The man does not commemorate his son. psychology
The food about the importance of the mother's marriage of a girl, unfortunately, is not given due respect in the household, as traditionally, mother's daughter's birth is given priority.
And it’s true, however, that these are the key moments of the girl’s twining, the strength to lie on the father’s side, and mother, as if she didn’t swear, you can’t replace the tata in them.
On the right, in the fact that the very stosunki with the father dokorinno pour into the molding of the daughter as a future woman, on the other hand, together with the people, that choice is the companion of life. All factors are long-term in the life of a woman.
Let's take a look at the report: how to pour stosunki with tatom into the daughter's share.
Let's just say that the father is the first and most important character of a person in the life of his daughter. Colossal vіdpovidalnіst. Yakby all fathers її persuaded ...
Batkivsky image that mutually "daddy-daughter" set in the children's rich program of installations on the connection of an already grown-up woman with an opposite status. Good, as the installations and programs are correct and correct. Why don't you?
In the life of a daughter who has grown up, problems of a different nature can be blamed. Let's try to get to know each other.
It is acceptable to have an ideal option: all the same, fathers at once take the fate of a twinned daughter, stosunki in this accordion, tato - wise and loving.
Obviously, it’s important to understand the father’s love, it looks like a mother’s. Ale navit strimane, not even emotionally zabarvlene kohannya dad vodchuvaetsya, priymaetsya and vbiraetsya donkoy. A daughter for a loving dad is a princess, a whole lot (and even more so) an ideal woman’s creation: the most beautiful, the most beloved, the most beautiful ... for everything and forever, all the pride, all the light of the soul.
At my heart, my father's kohannya gives the girls a sense of protection, security, self-esteem, self-worth; develops femininity, privability, demand and success.
Instructed by a loving father, the girl grows up, rozumiyuchi, that there is a varta of love in the opposite state. If the daughter succumbs, she knows that she herself significant person in life, father, to love and accept such, as it is, a girl to learn to love and accept for yourself, and what is important - to learn to accept love and respect to your own status.
Father for the girl tse ciliy SVIT. And if you love this world and accept it, always ready to help and defend it, then nothing is scary. You will go out of your life without fear, you know that everything will be good, you will always know support and support, even if the whole world is on її botsі.
The program is positive, adopted in childhood, pracyuvatime by stretching the life for the benefit of an already mature woman.
Such a woman is attractive loving people, How to become a supporter for her, a support in life and will be pissed off about her.
Another important aspect of the girl's marriage is the appointment of the father to the mother.
Girls need to be able to love their mother. Keeping the love of the father to the mother, the skin of the child is safe, joyful, happy and the harmony of the world. Be it showing dislike for the mother from the side of the father, the father of the daughters of the bіl, which accumulates, may become an inexhaustible wall at the hundred-sacks, the father and the little ones.
Dear fathers, it is important to show mothers how to show them to their daughters, by which rank a man shows love and respect for a woman. So, a girl develops a model between a man and a woman, like she won for all life, like other models are mutually with a sіm'ї.
Like “love and respect” in this case, it is manifested in a look of discontent, reasons or rudeness, if you learn this lesson: such a model of a hundred years is natural for a woman, as she has grown up in the future.
You remembered that all of our roses periodically turn up to the bowl. Like a girl, a deficit, or the daytime of the Batkiv’s kohanny, she grows unsung in herself, downtrodden, downtrodden, closed, or, on the contrary, outright aggressive, like a denial and ignorance of a person’s day.
Yak is often young garnu girl to change the fact that she is beautiful, intelligent, good love and respect for the protilege state, at that hour, as a familiar sound, an unremarkable girlfriend calls out interest in young people, it is free to associate with them and not be complexed with the drive of their own smallness.
The girl, as if in her childhood she felt the absence of her father's respect and love, she grew up with a sense of her lack of defense, with fear of the majestic world and the intransigence of life. Everything is given by a great special practice, to those who won’t be able to ask for help, don’t check for support and rely only on themselves. Success in life becomes difficult right. The special life is also not easy to develop.
Alertness and dislike of people, often lead a woman to control over a person, suffocation, calling the wines of people's shoes. It is especially often heard at the vapadka, if the girl was more than a mother, like “taxes on herself all the hardships of life”, or if the father is in sim'ї hoch and buv, but the mother had to “yell” at the stosunkas for an entire hour.
Buvay, that the woman obtrusively whispers the respect of the protilege state, is accessible and not overly selective at the junctions, easily joins the woman with the people, as if showing respect to her. Vaughn shukaє kokhannya and llєtsya to all, who will say їy compliment or lagidne word.
Abo, you want to bring your wife’s behavior all the hour, how good she is and that’s a varta of love. And all її lives are transformed into a social exercise “to live up to you” in ochіkuvannі vаgі and lyubovі vіdpovіd. Some women torment a man with fast food: do you love me? Abo: tell me you love me! Others - they suffer quietly and weep heartily in the face of roses.
Buvay, and so, that a woman is afraid of a hundred years from a man, not able to vibudovuvat, uniqe connection from the opposite status. Vaughn “strike” into the car, sometimes vzagali vіdmovlyаєєєєєєєєєєєє svoobistogo zhittya i sіm’ї sіm’ї. Navischo їy man, the woman is true, she is strong and she herself can reach.
Distortions in the life of a woman, who grew up without her father's kohannya, that respect, maybe even richer. Skіlki zhittіv, stіlki that unique dosvіdu.
A few women, after reading this article, say: well, what is work now? Childhood has already passed, life did not turn out the way it wanted, nothing was wrong. Really, we don’t call it that.
First, it’s necessary - feel sorry for yourself, that I regret the drive of a distant special life. And for some reason, the lessons of life were needed.
Friend, respectfully applaud the past for a priceless verdict, probate the father (vreshti-resht, vin zdijsniv his smut recognition - you appeared in the world), admit everything, marvel at your inner child with love, understand, grow up and proceed to work on yourself.
Step by step start to change life. It’s even better that you improve your health. Adzhe is not a secret that one of the most common causes of women's ailments is the accumulated image of people, which is based on the problematic situation with the father.
I believe that my father, who, having read this article to the end, loves his daughter. However, it is important for people to express their feelings emotionally, even if emotions are more powerful for women and children.
To that, for the end, I want to learn more about what was said and give recommendations to the fathers:
- Remember, the daughter will require the Batkiv's kohanny not less than the mother's. In your father's butt to lie down, how to build up її grown up with cholovіkami, whomever you choose from a cholovіka, and, later, like a link with cym, її special life develops.
- Stand with love for your daughter's mother. The daughter is guilty of a love butt and a povaga between a man and a woman in the individual її batkіv. Thus, the basic model of the future mutual relationship between your daughter and people is laid down.
- Show trust to your daughter, talk to her about її problems, pikluvatisya, be a guarantor of the most important moments of your life, remember the kill comes in, respect її choice.
- Reveal the warmth of the girls with your daughter, hug, say compliments, groan, give gifts, be generous.
- Uniquely protect the protection of your daughter. If there is too much Batkiv kohanny, the girl can develop a strong emotional staleness in the father, who is not less than a shkodi, but not a lack of the Batkiv kokhannya.
- Show that wide interest until the life of the donka, spend an hour at once (look at the theater, go to exhibitions and concerts, be holy; listen to the music, how to love it; chirping at the chimney that you are crying for; breathe on the development and develop yourself).
- Be strict, if necessary, but obov'yazkovo - we are wise and fair. Punish with love without anger, explaining your actions.
- Don't allow your daughter's curiosity!
- Respect your specialty in your daughter, it’s still very small.
- Be positive, develop a little humor.
- Be a good human butt! Want the femininity of your daughter. Remember, you yourself respectful person the life of a little woman, growing up, is your daughter. She will marvel at you with a piercing look and accept life decisions. early age. Chi do not miss the childishness of your daughter!
So, if the mother of the lad lad is dying before me, who doesn’t want to learn that the mother of the lad is the lad, it seems like “you don’t love wine!” » You are given reluctantly and a little bit of arrogance: how much you talk, here you don’t understand the essence of food: “Nothing. We are not alive at once." Abo is like this: "Everything is fine with us!"
I don’t think: “And how do you put yourself up to the new one, to the man of your own?” “But I won’t lie down until the next one! What do you care about? And what is the cost of my food?”
That's right! Docks are not turbulent for you, why are you up to the new, colossal chi of the smallest person are put in the wrong way, your son is rotten to read, and your daughter, maybe a little old father, what you feel.
Why don’t you do it like that, if you are robish of someone empty bowl for yourself, if someone is robish with a “neat stool”, as if you can’t worry about your mother, then you’ll take it otherwise. You throw znevagu, baiduzhist, pride, bestiality, anger, vzhalit. Your word to youmu is disgusting.
And the guards want kohannya, pennies, respect, turboti, intercession, zakhista. Nі, ni, zvichayno, not for yourself! For a kid! All for kids! Looks like a person, in whose life that znevaga is only wiped away, and most of all, I don’t want to rahuvat for a person. Price is not equal exchange. So don't.
You take away only those who look like you. If you don’t know what hurts more - your ignorance of the words.
If you don’t want to think about it, delve into it, sort it out, change it, it means that you can work more painfully. If you don’t growl, you will hurt even more. Through a child.
For the most part, ignoring the sleeping child, її pochuttіv - tse mirroring the setting of the child's mother to the father.
The mother does not want to be a little bit different. I want to call, change, call to conscience. Vaughn to rob exactly those same ones who robbed if you want to rob її mothers. Hundreds of his own man. Sounds, vikrivaє, narіkaє new. Vaughn repeats what that chula used to do at her childhood.
This is the theme of confession of one's own good mother, as she obviously hated her own man. Tse z vlasnoi batkivskoi sim'ї, de Bulo rich indirect aggression. Postiyno. Between a man and a woman.
All other situations in a grown-up daughter are simply brought up in order to continue. Hatred to a man. Nedovira. P_dozr. Znevaga. All other situations are just for confirmation.
All the roles have already been registered for a long time. How guilty it is to behave out, as it is guilty to behave wine. The script is ready. There was no more need to implement it.
Marvel at the script. And not on the behavior of a damned person. Abo is the behavior of an okremoї child. Vіdpovіdі everything in the script. And the dialogues are like a carbon copy.
As long as it is necessary to remould and remould a person, a colossal chi of the ninth, continue to re-examine, lead to clean water - it is impossible to help children. And in the distant recesses of my memory, all the dialogues are already recorded. He lost a little of his piss and instilled those who were before them. Between a man and a woman.
I took care of everything that was given to look after a child, more comfortable special professional life, richly seeing fallows - it will be tight for the father. Batkovi, like a Yomu, a child, did not stick. Not to the one who was separated from the fathers, but to the one who ignored the father for the whole hour, persecuted, slandered, belittled, quarreled, showed that he was unworthy, and that father had a chance to be driven away. Nature does not tolerate empty. There, de maє buti dad - empty. The first deputy of the father is a destructive problem.
Everything starts from the mother. Marvel at how the father is put up to the children, and you know how the women of this family are put up to the people. Not those, how to stink about talking about it, but those that are in their souls. Hundreds of people. Kolishny. But the worst.
So, if the mother of the lad lad is dying before me, who doesn’t want to learn that the mother of the lad is the lad, it seems like “you don’t love wine!” » You are given reluctantly and a little bit of arrogance: how much you talk, here you don’t understand the essence of food: “Nothing. We are not alive at once." Abo is like this: "Everything is fine with us!"
I don’t think: “And how do you put yourself up to the new one, to the man of your own?” “But I won’t lie down until the next one! What do you care about? And what is the cost of my food?”
That's right! Docks are not turbulent for you, why are you up to the new, colossal chi of the smallest person are put in the wrong way, your son is rotten to read, and your daughter, maybe a little old father, what you feel.
To the one you don’t feel like that, if you rob someone with an empty place for yourself, if you rob someone with an “inconspicuous stool”, as if you can’t worry about your mother, then you’ll take it otherwise. You throw znevagu, baiduzhist, pride, bestiality, anger, vzhalit. Your word to youmu is disgusting.
And the guards want kohannya, pennies, respect, turboti, intercession, zakhista. Nі, ni, zvichayno, not for yourself! For a kid! All for kids! Looks like a person, in whose life that znevaga is only wiped away, and most of all, I don’t want to rahuvat for a person. Price is not equal exchange. So don't.
You take away only those who look like you. If you don’t know what hurts more - your ignorance of the words.
If you don’t want to think about it, delve into it, sort it out, change it, it means that you can work more painfully. If you don’t growl, you will hurt even more. Through a child.
For the most part, ignoring the sleeping child, її pochuttіv - tse mirroring the setting of the child's mother to the father.
The mother does not want to be a little bit different. I want to call, change, call to conscience. Vaughn to rob exactly those same ones who robbed if you want to rob її mothers. Hundreds of his own man. Sounds, vikrivaє, narіkaє new. Vaughn repeats what that chula used to do at her childhood.
This is the theme of confession of one's own good mother, as she obviously hated her own man. Tse z vlasnoi batkivskoi sim'ї, de Bulo rich indirect aggression. Postiyno. Between a man and a woman.
All other situations in a grown-up daughter are simply brought up in order to continue. Hatred to a man. Nedovira. P_dozr. Znevaga. All other situations are just for confirmation.
All the roles have already been registered for a long time. How guilty it is to behave out, as it is guilty to behave wine. The script is ready. There was no more need to implement it.
Marvel at the script. And not on the behavior of a damned person. Abo is the behavior of an okremoї child. Vіdpovіdі everything in the script. And the dialogues are like a carbon copy.
As long as it is necessary to remould and remould a person, a colossal chi of the ninth, continue to re-examine, lead to clean water - it is impossible to help children. And in the distant recesses of my memory, all the dialogues are already recorded. He lost a little of his piss and instilled those who were before them. Between a man and a woman.
I took care of everything that was given to look after a child, more comfortable special professional life, richly seeing fallows - it will be tight for the father. Batkovi, like a Yomu, a child, did not stick. Not to the one who was separated from the fathers, but to the one who ignored the father for the whole hour, persecuted, slandered, belittled, quarreled, showed that he was unworthy, and that father had a chance to be driven away. Nature does not tolerate empty. There, de maє buti dad - empty. The first deputy of the father is a destructive problem.
Everything starts from the mother. Marvel at how the father is put up to the children, and you know how the women of this family are put up to the people. Not those, how to stink about talking about it, but those that are in their souls. Hundreds of people. Kolishny. But the worst.
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I want a leather woman, so that її sim'ї always had love, peace, trust that understanding. Moreover, not only among friends, but also between fathers and children. Prote such a family idyll - tse sooner mriya, lower reality. In life, the problem of fathers and children, like before, is relevant. The stubborn statistics prove that Tata herself most often does not know how to understand her children. And more and more often women complain that a man does not remember his son or daughter.
Naturally, the situation, if the father does not come out to encourage equal, dovirchi vіdnosiny with your children, you can’t name a simple one. Prote, if a person seems to be trying to correct the situation, working on himself, trying to learn how to be equal to join with the growing generation - this instills hope in a woman, who will know spilnu mova. More folded, if a person does not want to recognize his own instilling a lot of obvious pardons, like a stench they allow the process of waving children. Vіn stubbornly strives for an authoritarian style splintering with your own bait, constantly pochayuchi and ticking їх, not allowing you to instill thoughts that you can’t make any thought, but you can only be true. Sometimes it’s important to know the arguments to beat such a hard-nosed one.
But the worst, if a person vpritul does not mention his children as one of them. At the squad, the mother of such a person’s appointment to their children calls out the right rose. Why do people ignore quietly, who brings us joy and happiness?
As if your family has one child, or more, and to all people it is still baiduzhy - you can admit that you got a person with the so-called unaccountable father's instinct. If a child is called a god, then you can be sure that you love your little one. It’s just that you are still afraid of yoga, you don’t know what to work with him and don’t understand, how to deal with him. It’s possible, after an hour, calling to the little one, the father learns to take care of him and take care of the satisfaction with the process. However, if a child (a child) has long grown from pelyushok, and the father did not appear to be able to communicate with them, then it’s unlikely that the guards are varto, if they prick the yogo shutter to their own son, it will radically change into a bazhany bek. And how does this Sim already have more than one baby? І їhnіy dad all the same “breathing evenly” before any of them?
It turns out that such a situation has been calling you for a long time. And, singly, you already repeatedly tried to talk to a person on this topic. And, maybe, they didn’t smell anything sensible in the face of a person. As a rule, in sim'ї, devihouvavsya your chelovek, setting the father to the children was the flooring and baiduzhim, and tse your chelovek transferred from his familial. Yogo was not taught to love children, to take away the salt in the face of splintering them, and to feel the buzz just in view of the fact that they stink. It is possible, if a person does not want, that your family has acquired a child at that stage of life, if the stench was born, otherwise it would not be ready for that. To that, all yoga is to oppose, and stubbornly ignoring the child, it is possible to inspire you on the platform.
You see miraculously understand that it is impossible to make a person fall in love with someone by force, to learn how to go about their children! You can only cherish a woman, as if she were a zamіzh for a person, so infantile in terms of age to her blues. Scandals, hysterics, ultimatums are unlikely to help correct the situation, the person becomes even more embittered, and instead of respect for the children, you take away the pain of the father’s side at your address. Do not give up, but slowly, slowly, hatefully, like a bi among others, initiate the union of a person with children. Dose yoga, for more hours, like spending a person with a child's conscience, step by step, imperceptibly. Bazhano, so that the conversation called out positive, positive emotions in children, and in your person, but at the same time, not annoyed or irritated. Nothing guarantees you 100% success, but it’s necessary to try to lead a person on a positive-emotional basis.
Let's look at another situation. If there are different children in the same family, and the father does not shy away from the Donka, and only succumb to the son. Abo man does not respond to a single daughter. It’s better for everything, here it’s possible to rozcharuvannya, like having recognized the father, if the deputy of the son of a son appeared in the world. Most of the time, after the people of the girl, to make a father really want a lad, people in the city with an hour of "re-advantagment" and love the little soul with all their hearts, generously reappear. Ale bovaє navpaki. The father of the floor is obsessed with the fact that you can love only your son in a right way, for which you can grow up to be a “right man”, and not like a snotty girl, who in no way can you mate with your daughter. With the help of wine, you can’t give a donation of brown and valuable, and a woman can take care of the girls.
The situation is even more amazing if a person does not mark his son. Especially as a shim'ї sche є donka, until the father is put as a whole good. Perhaps, the whole story is with the one who does not believe in wine, what is his own son? Especially when you see the blue among the fathers of the lad, the boules are foldable and distrustful, and the lad is not similar to a man. In such a situation, it is important to give for the sake of the woman, even if she knows, what is so true, what is just the thought of a jealous person, if you do not care for the greedy soil.
If it wasn’t there, try to wake up your father’s feelings at your squad. Even if it’s not an easy task, if you run into it, then a good gift for you will be a mutually loving father of your children.
"Our family's instinct is often blocked," says psychologist Oleksandr Vikulov with regret. - "From early childhood, the lads are given a fence to show emotions. And a turbot about children often looks like a busy person in the upholstery, a "right" person is not good. Even if there is no contact with a child, then the father’s life baggage is left unclaimed.
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What can give a child tato, cream, vibatch, genetic material?
1.Feel like stealing. Father is great, strong, faith in yoga is majestic in early childhood. The person who grew up around them is more than a stance in front of the bad guys. Adzhe vіdchuttya pіdtrimki, recorded in pіdsvіdomі z dіtinstva, naymіtsnіshe.
2. Model of human behavior. The boy is inherited by the father. The girl on the butt of the tata touches the secrets of human psychology, and also, it will be easier for a girl. І children tієї and іnshої statі otrimuyut first notification about family life- buttya, special vіdnosini.
3. Batkivska pidtrimka is a miracle ticket to life. Mothers love us without any minds, but tato are ambitious. We are jealous of our defeats and defeats, they write, if we show arrogance and character, they want those traits in us, as if they help us achieve success in life.
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Signs of the father's incompatibility
1. Uncertainty. This may be a weak statement about friends, suffocation, the school of success, problems, the health of the child.
2. Dissatisfied with the child. Vlasne offspring are born lazy, unfriendly. Batko dorikaє sinovі or daughters without povag. Vіn often goes to the imperceptible for the child porіvnyan: “I am at your vіtsі…”
3. The impromptu father often cares that children are pampered by mothers, grandma, piss that TV tower. So papi vvazhayut, that zhnіy priyatlivy vplyv on the child block and lead to navіvets like zvnіshnі forces.
4. Showing interest in children. Play with him tedious. The lessons of robiti - netikavo. Everything that a child says is considered to be foolish, something that is busy - rubbish, and accessibility - insubstantial.
5. Problems with splkuvanni. Batko doesn't know how to turn around to the kiddies, how to properly supply power. Often, trying to contact turns into a conflict. Such a tato often goes, for example, to help the middle-class squad: “Well, tell you ...” And if you don’t stick with a child, you’ll immediately say: “I’m rude to me!”
6. The impromptu dad has a zhorstki ochіkuvannya schodo child.“The lad is guilty of learning to fight”, “The girl obov'yazkovo can graduate from a music school”.
7. The change is right.“From swearing, pidesh pratsyuvati. Todi y speak. And now for you I'll tell you!
8.An impromptu father rarely praises a child. Do not piss off your son, for the sake of yoga peace that strength. Daughters do not rob compliments, do not mark new marriages. Not bad, if children can be shy for him. He himself is not generous with surprises.
9. Nezdatnіst reportedly describe the soundness of a child. Deyakі tata cannot guess what kind of clothes children wear, their manners, peculiarities of language, inspire the sight of that color of eyes.
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How to promote the Batkivsky plea that authority
- Increase the hour of the meeting if you want to get to the next day for the day.
- Change the style of the split. The supply needs to be put straight, from the interest of the child, and not in the form of zakidiv. And if the interest is manifested, it is important to change over to them, who praise the children. It is possible less for a living splkuvanni. Sometimes, just change the situation. “This year, I’ve got my lad on the bus in a vipadkovo,” one tato was excited about me. - We talked so well!
- Share the bedroom on the right. You can go on a hike, go fishing, take an excursion to the court place, something to do at once.
- It is important to put a note about those that you can pass on to your sons or daughters. What have you achieved, what knowledge have you accumulated, what can you do to help your children, how can you help them develop their education, how can I help them propagate?
And how many of your people delve into the education of children?
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