a person. These are real mutually and are the result of the fact that the stinks were killed one by one.
Lyubov, the spiritual closeness and bonding of the fathers is one of the main virtuous factors, the emotional basis for the development of children in the family. If father and mother love one alone, most of all, I will take away the child. Nіyakі pedagіchnі come scho nepromozhnі zapovniti vpliv kokhannya on ditini.
At the modern family, most of the time the children mate with their mother. Itself from it, sound, the dovirchі vіdnosiny are formed, the main life of food is discussed. However, for children, it is no less important to talk to the father. The more often the father clashes with the child, the more emotional bonds become closer, and the sooner the father gets to watch over him, the stronger and the greater the yogo batkivsky feel.
It has been established that the more the father spends more time in conversation, playing with children, then the children develop more quickly. On the other hand, it has been brought to light that children, having the opportunity to communicate with fathers or with one of them, may increase their sensitivity, see the difficulties in making good contacts with their fellows. Serious insecurity in the development of a child is a bezemotsіyne, navit povnotsіnne, satisfaction of yogo physiological needs for an one-hour short period of splurge, affection, warmth, kind words. Tilki postiyne spіlkuvannya batkіv іz ditya spryає stavlennyu deep emotional zv'yazkіv, pozdzhuє mutual joy.
Love between fathers and children is given by nature itself, love that povaga between a man and a squad, stosunki with other relatives is the result of mutual zusil. Sims don't have two worlds - grown-up children, and one world for them. Whether it's a broken connection between generations of family basements, it negatively affects the moral atmosphere. Moreover, if the representatives of the older and middle generations are disrespectful, unkind to one to one, if they are often irritated or gloomy, then like a hard diplomatic line, they didn’t make a child like that, to protect the world, all the same, hurt the gloom of the gloom. . Well, when you join one with one, the generations of Sims show tact, wisdom, do not promote tone, call on the care and thought of other members of the Sim, spare the vanity of one alone, experience grief and joy in peace, then people gather together.
By the protyag of a friendly life, the intensity of the splintering is pulsating. Psychologists vvazhayut, scho family life more friends є sip and vіdlivi. On the cob the stench is insipid, short, then they can podzhuvatisya, pogliblyuvatisya (if you want, in the opinion of psychologists, the more friendly the cohanna, the less graceful to the colivan).
In the period of emotional stress, conflicts are blamed on them, and the differences become sickly in character. In the middle season, the tide lasts up to 3-6 months. And it’s important to sound the cold period of cold weather for the sake of understanding and to make it possible for you to do yoga with the least expenses.
Splikuvannya changes to the skin stage of the life of the family. The cob of family life is the period of the most blissful joys, and often strong deceitfulness. Having taken a hat, a young man and a girl often carry the same difference, often ignorant statements about ideal friendly women and, trying to realize them in their family life, arranging the pictures one by one. Psychologically, it’s worthwhile one to one at a time, it’s even more important to remember to forgive other people, be kind and respectful, generous and tolerant, be kind and indulgent, pragmatic understanding of others, adhering to the amazing.
Significantly changes the nature of the conversation at the hour of the people of the child. At this stage of family life, the psychological and physical pressures of making friends increase, their recognition activity changes, life quickly rushes back home, the mass of additional turbot just appears. etc., whoever has spiritual connections is weak - may be strong.
In this period, it is especially important to be correct in this splintering, which is based on reasoning, tact, justice, and mutual respect for the hour of rozpodіlu numerical family turbot.
From the bride, like in the right way, you can take away the joys of joy, you will invest more money in the new. Building up to spilkuvannya - on the right, vihovannya that self-studying, work, yakіy may dedicate their strength and man and team from the first days of a sleeping life. The disintegration of this begins, if the conflict transforms into a duel of self-love, if emotions take the mountain over the mind.
The results of the study allow us to see typical pardons in the relationship of friends, which negatively affect the nature of mutual relations in the family:
75% women, 72% men rarely go first to
40% women, 51% people rarely praise and praise
47% of families are not taken to respect
45% of women constantly put people at the butt of other people, 60% - criticize people at the presence of known and relatives;
55% of the families of friends do not have a professional.
them problems one to one, 20% friends do not say anything
about your job at home.
It is possible to hide pardons from splkuvanni in sіm'ї, reaching the existing rules:
With a friend, you can’t pragnate to supremacy;
It is necessary to unify dokorіv, zvinuvachen, skarg, destroyers
them for friendly contacts;
The ailment of splintering begins to develop, if you make friends
zamikayutsya in sobі, if the words, scho vymagayut negai vіd
a veto, a pose of respect;
It’s even more important to remember the cursing with your mood, bazhano
to please them with the interests of those close to you
people, pragnut dolat us in front of your weaknesses,
cherish the main values, as they bring friends together,
and pay at once those who rose up;
For a successful conversation, it’s important to be generous with kindness
words and vchinki (fakhivtsy brought that good-natured
people in the middle lshvut 6-8 years old, lower rozdratuvannya
tіlnі, baked or perebuvayut prignіchenoy with
parking):
The joy of intercourse is impossible without constant exercise
fit one to one.
The spіlnіst of spiritual life conveys the family's experience of all possible mental states. The prote culture of splintering helps to reach the world a little. It is not possible to shift one’s negativity on the shoulders of a person or a squad. Particularly unacceptable without interruption is a thread, a demonstration of one's complete bezporadnost. This kind of person (team) really becomes the only child in the family, which gives rise to new problems. Not a skin person is visibly nastirlivist, intrusive, despotism. Only one psychologically viviren way of building to lead to a militant union of friendly parties - next plan everything: an hour, pennies, strength, but for us ahead - the joy of family splintering, more out - the best manifestation of family happiness.
Vzaєmini young friends with their fathers. From the moment of creation of their own fathers for young people, they seem to be transferred to another plan. Tse is natural. New turboti, hostility, prospects, a new social role of a person and a team - all aimed at young people with great vantage - we will accept that important one hour.
In the optimal variant, the youngsters after the wedding can make a living and live independently. The stench is beginning a new one, its own life, like to lie in the way of life of the fathers. In such a time, young people greet women with fathers, looking at one and the same. The moral basis of vodnosin between young people and their fathers is the reason for that love. I’ll make friends with the young people to keep the memory of the matir that father, how they grew up and swung them, show a turbota about them, rejoice with respect, don’t forget to celebrate the day of the people, with the saints, give the necessary help.
It is necessary to remember about the appearance of new relatives. For the sake of expanding the current stake, making friends with your social status, gaining new close friends and, if possible, in the guise of new friends. New homeland links can be clearly indicated in the inner vіdnosinah young, zmіtsnyuvati їх. Acquaintance and support of contacts with relatives of a person (druzhina) allow more knowledge about himself (herself), which also brings young people closer, helping to better understand one another.
Fathers, їhnіy zhittєviy dosvіd podpomozhut young couples to overcome moral and psychological difficulties, to know the right way in a folding situation. Listen to your mother, dad, mother-in-law, father-in-law, just don’t call. The fathers are guilty of giving their due tactfully, correctly, not imitating the young with their superiority, not speculating on the superiority of a mature age, but in critical situations - be far-sighted and wise.
If young people, after laying down, are brought to live in the same living area, then they are camping, from one side, feel better, and from the other side, in such a situation, they can be blamed for additional folding. The fathers, who live peacefully, take on a part of the state's turbot, that I will make friends more than an hour for the well-being of enlightenment, advancement of qualifications, and conduction of permits. Ale, postiyne spіlkuvannya young bet with fathers can create numerical results for conflicts, if the culture of spіlkuvannya is not high, if it is different statements about life values, look diametrically at vikonannya family roles. Doslіdzhennya to note that the "tension" is often blamed on the older woman (father-in-law, mother-in-law) and the new member of the family - the bride, the son-in-law. Like a mother does not want to be happy with her son? Ale w qiu metu maє i young squad (bride). even though we know that in the current sim'ї we need a benign atmosphere. A young man, bachachi this year, that rose between the retinue and his mother, be radiant to him. But the situation will be unbearable, if you are metatimed between dissatisfied squads and images of your mother.
Vіdnosini mіzh mother-in-law and son-in-law can also be folded. For such a young man, with words and words, it is necessary to show the mother of the squad the warmth and pride of his feelings for the young squad.
Sleepy life with the fathers often confuses the situation, if everything that happens among friends, becomes a blessing to the motherland. It's good, like a bezkhmarni stosunki. In times of conflict, it is recommended to a young friend to overcome yoga skills without the presence of relatives. The information of third parties to the regulation of a controversial situation can be brought to a protracted review. Therefore, relatives are guilty of being admitted only for the sake of making friends and at times, even though they themselves cannot make it.
Family ethics and etiquette. The concepts of ethics are completely similar to victorious in the meaning of morality, family morality and are viewed as an assessment of the vihovannosti of the members of the family and the moral climate of the family as a collective.
Young people who have loved one and laid down their hats, trust one to one with their own biological and social risks, like stench in the presence of other people, begin to grow together at the same time with that intimate nourishment. Croc after crocodile in splicing, their individuality is manifested in all manifestations (failures, weaknesses, joys, thinness). It is important at any stage of family life to save the mindfulness of the spontaneity of one alone, and to whom it is possible to take only the temple of the moral wilting of the skin of friends, their special qualities: modesty, tactfulness, litter, stinginess, darkening thinly. At this point, the same etiquette will help young people to create traditions. , that creak with sim'yu, grow life in nіy radish, beautiful.
Etiket - tse zvedennya sing rules of conduct, adopted by the society an aesthetic form to show the moral and psychophysiological essence of a person. Vin manifests itself in various areas of human interaction. Іsnuyut zagalnolyudski norms of etiquette. For example, he extended the suspensions to people and women, grown-ups and children, the implication of such rules, like dbailing a person to a zhіnki, shanoble - to the elders, dbailive - to the young. The high-moral nature of the radyansk people has the beauty of the vchinkіv and the manner of the creak, among those of the sim'ї.
The culture of a person can be mentally subdivided into internal and external; under the “internal”, which is the main one, they understand morality, “outward” conveys the beauty (aesthetics) of behavior. Offenses from the culture of mutual understanding and mutual confusion, the stench can harmoniously complement one another. Kokhannya as the basis of the slyub does not tolerate any falsity. It’s not surprising, but the absolute smoothness and voluptuousness of the water between friends is not only a guarantee of a good feeling, but you can also talk about the protilezhne - about the daily kohanny. Loving people they can cross, look, be smoky, the stench can be different. But everything can be expressed in such forms, as if they would not belittle and would not show anything else. It’s quiet, who loves, you’ll be guilty on an equal and healthy basis. As a rule, the woman is the spirit of the family, and the man can be an active creator, which will help him both vikonati conceived.
The family etiquette is conveyed to serve one's own interests with the interests of other members of the family. The basis of yoga is kindness to all members of the family.
Simeina etika vmagaє podtremuvati high authority of his own family with those who know and feel. Merit for the praise of the old Russian family tradition do not reproach a person in front of relatives, not in front of strangers, do not expose your negativity for show^ show the authority of a person and among children, and among the minds of others. They were forever afraid of mockery from the side of those who were slandering and slandering themselves, they were unique, only those who merited praise and praise were blamed on people. At once, the deacons forget about those who rather do not blame their own strife, welding at a blatant glance, needing to be ashamed of vlasno nevyhovannosti, unstriking, evil vdacha. Behave with goodness, calmly, protect your honor, and your family - make friends up to your guilt. Family ethics that etiquette can be based on reason, goodness, beauty.
Conflicts with her. Without a middle reason for conflicts between friends, call out the inconsistency of one of them, or both could have a way like this, the invisibility of making friends with one another (including the insanity of characters), ruinous innocence.
Behind these common non-intermediate reasons lie groups of specific reasons. Zahalna (total) inapplicability to the slubu, vikonannya roles of a person or a friend of mine in alcoholism, persistent malicious behavior of one of the friends, which is far from hisism, materialism, spontaneity, fanatical religion. In all activities of this kind, the specialty is zhorstically oriented towards achieving such goals, or by winning the achievement of goals, which are fundamentally incomprehensible with a hat.
Not to be able to support a slave can be the power of the person’s special power - spiritual inadequacy and moral inconsistency, the inability to lead a home state, or to earn money necessary for the family and others. Such a short skin can be blasted like this. And so, the traces of a complex of psychic characteristics, which are called inanimate, are attracted to you, if all the friends of one friend are independent from those aspects of action, criticism and osmiyanyu are criticized.
The meanings of the last names also call for marriage knowing from quiet chi іnshih food, from which sіm'ya sticks, unimportantly placing a partner in the slub, the absence of viable deaths, lack of will, schilnіst to the opposite manifestations.
The invisibility of making friends with one another is also possible, if the skin of them has a friendly role in the building of the viconate, but it is not possible to be in a given love, with your partner. The invisibility of Yogo is completely manifested in the inconsistency of the peculiarities of making friends, or of their special powers (svetoglyadіv that reconnaissance, life goals and plans), the unpredictability of acquiring spilnі splnі svіnі і sріvpracsіuvati vykonenі. Невідповідність має місце за неможливості чи серйозної утрудненості спільного задоволення деяких потреб (наприклад, духовного спілкування за відсутності спільних інтересів чи різкому відмінності у рівнях розвитку), за наявності несумісних уявлень у тому, якою має бути сім'я, які мети шлюбу та способи реалізації.
With the butt of a ruinous splendid injection, you can buti, zokrem, vtruchannya at the top of the blue, making friends with their fathers and relatives. It’s especially unsafe for young women, if the family is young, without a good material base, living with the fathers of a man’s squad. The vtruchannya batkiv often calls out a sharp reaction - we are forwarded from the side of that person, who came to the qiu sim'yu. Xing chi daughter, naturally, shows great readiness to follow the orders of the fathers. The difference in reaction to the vtruchannya batkiv often appears as a wedge, which provokes conflicts, progressively splitting the blue between young friends.
Conflicts can be blamed as a result of a surge of negative emotions, called out by a vicious drive, otherwise, if superficiality between friends can be real behind them. In the first place, a calm sounding of a deed camp with distant vibra- tions for ungrounded ringing can result in a conflict. In life, there are fluctuations, if there are causes for a conflict, as a result, they get into trouble, no, or it won’t be significant, or it’s bogged down, and welding, which was tribal, and scandals overtook the heat of the heart, making friends with strangers.
Well, it’s really worthwhile to stand behind the conflict, the traces of us in front of us lie ahead of our nature. In the event of a significant or significant inconsistency, befriending one of them or one of them, as an institution, seems to be dead-born, or we are said to be. For the same time, we explain the breakdown of a significant number of families in the first days, these days, or the months of a sleeping life of friendship. Such a legacy can cause serious incompatibility when making friends with one person alone.
Some say that the science and technology revolution had a history of family conflicts in the sphere of stressed virobnicheskih vіdnosin. For such an approach, the aggressivity of the sim is taken as a legacy of a stressful state, which has become one of my friends on the robot. Often it is so. Stressful camp becomes settled, zokrema, as a result of conflicts between the workers and comrades at the foremen's collectives. Not less often, stresses are born and are overcome by an unacceptable moral and psychological climate in the family itself. As soon as at home you check new inaccuracies, claims, proofs, then stresses become superimposed one on another, accumulate, and the number of family conflicts sharply increases.
At the link with zim vinikaє zapitanya: and why do I make friends to share among myself with my difficulties? Chi not to lie on the skin їх shackles "trimati your inacceptability with you"? No, not next. The complexity of the spiritual life conveys the complexity of the experience of possible mental states. The culture of splintering means less than to understand the world. In the best way zapobіgannya ruinous influx of psychic tension on the blue among friends є control over oneself.
Often in this conflict on the intimate ground. Navit simply baiduzhist retinue to intimate closeness sound є weakening this factor. A person is often opined in the position that he asks or to inspire closeness, which allows the squad to “get on the pedestal”. From the height of this p'edestalu out, stalely in the mood, or go to the person, "happy" yoga, or more strongly pinning yoga "worthless claims." Do not know the details of friendships? sometimes it’s impossible to understand why the squad, as if in a flash, are not struck by a special mind, or beauty, so unimportantly marvel at their richly gifted person. Feeling the wetness of a person, they are constantly injured, which step by step lower the temperature in the booth, cool the stoks.
The situation is not less conflicting, as the team is aware of the physical closeness of the guard. The same friendly bed appears for her at the same time for the month of tortury. The guardianship before the act of intimacy is transferred to the person who needs it. The first woman is either alive with clenched teeth, with a sense of fasting sacrificing herself (with fear of self-esteem, with a sense of a shackle in front of children), or inflamed with stately life. In skin cases, the consequences of this symptom are tragic. Such are the consequences of the unhappiness of a person to please the squad.
Vіdminnіst thoughts, conflicts, superchicks - everything is natural and for the best vіdnosin. Ale, you can resolve conflicts with two ways: either from the position of kindness, if on the first plan you stand more headily - the garne of setting and less sweat - is the truth, or by welding, if you don’t pan with kindness and not truth, but tearing, pragmatic, standing up for yourself. The one who gets up on the path of welding is fundamentally wrong, the one who gets good stance. For there is truth in this - the very kindest stosunki, and where there is more than a mitt's rightness. Welding doesn't allow conflict, but fires yoga. I rozuminnya tsgogo - the outer stone of family culture.
In order to save love, it is necessary for the young to make friends with the culture of the super girl and the height of the conflict, which lies in the mind, from one side, arguedly defend your thought, not moving the voice and not showing the partner, but from the other side, in the mind, recognizing the rightness of the other, from one side right. At the same time, it is not possible to “go over to the specialty”, to go into mutual resonance and then more image. Make friends with each other, do not succumb to negative emotions, do not forget about the honor one to one, remember that in front of the skin of them it is necessary not to “impact on your own”, not to try to be some kind of price of victory in superechtsi, but to establish the truth , accept the volume of the Solution. For whom it is important, not only respectful, to hear what others are saying, and learn to understand yoga, but to put yourself in the right place, listen to good arguments of yoga with your ears. Nareshti, more importantly, readiness to give up one to one, drink to a compromise.
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Vzaєmini at this child's rich in what they attribute to their future behavior, the character of intercourse and success, to the fact that the garnet of that filthy installation of the child, first for everything, is recognized by the child.
Tipi mutually with a child
Influx of fathers on the specialty of a child is described and vindicated by psychologists to file a report. The stench could see 4 gallant types in mutual fathers - children in sim'ї:
- Indifferent;
- authoritative;
- authoritarian;
- liberal.
So che іnakshe, аlе аlе аlєmіnі mіzh іdіtmі аnd grown-up children vіdbivatimutsya і on vаєminah z grown-up children.
The system of vihovannya from the sіm'ї yakі zavzhdі svіdomlyuєtsya batkami. In addition, she is rooting for a change in what is permissible and unacceptable for a child, she is guilty of pursuing goal-directed methods and goals of vihovannya. The reason for the mutual relationship between a child and a child can be:
- Spivrobitnitstvo;
- Nevtruchannya;
- Hyperopia;
- Dictation.
Under the dictates of mutual children, those grown-ups will be regularly humiliated, almost like a damp child, smothered by thoughts and initiatives. Such a blueprint cannot be compared with the method of vihovannya chi norms of moral behavior. Most of the time, the plea is spitting with violence, at the commanding tone with the support of the child. At the vise on the side of the batkiv children, at their cherga, they give counterarguments - rudeness, deceit, hypocrisy. Hatred towards one's fathers is the last thing in the world of reaction in the mind.
The other side of the medal - if the child’s opir is still going to be evil, then you can turn into him, that in the new year of the evil the specialty is without a touch of goodness, such important qualities are spared, like self-reliance, self-sufficiency in one’s own. You can say with confidence that the failures of such people in life lay the foundation and lay the foundation for dictatorial vihovannia in children.
Hyperopeka transfers in such a way to each other with a child; Whether it’s a scammer, that pozhannya, the children are shvidko vykonuyutsya, and she herself doesn’t apply the usual zusil to them. Often such stosunki are bought by families, the child is single or dovgoochіkuvan. Tsіlі high spirits at the process of vihovannya, the task of satisfying the needs of children is taken into account.
In case of hyperopia, mutually between children and grown-ups lead to the fact that children are insufficiently or, therefore, unprepared for an independent, grown-up life. And as in childhood, manifesting that can be minimal, then in pіdlіtkovu vіtsі the frequency of sightings in this category of children is higher.
Nevtruchannya, so the tactic of vihovannya vyznaє admissibility and necessity of an independent parenting of grown-up children, moreover, neither of them, nor the others, go over the mentally determined line. Fahіvtsі vvazhayut, that in the basis of such mutual modality in this family there is the passivity of the fathers like vihovatelіv.
Spivrobіtnitstvo in vzaєmovіdnosinakh buvaє for the minds of common goals and the task of fathers and children, for the obviousness of common interests and the duty associated with them. Only for such minds it is possible to repair his childishness among the natives with their mothers and other relatives.
Injecting the mutuality of the sim's into the behavior of the child
Whether the child’s behavior will be adequate or inadequate, why is it rich in which they are recognized as mutual partners in the family. Types of them lie down:
In this case, the fathers are constantly smacking and slandering, setting higher goals and goals, the children show low self-esteem, resulting in unsatisfactory and filthy moods. So the child's behavior becomes inadequate to the objective situation.
On the other hand, inadequacy can be manifested in a seemingly dependent self-esteem, if the child is constantly praised, and if it is possible, it is shown even softly.
The result of the child's growth is such that the fathers wielded it in the childhood.
People’s wisdom wanders as much as possible: this is a small country, in which PAPA is the president, MAMA is the minister of finance, the minister of health protection, the minister of culture and super-extreme situations in the family. CHILDREN - all the people, which constantly vimage, that power strikes are overwhelmed. As it seems, there is a grain of truth in skin heat. How true is the formula of family stosunkiv to be suitable for most people, why is it not so obvious, how can we? І what is the characteristic of the mutual sym' y razі bude reference?
It seems that the skin of happy families is unhappy in its own way. And even though it is true, it is necessary to find out the characteristics of family relationships, the zavdyaks like we see ourselves in the number of our relatives, calmly and harmoniously. Prote, maybe, in a different way. Buvayut depressions, if people, calling to become the closest, become the causes of constant stress and dissatisfaction with life.
Different characteristics of the family's sins, as between friends, so between fathers and children, just think of the place. Understanding the mechanism of їхної гії а having understood, with whom, having looked at each other, the problematic family has been taken, you can try to know how to solve the problem.
Characteristics of family relationships
What characteristics are mutually shared with Sims?
We can see 7 main types and skin characteristics of okremo:
Traditional family
Tse idealny type vzaєmin. Vіn dosit harmony and yogo the main characteristic is stability. Here panuє love, povaga that porozuminnya. Making friends with one in the looks of life. It is impossible to say that in such families there are no differences, but all shortness and beauty here are smoothed out calmly and on mutual satisfaction. Such blessings for each other and the squad are the result of such a deep march of one and one turboti. Similar to this, most of the time, the reasons for this are impersonal. Golovna is a positive example of this, in which the future friendship has grown. As the statistics show, the child, as it grew up with the full family, de love and happiness, it is supposed to project this way in return for your future family.
Naturally, what was more desirable, that in their families the characteristic in mutual was the same, as described above. However, it is far from dermal. It's a pity, the traditional family, like a view in exchange for a clean look, the daedals grow closer.
Batkivsko-children
If one is friends, it doesn’t matter if the person or the squad, as a rule, is richly senior for his partner. Moreover, the age interval between a person and a squad can be different from seven, up to twenty and more years. One of them will be friends with his behavior from the position of a child, bezvіdpovidalno and primhlyvoj, and the other - її indulge, opіkuєє, pіkluєtsya, but also control, vikhovuє, rolyachi vіlyakі respect. One of the bets in the role of "grown-up" puts on all the obov'yazki to solve the greater part of life's problems, repairing financial security, ending with some organizational nourishment.
As a rule, such a characteristic is mutually familiar to our young squads and their possible people of a mature age, or, in times, if weak, infantile and not self-reliant young people enter into an alliance with more mature dominant women, they sound like “pull everything on your own”.
So, together, they can be shamelessly continue to do it for a long time. Ruinuvatsya tsya idiliya will be less at the peak, if the person - "child" is more "grown up". You will step by step become a burden of transcendental opіka and constant control. Dominating partner viklikatime less razdratuvannya. What can cause the collapse of such mutual relations.
Classical tyranny
Sims of this type have only one specialty - a strong and powerful person - a tyrant. Interests and needs of other members of the family are not taken to the point of respect, between their special features, they roam, succumbing to the might of a tyrant-dictator.
A dominating person or a squad will control the skin of the skin of the members of this family, showing home, how to behave, how to work, how to plan your day. The tyrant methodically and not without satisfaction instructing reshti їх nedolіki. You are the only one who manages your own budget, showing your other half, like earning pennies.
Such sim'yah often zustrichaetsya and assault. You can’t feel comfortable for a long time with such a family way of life. Classical tyranny in the norm can only be used at the cob stage of mutual stagnation, and as such, this type of mutual stagnation can continue for a long time in the presence of a large number of factors.
Vzaєmini - "deposit in depletion"
Traplyayutsya, if there are alcoholics, drug addicts, gamblers and other fallow categories of people. In my opinion, the fallow man is subordinating himself to all members of his own family, so I don’t think about their needs. Spіvzalezhnі at tsіy sіm'ї occupied only with the problems of fallow. Using the rest of the strength to fight yoga, break it, turn it into a fatal addiction, the stench will inadvertently indulge yourself normal life donate to your welfare.
In such sims, assault can be rampant, right up to the tragic ending. Sim'ya in such vipadkah can be saved only once, if the fallow people have a serious reason to overcome their addiction once and for all. Luckily, such stories are rarely trapped. As a rule, they collapse, if the patience of a dependent person comes to an end.
"Leather by itself" or rose'dnana sim'ya
Such sіm'ї іnоdі are given to a third-party eye even more prosperous. Here, there are more clearly divided between friends. Leather from them, practically, we live our own lives, we live independently as a partner, not zazіhayuchi on the interests of the freedom of others. Most of all, it’s a woeful “civilian slub” or a guest slub, where one partner, more like a woman, respects his wife, and the other is a man, respects himself freely. Ridshe - navpak. A person and a team can live together one at a time, in different places, in different countries.
So sіm'ї can іsnuvati to finish a long hour, but аlе and tsim vаєminam come to an end. The reasons for the opening are impersonal. Most often, one of the partners is changing, and from the other side, the characteristics of their so-called “slub” are changing. Insanely, each partner tries to change his half, look at his own, look at his own family through the prism of his new values. However, do not start supporting the savings of this.
Friendly vzaєmini (brotherly-sisterly)
It sounds rich, however, it is not like this for others to be called for rozryv. It would have been better if a person had a miraculous mutual team, splendid interests, like sleeping robot otherwise the goal is to go to the stench. The stench of the building is not bad to understand one by one without words. But brotherly-sisterly blues include between partners mutually heavy, bodily passion. There is no room for sex here. That is why the collapse of such a family is most likely, if one of the friends knows a person, like a call in a new storm of emotions, sexually banished, like a lesser partner is not a building bov viklikati.
Vіdnosini "Fireworks"
Here both dosit emotional specialties and allow for artistic zdibnosti. The man and the squad are constantly fighting one by one. Tsya sіm'ya is a volcano of the Italian la famiglia. None of these people can do anything. How to sleep Svyatoslav Vakarchuk: I will not give up without a fight! Here, all the problems and incomprehensible things are escalating in a path of great scandals. With snarky z'yasuvannyami stosunkіv їх not zdivuєsh. Be it as if “scene to the fountain” here the summaries of sudіds are standing and blamed on the їhnіy suvory and do not start an objective court.
However, after the turbulent welding, there is also an eccentric reconciliation. The man and the squad took off an indecent emotional discharge, so they moved, weeped, splashing their negativity. And now, like nothing happened, the stench is ready to live together, before the new welding, you can’t get in. Naytsіkavіshe, the skin of partners vvazhaє your own family is completely safe and do not waste your share.
How long can I wake up like this? Yes, wait a long time. Offending people, as if they were living alone with their emotions and living together harmoniously, as if they were able to, however, here is a bar to feed the thoughts of their susidis, as if they were only not to speak: lookers, arbitrators before the thunderous death. Why didn’t people get tired and unfortunate, who endured the whole firework of emotions? And if you don’t want to stink, you don’t want to get stuck in the turmoil of stosunkivs anymore, ryatuyuchi one of the friends in the other, giving them, or all the same, make peace yourself, or beat one of the one, in order to find peace in the other house?
Tipi vzaimovidnosin ta їkh infusion on children
The skin of the characteristics of family relationships, naturally, imposes its influence on the mental, mental, moral development of the child, as it grows in families with the clasification.
In these cases, with be-yakim disharmonious signs of the temple, the ability of the fact that these peculiarities of your mutually lead to a serious school of psycho-emotional and moral development of your child. Yogo and without that, the child's psyche tends to be under the influence unhealthy children at sim'ї, zaznіuchi often inaccurate naslіdkіv і zavdayuchi your child of serious mental trauma.
So in a child, as a tyrant grew up in a sim, they can develop gracefulness to sadism, mental disorders of various classifications. At that hour, like a traditional family, de vzaєmini, close to ideal, as a rule, a calm, mature child, with normal self-esteem, as a result of the year you can grow up into a successful self-sufficient specialty.
The fallacy of the characteristics of the medium of vihovannya
Sereda factor, they’re fuel on the liveliness of siM'i, it is safely їAnuvannya, visible: riven Vikhovannya, evasive partners, chitti oriyntiri, moral relaying, yaki Cholovik. . Depending on the fact that all the higher-ranking minds are running out, it is possible to lay down the possibility of this to the point in one straight, to a constructive resolution of conflict situations, to a harmonic basis and development.
As a rule, mayzhe zhoden іzche describ іvіvіv іmіnih zaєmin not zustrichaєtsya in prirodі in a crystal-clear look. So, before the characteristics of the traditional family, often they are brotherly-sisterly mutually, and the common ones are mutually irritated, which, to supplement the destruction, are manifestations of tyranny. Tse naturally complicates the tasks of a psychologist, which can solve the problem of coordinating the mutually taken sim's. Comfortable, but not distressing. Therefore, for the sake of harmony, that comfortable foundation of your mutual relations can and should be turned to a competent fahivtsya. As it seems, the road is healthy for the one who goes. Therefore, having recognized the alarming signs of disharmony in your family union, try to deprive yourself of all your strength to bring your stosunki to the level of happiness. So, on the right, it’s not simple, but a light candle.
Fathers and children
Skilki is written, skilki is said about stosunki between fathers and children. And viz i ninі there.
Skilki is written, skilki is said about stosunki between fathers and children. And viz i ninі there. Even more fathers are dissatisfied with their children, they criticize their actions and want to live for them.
In his line, children quietly hate their fathers for being involved in their life, for controlling that manipulation, for scandals that dokori.
And such a situation is already three thousand years old, and more than for everything, it appeared at once for the blame of the people.
Zvichayno, іsnuyut not richly happy homelands, de mіzh batkami and children panuє povaga and pozaminnya. I want to believe that there are more such families. Ale, in this article, I want to bump into the most destructive families. Sіmey, like mischief to the normal and vil development of a person as special.
Otzhe, yakі see mutually buvayut sіm'yah.
1. Old men are tyrants. The fathers are trying again to order their own will of the children. The stench of the control of the skin їhnіy krok, kozhen vchinok. Zvichaynno well, pretending to be rozmov about that turbota. Ale kokhannya is not in control and does not disdain. Spravzhnє kokhannya to believe and pіdtremuіє, nothing not vimagayuchi natomіst. And how many fathers didn’t change for themselves that otochyuchy, that stench bazhayut children only goodness, stench follow only one method - new control over the lives of their child. What are the options for the development of such a family? A child, otherwise, comes out of sim'ї, so that you can take the opportunity to live your life. Otherwise, I will obey my will to the fathers and transform into “roslina”. Unfortunately, the first option is not ideal, so as the greatest vipadkivs of the child are deprived of the image of the father for all life, and it will be possible to vibudovuvatime at their own future family, like a child’s posterity.
2. Weak and characterless dads. Tse fathers, as they have not achieved anything from life, and apparently they can not give anything to their children. Such fathers do not have authority for their fathers. Such families often grow up to control and manipulate their fathers. From such children grow yakі vzaєmini have sim socially unadapted grown up. Hotch, zvichayno, buvayut blame.
3. Batki are friends. A bad option for family stosunkiv. If you have such fathers, take care that you were spared. Such fathers trust their children, allow them to live their independent lives. Such fathers often look young for their age, cackle like suffocated youth. So the fathers of the garni tim, who want not to zavazhayut to develop their children, not to intervene in their special life, deprive them of sufficient space for freedom and development.
4. Soulless dads. These are deplorable and deeply unhappy people who cannot and cannot love. For them, children are no more, no more than the same problems. They don’t hug, don’t kiss, don’t show their children good words. You can feel them: “We gave birth to you now. Thou us all life zіpsuvav (la)". Children from such families have 2 variants of the future. The stench also in life does not show everyday feelings and in the face of whom they suffer like a stink, so it is sharpened. But the child firmly believes that everything will be different in the new. Often the children of such families in the future become even more loving and lazy fathers.
5. I, perhaps, the most optimal option, fathers are mentors. Such fathers really take care of their children. The stench is not just to see them at the gardens, then we will go to school, to the institute. And then we’ll raise our hands, why, having said, we don’t have children with our fathers - mentors to chirp with their children, mate with them, praise whether it’s their choice, with which they help to make the right decision. Such fathers from childhood guard for the interests of their children, and help them already in early age know your call. So the fathers can’t say to their child: go and learn and practice here, because I wanted to in my youth, and now you realize my dream. Such fathers do not in any way manipulate their children, frightening them to work those who respect the fathers for their needs. Fathers - mentors give a new choice to the development of their child, with whom they help, suggest, shy everything so that the child knows his own life of power. It's a great pity, there are few such fathers. Maybe to the one who understands physics, mathematics, literature and other sometimes stupid speeches in the world, but no one can read us, like being such fathers, like being able to writhe in a right way happy and harmonious children.
It's no secret that a lot of people protyazhuyut svogo svogo zhittya prodzhuyut in this chi іnshіy formіy suffering through stosunki with fathers. Htos vіdmovlyaєtsya chi unique splkuvannya. Inshi postyno weld, scandalize that z'yasovuyet among themselves stosunki. And the deacons choose the option of a pokirnoi and pokirnoi child, as if imitating beautiful family girls, and secretly hating their fathers for their life that was not far off formed. Well, if you have really warm and wide stosunki with fathers, then I will warm you up. Although there is already a great sense of the fact that you simply do not see the inflow of fathers into your own independent choice and do not mark the attached manipulation. I want to be better for you.